It’s all in the atmosphere, scents and vibes!!
Set up your bachelor pad in a way that sets the sexual/seductive mood, and make sure that it DHV’s you as a sensual unique guy.
•Whenever an HB (hot chic) enters my lair, the 1st. thing she smells permeating through the air is either burning incense or some fruit-scented fragrance.
•In advance, I’d sprinkle few drops of “Eat it raw” oil around the apartment, in hopes of bouncing her back to my spot.
•You want her asking, “What’s that fragrance”?
•Essentially putting her sexual motors in forward motion from the get-go.
•I love watching MTV’s Jersey Shore [watched all episodes and seasons from the inception].
•Im not sure if The Situation was doing this ritual by design, or if it’s part of his Game, however this concept and routine is huge for us in the pick-up community [perhaps Sitch's been reading some of "The Game"]!
•Reason being; you wanna get the girl familiarized (visually) with the pad, thus building some comfort:
*Show her the bathroom
*Show her the dining area
*Give her a peek of the backyard
*Take her to see the pet outback
*Show her your kid’s room
*Introduce her to your roomies (if any)
•It’s a powerful yet subtle- psychological technique which the target (the girl) doesn’t even know is taking place.
•Same concept in which a good DJ applies @ the club; always play what the crowd demands and wants!
•So, prior to bouncing this girl(your date, etc.) back to the bachelor pad, you should’ve already fount out what type of music she listens to.
•If she says “anything”, don’t take that as an OK to throw on some stupid fucking Lil’ Wayne or some other dumb-Rap shit which kills sexual progression.
•Throw on some R&B, Soft Rock, or my favorite; Epic Trance [which is infused with a heavenly, cloud-9 type feel to it]!!
•By all means; avoid Hardcore Rap, Heavy Metal and anything upbeat [unless you're gonna fuck a Goth or aspiring-female gangster rapper].
•This is the most under-appreciated (consequently most crucial) aspect of “setting the sexual mood”.
•White lights must fucking go!!
•Brighter the atmosphere (i.e. room), the more it leaves the girl in a rational frame (which is to not fuck you).
•Those oldies-R&B guys were on to something when they sang about “Dimming The Lights”.
•Now, you obviously cannot have the place pitch dark, since that’d only startle the chic and activate her ASD(Anti-Slut Defense)
•A fluorescence effect (in a dark color) makes the best atmosphere.
•My bulbs were spray painted blue, and some dipped in a dark dye(done at home by moi).
•Another ritual of “getting her comfortable” in the strange environment (which is your bachelor pad), is to hand her a photo album for her to skim through (or just some photos).
•You want the target as comfortable as possible @ your place.
•Nothing builds more comfort than going through baby and family photos.
•It even makes a greater impact if those baby photos are of you or your kid(s).
•A nice trick/routine I learned the other day from Speer, is to make it easier for her to sit on the bed.
•I mean, the spot that you ultimately want her to be at; is on the slaughtering table/the bed!
•Best way to make this happen, or to even eliminate the chances of her NOT sitting on the bed, is to get rid of all the chairs from your room!
•When the target enters your abode, quite instinctively, she’s gonna be guessing where to sit.
•If there ARE chairs; she’s gonna sit in one.
•If there are NO chairs (in the room), she will have no choice but to sit on the bed (which is where you want her).
•But the biggest subtle mistake is to present her a chair to sit.
•Leave her no choice but the bed or the floor LOL.