Cool Accessories For Men [“Attract Girls By Peacocking”]

Some of Kenny PUA's actual accessories

Some of Kenny PUA’s actual accessories


A Seduction Community concept where the PUA wears accessory(ies) or clothing item(s) which will attract women to talk to him.

That item or accessory is usually colorful, shiny, interesting and stands out.

Think of a peacock in comparison to a rooster cock: the peacock is more colorful, radiant, attractive and demands more attention.

What would be more attractive to anyone (irrespective of gender): something bland or something colorfully decorated?

Hence the seduction community’s concept of “Peacocking”.

*Peacock Theory by PUA Lingo broken down by dating coach Alpha Wolf.

*Use Peacocking correctly by PUA coach Alex Becker.

Why Should I Peacock?

You don’t have to in fact.

But the benefits outweigh the cons by a ton.

Wearing an interesting, strange piece of item is a great way for the target (the woman) to strike up a conversation with you.

It gives her a reason to open you (initiate the chat).

Mystery, the Godfather of the PUA community, he's peacocking with the strange hat, black nails and interesting necklace and pendant.

Mystery, the Godfather of the PUA community, he’s peacocking with the strange hat, black nails and interesting necklace and pendant.

On the contrary, wearing NOTHING interesting will give girls ZERO reasons to strike up a convo with you.

What Is Not Considered Peacocking

Gold, silver chains and plain bracelets are not peacocking items!

Or at least, they are bad examples of peacocking.

Anything that is too common would not be a good source of peacocking to attract women.

A chain around the neck is way too common to attract any attention from hot chics.

Same goes for gold, silver or platinum bracelets.

A hot chic is not gonna see you @ the bar counter ordering drinks and say to you, “Nice bracelet”.

Beaded bracelets however (colorful ones, or ones made of ornaments or shells) will be a better choice.

The Magic Of Peacocking (whenever I’m in-field)

Every single time I go out (bar, club or even grocery shopping) ,1 thing is almost guaranteed to happen: young-hot chics commenting on my peacocking.

For instance, I wear multi-colored shoelaces in my sneakers (Converses).

According to my entire wardrobe, the laces will match and coordinate (yellow & white, blue & white, green & black, etc.).

Actual peer of my ash-black colored Converses with blue & white laces to match my outfit.

Actual peer of my ash-black colored Converses with blue & white laces to match my outfit.

It’s almost 100% guarantee that whenever I enter a lit place (store, bus, office building), at least 2-3 sets of girls will say something like this (about my shoes/laces):

“Wow, I want sneakers just like yours”!

“Where did you get em”?

“I like your shoes”.

“Hey Jessica [motioning to her girlfriend], look at his laces. Hot right”?

Peacocking In The Bars & Clubs

My absolute favorite item to peacock with in nightclubs is those glow-in-the dark necklace thingies that you put in the fridge.

I honestly don’t know the fucking name! 🙂

Glow in the dark necklaces for kids.

Glow in the dark necklaces for kids.

These MOFO’s are like my best friend @ the club [fuck a wingman]!

Simple, inexpensive, yet so powerful!

Hot chicks in my circumference will say to me:

“Why are you wearing kid stuff in the club”?

“Can I hold your glow-in-the dark thing”?

Then it’s on like Donkey Kong!!

Another great example of how peacocking with simple, cheap accessories and items can have women initiate conversation with you.

What Peacocking Is “NOT”

•It’s not a form of showing off.

•It’s not attention-seeking.

•It’s not trying to stand out and seem like an outcast.

The intended purpose of Peacocking is to:

1.) Separate yourself from the average Joes who are bland-looking.

2.) Give HB’s (women) reasons to strike up conversations with you.

3.) Give her something to comment on (your interesting accessory) during the conversation.

Peacocking Items And Accessories You Can Buy:

Wear 1 of those happy birthday hats (for children) to the bar or club (if they permit it).

That’s sure to get women saying to you:

“Happy Birthday, congratulations”!

“Hey birthday boy”!

At the bar,these are chic magnets to entice her to open you and start conversation.

At the bar, these are chic magnets to entice her to open you and start conversation.

Pant/pocket chain

Pants/pocket chain

Removable-belt buckles

Removable-belt buckles

Leather wristbands

Leather wristbands

Women love to comment on pendants

Women love to comment on pendants

Simple beeded-bracelet(1-rowed)

Simple beeded-bracelet (1-rowed)

Multi-rowed beeded bracelet

Multi-rowed beeded bracelet

Other items you can peacock with:


•Shades (colorful ones)






•Mardi-Gras necklaces

Kenny testing out peacocking with cool shades.

Mystery talks about peacocking.

James Rosier tests out some peacocking on the streets.

33 thoughts on “Cool Accessories For Men [“Attract Girls By Peacocking”]

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  1. Most guys forget about to most obvious piece of peacocking, being in good shape!!! Being in good shape helps ALOT….


