The kiss that is buzzing though the seduction-sphere over the past week.
Surely Kissing random girls for us PUA’s is just another day at the office.
However, Steve’s K-Close was recorded on in-field hidden camera.
Most Kiss Closes that PUA’s manage to pull off,usually goes unrecorded or written in field reports on blogs or seduction forums [since they occur so random and spontaneously].
Now,for the guys who will watch this in-field footage of Steve (out of Britain) making out with a random-Latina girl: Pay keen attention to the build-up before the street kiss/makeout.
Steve is essentially transitioning the vibe and the girl into a Sexual/Seduction State.
One thing to note also,Steve is abiding by the “Direct” model of Pickup.
In the seduction community,we have 2 schools of thoughts when it comes to approaching and interacting with the target(girl):
Direct Game(which Steve uses in the video) entails going direct; meaning complimenting the girl, saying she’s beautiful, stating your intentions, etc.
You’re making your interest in her Direct and transparent.
Most PUA’s however (as myself), abide by the In-Direct method; meaning we do NOT compliment the woman, and we do NOT tell her that she’s beautiful nor that we like her.
The reasons why Pick-Up Artists can get away with telling the girl that she’s pretty without landing himself in the “Creep” basket, or lame-generic basket is because of tonality and non-verbal cues.
The average guy (Beta-Males) would go direct and tell the girl that she’s hot and he likes her.
That doesn’t work most of the times to hooking the girl because the guy’s body language, tonality and non-verbal cues are usually OFF, weak and kiss-ass.
However, when a PUA or a natural player uses direct game and says to the target, “I like you, and I had to come talk to you”, his overall demeanor and attitude communicates “I like you and think you’re pretty, but I don’t need you”.
The average guy however, his attitude comes off as’ “I need you,I must have you, I’m willing to do anything for you”.
That vibe in effect turns off the girl and kills your chances.
So Steve used the direct method of pickup (complimenting), but he does it like an Alpha-Male.
* Watch how he transitions into a sexual state by sensing that the target was opened to be kissed [guys skilled in social dynamics can tell or learn when a girl wants to be kissed].
* He KINO’s (touches her shoulders and her hair) which heightened the sexual tension and gets her acclimated to his touch.
* Also take note of her body language and how she gives off many overt signs of arousal and interest (IOI’s and SOI’s), which made it discernible that she was open.
* Also, she shuns his 1st.kiss attempt(as expected 50% of times), yet Steve remains non-reactive and unfazed.
* He persisted by injecting her with proper EC(eye contact).
* He knows that the first time she resisted the kiss was just “Token Resistance”, and not true resistance.
* Guys skilled in reading women can sense when she’s really resisting or bullshitting.
* Also, Steve strategically says to the girl, “I had some drinks”, essentially giving the girl a rational reason as to why he’d make out with her and be so calmly aggressive. Now the girl can rationalize to herself that “it’s the alcohol”, so the guy’s action can be excused [this is called chic logics which doesn't make sense to men: women are illogical].
*Now after the kiss/makeout, notice how she’s ready for flight as the adrenaline pumps and her buying temperature spikes(she gets turned on).
* Her ASD(Anti-Slut Defense) becomes activated due to the social pressure of being sexual in public, so that’s when she says, “I really have to go”.
The point of this all (or even I posting this video), is to show guys that it’s all possible to pull shit off with women and be ballsy and get what you desire.
With the learnt ability to read a woman’s body language, sky’s the fucking limit!!
You can manipulate her,lead her, coerce her, convince her and dominate her, all without putting a gun to her head!
Women will undoubtedly say: “This could never happen to me”!! “This is wrong”!! “She’s a slut”!!
None of which are correct BTW.
It all boils down to the guy’s skills, ability to lead and dominate the girl’s frame/mindset.
So check out the video, watch and learn 1 of the few formats to kissing random girls in less that 4-5 minutes.
Fuck the words!!
Pay attention to his body language and the target’s body language, positioning, distance, etc.
As we teach in pickup: words mean shit!
What you can say out of your mouth cannot compare to what you can communicate without saying a word.
*Check out Steve’s PUA blog : Authentic PUA.
*And also, you can check out Steve’s kiss close over at Krauser PUA’s blog (Krauser is a good friend of Stev’s): Kiss Close Video Of My Friend Steve
*How to know if she wants to be kissed by Marni Wing-girl, a top female-seduction coach.
*Is she ready to be kissed? Few ways to test the waters, by Speer of Project Hollywood/Miami.