Difference between Average & PUA
With the influx of AFC’s (average guys) to my blog over the past weeks, I figured it’d be a great idea to compose this post, where I illustrate the contrasts between the Average Joe – and the Pick-Up Artist, in any given situation regarding women, love, dating, sex & LTR (relationship).
This article serves as a guideline, for men to step their shit up by paying keen attention to what a Pick-Up Artist does.
*Scenario 1: Girlfriend dumps the guy:
Average Guy would: Throw a fit, plead with her to take him back and work it out, promising that he would change, and that he’s sorry (although he wasn’t at fault for anything).
PUA would: Remain non-reactive, calm and cool, tell here it’s ok, he understands, then walk away, and go fuck some other girl in order to forget about being dumped.
*Scenario 2: Girl doesn’t answer her phone after 2 days of attempts:
Average Guy would: Keep calling constantly, 20 times in a row if he has to. He would send few texts and leave voice mails [which would creep her out].
PUA would: Delete her # immediately from his phone and go pick up 5 other chics (which equals 5 more #’s).
*Scenario 3: Hot girl at a bar/club is looking at him:
Average Guy would: Avoid eye contact with her, or he’d just watch her all night then go home alone.
PUA would: Look right at her (direct eye contact) until she looks away first, then he would approach her right away like a real Alpha male should [women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men with balls].
*Scenario 4: While on a first date, girl says to him, “I don’t have sex on the first date-neither the 4th”.
Average Guy would: Believe her totally, then feels bad that he doesn’t have a shot until 5th. date.
PUA would: Recognize it’s bullshit, and that every girl says that she doesn’t fuck on the first date (even if she does), then he would end up fucking her after the date [a PUA knows what a girl says holds no weight 80% of times].
*Scenario 5: Attempting to get her phone # after chatting:
Average Guy would say: “Soooo, do you have a #? I’d like to call you sometime. Can I have it please so I could call you”? [He turns the girl off by asking, so he’d then get a fake # or some lie].
PUA would say:” I’m so tempted to take your #, but I’m such a busy guy, I doubt I’d have time to call you. We’ll see what happens: give me your #”. [A PUA doesn’t ask-he commands because he knows that women are NOT attracted to men who ask permission].
*Scenario 6: Group of hot girls in the club standing next to a guy:
Average Guy would: Walk off, keep it moving, stands there silently, mind his business [typical weak, pussy anti-social behavior].
PUA would: Chat up the whole group of girls instantly [social-circle game] as any social guy should. He’d even go so far as to try organizing an orgy later on.
*Scenario 7: Chic with bitchy attitude tells guy to “get lost: leave me alone, I don’t wanna talk to you”!
Average Guy would: Lap his tail and run(dejectedly), or throws a fit and curse the b***h out (even though some girls deserve a cursing-out, this isn’t the case for it).
PUA would: Laugh,look her straight in the face, remain un-phased, and say something like this, “How does your boyfriend manage you? You’re like a chihuahua off the leash”.
*Scenario 8: Girlfriend chats and flirts with other guy:
Average Guy would: Throw a fit, chastise her, stand there awkwardly, leave and go home very upset.
PUA would: Put a stop to the interaction by butting in, chat with the guy friendly, then say, “Hey, nice to meet you dude, me and Sharon are gonna browse the venue” [compliments to Savoy, the master PUA for this routine].
He would more often than not, go flirt with another girl his damn self.
*Scenario 9: Girl at the bar wants guy to buy her a drink:
Average Guy would: Pull out a wad of cash, buy her the most expensive cocktail (in hopes of impressing her), then buy a round of drinks for her friends also SMDH (hoping to impress them also as a big-spender).
PUA would say: “I don’t buy girls drinks on the fist night: it’s against my policy”.
“I don’t buy drinks for strangers. I’d have to get to know you first to ensure that you’re not a gold-digger”.
*Scenario 10: Girl asks guy (while on date or out), “So, what do you do”?
