Summer’s almost here guys

I can picture everybody rushing to sign up at a local-finess club right now.

Too late people-June’s already here (hahaha)!

To this day I dont understand why we do it: wait for the last-possible moment to get our asses in better shape and get active.

Ohhhhhhh I see, it’s too cold to go to the gym.

Stop the whining guys!!!!

Im like a marine-drill sergeant on your ass!!

On a psycological note,it’s not just a climate issue nor how cold it is in certain region.

Shit-I live in the Caribbean; 88° weather all-year round. But fitness is still avoided like the plague down here.

So it goes way deeper than how cold it is outside.

And for the record; Im no fitness nut…well I am, but even if I wasn’t, I would still have a beef with the guy who wants to loose 20lbs. in 2 weeks, when he could loose that amount in 3 months healthily.

So get off your asses guys, it’s already late.

You wanna sport that wife-beater or go topless without looking like Andre the Giant -then get moving.

For the guys who are already comfortable in their skin; this post doesnt apply.

Later!

Why should sex be on the woman’s terms? Is it really?

Oh oh…Not another mysogonistic women-hating post!!?

Not this time at least.

But I want to touch on this semi-touchy subject which boils down to “frame control” and men being pussies.

The other day,I had a not-so nice argument with a female friend on the topic of sex-and when it should happen.

As usual-that’s an argument a guy would never win. I really wasn’t looking to win it; just to see where she’s at on the subject.

But her points were contradictory in nature:

1) She says sex should happen exclusively on the girl’s term.

2) Kissing or making out should be on the girl’s terms.

3) Any physical contact beyond the obligatory-friendly touch should be upto the woman.

Cool!!

But it’s a pile of bullshit!!

I’m not for touching anyone who doesn’t want to be touched, but as we all know, it’s VERY uncommon that the woman would take the lead in any of the above actions.

Not even if she’s fucking horny or 3 drinks deep would she make the 1st. move (physically).

Of course there’s exceptions to ever rule- dont get me wrong. But how rare.

As far as initiating sex, that’s almost always left to the guy.

If he doesn’t- then no sex will be going down [no matter how bad she wants to get laid].

So it’s actually a myth that the women dictates when sex goes down.

She’d love to believe so, primarily to saciate her ego or to appear more in control of her destiny.

But for the average guy who’s not-in-the know thus buy into this BS; it’s time to take a whiff of the old coffee.

If the guy doesn’t initiate the kiss-she wont!

If he doesnt KINO escalate-she wont!

If he doesnt proceed to de-bra her[I think I created a word]- she wont be taking off her own bra (at least not for the 1st lay since she may fee self-concious or slutty).

So when I analyzed this after the phone convo with the female friend, if guys were to really buy into this on a large scale, there would be no women getting laid.

Reality check!!!

Guys ‘ARE’ buying into this, and have bought into this “let the woman lead” mentality.

No wonder why it’s only a small percentage of men in the world actually getting the girl(regularly).

I forgot the theoretical percentage, but I read about it in 1 of Tyler Durden’s old social dynamic articles. It’s only less than 10% of men in the world who gets laid on the regular.

It’s theoretical but I buy it.

Later guys. SocialKenny signing off from paradise island.

Back-stabbing ass wingman!!!

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Ever had a wingman who virtually fucks up your sarge attempts?

Seems like I always get stuck with the rotten ones.

A best friend of mine (a natural)once screwed up 3 of my pick-up attempts 3 weeks in a row!

HIS 1st.VIOLATION:

We were at a crowded grocery store together, and I was eyeing this HB like a hawk swooping down on its prey.

My wing happened to notice me eye fucking her.

So what does a bad wing do?

Wing: “Hey sweetheart, my friend here says he likes you a lot”!

No No No!!!!

I wanted to fucking punch his lights out but I was too paralyzed with embarrassment.

Talk about DLV’ing!

To begin with, I’m an advocate of in-direct gaming, so there’s no way in hell I would’ve opened this chic(nor any other)with a cheesy-ass direct opener to swell her head up the size of a watermelon.

