Personality trumps looks!!
Self-perception trumps looks!!
In the grand scheme of things, looks are only about 5% of a guy’s overall attractiveness. So in essence: looks doesn’t fucking matter!
It’s no secret that un-attractive men ‘Generally’ have hot girl(friends).
While society’s so-called “hot guys” AREN’T friggin’ getting laid [talk about a contradiction]!
They spend 12 hours weekly @ the gym buffing up, tryna build an “Adonis-like physique” ontop of an already ripped body; all in hopes of becoming more attractive to women.
Yet, they don’t get laid [SMDH]!
But the scrawny guy, or the one struggling to carry his protruding beer-belly, who neglects going to the gym ‘Period’: he’s getting laid like a Rockstar!!
Ignorance is bliss!!!
Ultimately: an ugly guy knows he’s fucking ugly [unless he refuses to look in the mirror ever so often].
But these guys have an EXTREME tolerance, and a rejection proof-like attitude when it comes to what people say and think about them [physical appearance]!
Just observe an un-attractive guy whenever he’s chatting up a hottie!
He comes off as though he’s Brad Pitt incarnate!!
He does ‘NOT’ see himself as ugly, hideous nor un-attractive!!
One of my sarging buddies goes by the pseudonym “PIMP”.
Now, what separates “PIMP” from your house-hold attractive pimp? His face is virtually disfigured from an accident as a toddler.
He literally has a pizza-face, semi-burnt with crooked, rotted front teeth [enough to give a mummy a run for his money].
Throughout his pre-pubescence and teens, He was brutally teased and ostracized as if he were an extraterrestrial on Earth [sad when I retrospect].
However, if you see “PIMP” in action chatting up an HB10, you’d think this fucking dude doesn’t know how hideous he looks [I hope he doesn’t read this LOL]!!
This dude gets laid!!!
As much as we dodge him out to the clubs & bars [not wanting him with us: thinking he’d be a DLV, fuck up our Game/image and repulse hot girls], whenever he begs to tag along, apart from me: he’s the ONLY friggin’ guy in our social group who has little to no fear of rejection!!
I was never able to ascertain the method to PIMP’s madness -until now; He doesn’t see himself as ugly!!
In spite of 28 years of being outcasted, bullied, excluded, ridiculed, laughed at…daily reminders of his extreme Unsightliness…
It never phases PIMP.
It’s like an internally automated- filtering process, where he filters out intolerance and prejudices.
In essence: bullshit bypasses his auditory system, where he ignores what critics say.
He’s inherently aware that looks mean shit to women on an attraction level.
He innately knows that his self- confidence, non-reactiveness and self-perception will ALWAYS trump his facial deformities.
He may not be able to put this in words. However, on a subconscious level; he knows this.
Ignorance is bliss!!
Hence the answer to the elusive question that all men have pondered for decades: “What the hell does she see in that ugly guy”!!!?
Ultimately: it’s attitude/personality.
Hot men [according to societal standards] are generally bland and lacking in the personality department.
They’re very insecure,gullible and fearful of rejection: thus they approach less women, which means less chances of getting laid, and less chances of landing that hot girlfriend.
Attractive men do NOT have that built-in emotional filter which un-attractive men do.
When an attractive guy gets rejected- he becomes hurt and defensive.
When an un-attractive guy gets shot down- he laughs it off (non-reactively), then plows forward via charm (which hot men lack on a grand scale).
With that said, it should be no surprise that the guys who get laid the most are ugly, or physically/facially un-attractive (to society’s standards).