    1. Yea that’s a pretty solid way to peacock with shoes.

      It works wonders in Day Game opposed to nights and night venues where it’d be harder to see your shoes.


      1. Agree. I think being able to peacock is being able to stand out and be able to take that pressure the society puts on people who stands out.

        And of course, giving girls easy way to comment on something and start conversation is another significant bonus.


        1. I never really looked at peacocking closely(the mechanics),but now that you eluded to it,it’s quite ingenius lol!

          We all know that chics don’t open men.But Peacocking seems to be probably the only way a chic would open a guy.Think about it.


    1. Lmao @ first,you probably thought it was just a term I made up or really talking about peacocks lol.

      Every pick-up artist lives by it.At least successful ones.

      2 thumbs up @ creative.

      But guys go all out with peacocking at times.Like Mystery would wear goggles to the club.But it will get him attention and women would talk to him either to ask him why is he wearing goggles(at a club).


  2. No, but I do forget to zip up my pants a lot for some reason. Usually girls will say something. Oops!

    The biggest thing I think is important with this method is to wear something that the girl will want to comment on. In my area for example, there are a ton of guys wearing huge, and I really mean HUGE watches. In another setting this might attract a huge amount of attention, but in this setting it really doesn’t because it’s so common. Usually just dressing up even a little bit gets comments from girls. They’re so used to seeing the typical douche-bag look


  3. Well at least it gets good response lol(zipper down).Plus a way to strike up convo.

    Region plays a big part too like you noted.

    Living in a beach town dressed as a beach goer probably won’t do any good at attracting women.

    However,living in mid country(US)dressed as a beach-goer in the Summer should get you some looks.


  4. Peacocking totally works!! Went out with dressed to really set me apart from the crowd I was going to be with and it totally shitted me how much attention I got! I’m doing the ‘Stylelife Challenge’ from Neils Strauss’ Rules of The Game, and was on the first day. Since the first mission is just small talk, I found it very easy, and not only met loads of new people but became friends with the event’s Landlord and with some of the band-members that were playing the gig. Heading back home with me friends, I number closed a Chinese 7 from the Uni by using bits of mystery method I’d picked up. Felt so cool for my first outing!!
    Thanks socialkenny for the page, good work you’re doing.


    1. Oh course peacocking works!

      I’m aware of Style’s Stylelife Academy site, but never knew “Rules of the Game” featured an actual lifestyle challenge section. That’s cool.

      Nice to hear that you had results early so far with pulling an HB and succeeding at small talk. I stress being social (thus the name Socialkenny), so that is key.

      Thanks for stopping by Ezra. Hope you stick around and chime in on the other posts with your insights.


      1. Hey buddy, thanks for commenting back,

        Yeah, I ordered the book from UK amazon, ISBN 978 1 84767 252 0 and it’s basically a 30 day crash course set as daily ‘missions’ with notes from his work in the field.

        Good read so far 🙂

        I’ll be browsing through more of your page in the near future 😉


        1. Ok cool. I might actually write an e-book which features challenging yourself to becoming a social guy. So it’s a blessing in disguise that you even mentioned Style’s challenge.

          Later man!


  5. Hey, I’m 57 and just divorced from a 25 year marriage. For 2 years now I’ve been a peacock -everyday-. Kid you not, I get dressed up in clothing/hats by adidas, diesel, martens, nudie, and other great threads everyday for lunch. I’m a musician so I have the morning thru afternoon free most days. After exercising every morning I eat at my local Nordstrom cafe everyday for lunch and show up peacockin’ like a rock star. I make an entrance –everyday– and I shit you not; the women of all ages are very aware of me and think I’m a celebrity. You know why? Because I take really good care of myself, dress fashionably, have my shit together from being a responsible father, all the while naturally being a caring, kind, and cool person to everyone I meet. Most guys, any age, don’t have the balls to roll like I do at my age, and some hate my ass for the swag I bring. And you know, all women want is something different from the norm—trust me on this–they are bored as hell with common guys. I saw the description of “peacocking” and thought “Wow, that’s me”. I admit I want and like the attention very much. I’m used to being on stage and simply carry that into my daily life because I like it and it fits me well. Like your blog, a lot. Keep it up.

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    1. Great narration of your daily runnings Keith. I’m with your 100% that women and ppl in general are likely to get the impression that you’re somebody important because of the way you carry yourself, stylish and so forth. And you’re also correct in that guys your age are afraid to get noticed. So…a great lesson in peacocking for men in general


      1. K Social, Thanks for your comment. I was worried that I might come off as too confident in my post, but I was being very honest. I thinks it’s important to spend more time on your personal roll—values, health, who you are. People might forget that clothes can augment you visually, but not who you are. A fine person, with great style, is a force.


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