Sure I could’ve regrouped and opened her despite the deliberate attempt by my wing to see me fail before I even had a chance. But you never want to start off an interaction with the target already assuming that you’re sold on her. Or that you like her from the get-go.

Proponents of direct-game may say otherwise.

HIS 2nd.VIOLATION:

When I thought it could’nt get any worse and grimier, he topped his 1st.violation with yet-another low blow(smfh)!

Ok this time, I reluctantly met up with his ass at a local-basketball game.

Seen this hot-ass British chick in the perifery with her girl group[a 3-set], so I immediately said to myself, “I gotta get away from this fuker ’cause if he notices me eyeing that set- it’s game the fuck over”!

So I schemed and plotted ways to duck and dodge the wing:

Me:”Hey ******, let’s hit up the other side of the court to see if any hotter girls there”.

Wing:”Nah, it’s cool here bro'”.

[Plan fucking B]:

Me:”Yo ******, I see this dark-skinned girl checking you out by the entrance. Let’s see what’s up”.

Wing:”Nah[un-enthusiastically]”.

Shit shit shit!!!!!!

What’s the worst that could happen?

So during our boy-chat, I said to him, “Im checking out that British girl in the 3 set; the one with the…”.

So I made it known to my wing the girl I’m interested in (as to avoid any conflict of us gaming the same girl).

Abiding by the 3 second rule(after stating by intent), my wingman opted to go by a split-second rule and approached the 3 set!!!

Deja-friggin’ vu; I cant believe it!!!

Unlike last time, he didnt yell out to the girl that I like her. He actually approached and started to game my fucking target!!!!!

I stood there like a pussy on the side lines, heated that this muthfucker would dare AMOG me or try to show me up by going after my target!?

As usual, he rarely gets the girl.

His objective seemed to be to sabotage my chances: not to actually pick up.

So now if I were to try seduce this girl, I’d look like the ultimate scumbag who’s trying to go after the buddy’s girl.

To this day, I never confronted him about his seemingly-back stabbing ways.

I just dont sarge with him anymore.

The 1 silver lining to this, is that he made me abandon the 3 sec.rule to now having a split-sec.rule to approaching girls.

Since then, I’ve sarged alone and loved it as I was getting better results in field.

Why I hate Facebook Gaming!

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sexy Facebook girls

No I’m not a Facebook hater, but trying to pick up random girls on there is almost always a futile mission from the get-go.

Those who follow my posts on the Pick-Up Artist Forum, would’ve read a thread where a forum leader (Kasabi), broke it down pretty simple, “some sites attract certain women”.

Seemingly vague until I’d pondered it.

What he meant was, Facebook, in particularly, is geared at strictly social networking- not to hook up.

I think a lot of us men miss that cue. It’s not POF, Match.com nor any other dating site.

Majority of the hotties on Facebook just want to gossip and talk shit with their girlfriends.

If they were looking to be laid: there are many sites for that.

Im not saying it’s impossible to pull some FB ass. But from my exprience, 90% of those pulls turned out to be serial flakes.

I used to beat myself up wondering why all of my FB pulls result in flakes!

Those girls weren’t on FB to get laid; and I missed that subtle dose of reality.

The only semi-solid chance at hooking up with a girl on FB is via mutual friends/ social-circle game.

However, to cold approach a random hottie on Facebook, without having mutual friends at best, is tantamount to a suicide mission.

Yes, she may reply out of curiosity, “Do I know you”?

You may even get 2 replies if you’re skilled. But the vibe will eventually go cold as a limp dick [not that it was hot to begin with].

My success rate of FB lays is like 0 in 50!

Yes, I’ve had maybe 50 # closes which all resulted to NADA.

My rate of lays on actual-dating sites had been about 60% from the girl’s I # exchanged.

Not saying it’s impossible to get laid from Facebook. But it’s sure not easy.

Check out the PUA acronym and term page to familiarize yourself with the lingo used on this website

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