Average Guy would say: “I’m a lawyer, doctor, accountant, student, food-vendor, clerk, bus-driver” [something typically boring and lack luster].
PUA would say: “I’m a bit ashamed to tell you. Usually, whenever I tell girls what I do, they either go crazy and shit or run for the hills. I’ll tell you, but I guarantee you’ll be offended. I’m a male prostitute”.
“I’m a zoo-keeper [indicates risky guy and adventurous]. My job entails guarding vicious animals and keeping male tigers apart from the tigresses, so they don’t try banging them. Next thing you know, they’d be a lot of cubs going wild, which makes my job harder”.
Bonus Round (a little extras)
*Scenario 11: Girl says she likes romantic walks on the beach:
Average Guy would: Although he hates walks of the beach, in hopes of wanting the girl to like her, i.e. to please her, he would then lie and say, “yea, I LOVE romantic walks on the beach”!!
PUA would: Disagree with her and say, “What!!! I hate romantic walks on the beach! That is so boring! You have no sense of excitement girl [he isn’t afraid to offend nor disagree, ’cause he knows that girls are attracted to me who stand firm]!
*Scenario 12: Girl says she likes Italian food and wants to eat at Luigi’s.
Average Guy would: Agree and say, “Ok, Luigi’s it is” [essentially handing over all powers and choices to the girl because she’s so precious].
PUA would say: “Nah, we’re going to the Mexican joint. We’ll do Italian another time” [essentially taking the lead role and the decision-making role as a dominant guy should in this case. He understands that it’s the woman’s biological role to follow-not lead].
*Scenario 13: Girl asks guy, “Do you like me? I really wanna know”.
Average Guy would say: “Hell yea I do! I like you a lot! It’s obvious I do. You’re very beautiful. Most beautiful girl I seen in a long time. And I like you” [virtually kissing her ass and putting her on a pedestal as all weak men do].
PUA would say: “I like EVERYBODY. You’re very likeable too. I seen no reason to dislike you at this point. Keep it up! [PUA understands that the best answer in such case is to be VAGUE about his feelings]. Make the girl unsure and in doubt, which would in turn intrigue her more. This is what girls do to men all the time (being vague).
*Scenario 14: Girl asks, “Do you have a girlfriend”?
Average Guy would say: Nah!! I’m single!! Totally single!! I don’t have anyone. It’s hard to find a good girlfriend nowadays”.
PUA would say: “Yes, of course I have a girlfriend. I dread being single! Any guy that doesn’t have a GF is either an outcast or has AIDS” [PUA knows that women are NOT attracted to single men and that single men do NOT get laid. It’s equivalent to the saying that, “The easiest way to get a job is to already have a job”. Unemployed ppl have an EXTREMELY hard time finding a job. Same as a man who’s truly single would have an EXTREMELY hard time getting laid].
*Scenario 15: Girl is visibly turned on and excited (during the chat):
Average Guy would: Continue chatting away about his boring job, his BMW or how hot she is.
PUA would: Seize the opportunity to take advantage of her arousal by making out with her. He would tell her to “Shut Up, and kiss me already” [essentially increasing the sexual tension]!
*Scenario 16: Girl says to guy she’s chatting with, “Why’s your pants all hanging down off your butt”?
Average guy would: Pull them all the way up immediately and apologize or come up with some plausible excuse for sagging his pants [essentially kissing the girl’s ass in order to be liked and accepted by her SMDH].
PUA would: Laugh, and pull his pants down some more (in defiance), then say something like, “Do you check out random guys’ asses all the time? Your eyes have no business down there. You are such a little pervert”.
The grand take-away lesson for guys reading this is article, is to realize that women are NOT attracted to men who kiss ass, supplicate (ask and beg), apologizes and put them on pedestals.
Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who are firm, dominant, non-conformatist and asshole-like.
So adopt the above qualities of the Alpha Male/Pick-Up Artist, and you’d beging to see drastic changes and get laid like a Rockstar.