Hey guys, this’ one of my favorite openers (originated by myself), dubbed “Breaking up by text”.
Origin & Idea:
I got the idea for this interesting opener after seeing a news segment on MSNBC, which said that in Saudi Arabia, husbands can legally divorce their wives through text messages or e-mail [talk about informal].
Key Note: as with every opener (canned/pre-planned or not), what makes it successful or resonate is if it’s interesting or not. Topics of such controversies are ALWAYS interesting and intriguing to women.
When and where to use it?
Preferably in casual, slower- paced locals: eatery, supermarket, store (at the counter), bus stop…
But It can be used in more highly-charged/sexual environments like a bar, club or lounge.
Opening Routine (after spotting the target(s)/girl(s) whom you’re feeling):
[However you approach and open is another story for later. But let’s just assume you approached correctly].
You: “Hey guys (girl-girls), I need your opinion on something that’s mad controversial”.
Girl(s): “Sure, what is it”?
You: “Is it ok to break up with your girlfriend through text message”?
[99% of the times, the girl(s) will say no: it’s not OK].
Forward stack with the back story (after the girls weigh in).
You: “Cause I was watching the news the other day, and they had a story about some guy in Saudi Arabia who got fed up with his wife…so he decided to frikkin divorce her with a text message!!! Didn’t even have the balls to face her and let her know what’s up!!! That’s messed up right!!!?
Quite naturally, any girl would agree and weigh in further with her opinion.
This opinion opener/routine is maaaaad simple and highly interesting.
1. “Guys, I need your opinion on something controversial”.
2. “Is it ok to break up with your….”.
3. “Cause I was watching the news the other day, some guy in Arabia divorced his…”.
*The point in any opener/routine is to build interest and attraction. You say something interesting- it builds intrigue which leads to attraction.