Gym Openers [Picking Up Girls At The Gym]

Posted on August 28, 2012 by Socialkenny

For those outside of the PUA loop,openers are NOT, and I mean NOT pick-up lines!!!

They are conversational starters and ice-breakers aimed towards starting the chat.

They are not meant for the girl to jump into your lap as cheesy pick-up lines are supposed to do (which never happens).

Over @ the Master Pick-up Artist forum(where aspiring PUA’s go for advice on pickup), Pirrhyc Pearl, a newbie/student, posed the following question:

“I always see gorgeous women at the gym working out..I doubt girls really want to bothered while
their working out, I know i don’t!. I have had several female friends tell me they dont want to talk to guys because they are sweaty and don’t look good! Any good gym openers? Advice”?

Socialkenny replied:

That’s good that you at least recognize that
women aren’t too keen on being picked up while sweaty.

But gym openers are pretty simple. It comes down to banter and being playful. You don’t wanna approach her with a serious
tone. Do it light-heartedly.

PUA:” Hey, you’re cheating over there”. I actually
seen you doing 2 reps instead of 5 that every woman is required to do. Haven’t you read the
notice”?

Obviously you want to throw this opener in a humorous semi-smiling/shocked expression.
You CANNOT deliver such opener with a serious face and serious tone. And of course you should modify the opener to suit whatever exercise she’s doing (be it the treadmill, jump rope, curls with dumbbells, etc.).

“5 Perfect-Gym Openers By Socialkenny PUA”

Ok,so you’re eyeing that tight-ass HB10 at the fitness gym and you’re all frozed up with AA(Approach Anxiety) wondering what to say!!!

Before I give away my routines,do me a favor first: smack yourself to get back into your head and realize that hot women DON’T bite!!

Ok,now that you’re back to senses and composed as an Alpha should be, open the target with 1 of the following openers (ice breakers as average ppl would say LOL):

Fore-Note: Remember, be playful!! Deliver the routines with a semi-smile so the target knows that you’re obviously bantering.

1.)” Hey,you’re cheating over there”. I actually seen you doing 2 reps instead of 5 that every woman is required to do. Haven’t you read the notice”?

2.)“Come on…gimme 1 more,you can do it, come on, come on…”[in an exaggerated tone]!!!

3.)“Hey, I’m fitness coach Kenny, and I just wanna say that you’re totally doing that wrong”.

4.)“Hey girl, I’m looking to hire a personal trainer. You accept cash or check”?

5.)“I got a little secret to tell you. You see that guy over there? He’s totally been checking you out for the past hour. He’s so mesmerized that he hasn’t even worked up a sweat yet. Do you do this with every guy who comes here”?

With some of the openers,gauge distance well between you and the target.

You don’t wanna be directly in her armpits making her very uncomfortable (being that she’s sweaty).

But if it’s a case where she just came in,warming up,etc.,feel free to KINO(touch) and get closer than if she was saturated in perspiratory juices.

Also,you can obviously modify the openers depending on the situation and the type of exercizes she’s doing.

Now go out and fucking have fun seducing hot women at the gym!!

Check out the short-video version where I give some examples of gym openers and the tonality for delivery.

Ciao!!!

“Flirting, KINO Escalating And Being Playful To Get The Girl [In-Field Video]“

Posted on August 22, 2012 by Socialkenny

Ok guys,I’ve been pretty friggin’ busy as of the past week with Sarging[PUA term for looking girls] and shooting amateur infield videos of picking up chics.

The point of it all [in-field videos], is for men reading this blog (aspiring PUA’s) to get a visual idea of the concepts we teach in the PUA/Seduction community.

You can tell a person anything, but it only becomes real and legit when you can actually show it.

And BTW, this’ what we PUA’s do anyway, “Walk The Walk”, opposed to your generic,media-hyped dating experts and matchmakers who have no real-world experience in pulling ass.

What is KINO and KINO Escalate?

A PUA term for “Touching”.

KINO is like the 1st.commandement of pick-up; every successful PUA lives by it.

KINO Escalation is touching rapidly and more sexual, opposed to standard KINO.

The reason behind KINO (touching the target, i.e. the girl) is quite simple yet powerful.

The earlier, or the more you touch the girl [non-sexually], the more she becomes psychologically acclimated and used to your touch.

The more you touch her (KINO Escalate), the greater your chances to touch her sexually and lay her (later on).

The average guy(AFC’s as we call them) makes the mistake of NOT touching the girl he’s chatting up,thus he comes off as a-sexual and a pussy.

They fail to understand that the less you touch a woman, the greater the chances of her saying to you “LJBF” [putting you in the friendzone].

So KINO (touching) from the get-go says to the chic that you’re a physical, sexual, confident Alpha-Male.

However, there’s an art to KINO and touching women.

You don’t wanna go KINO and come off as sleazy, groping and annoying.

Many newbies/students to pick-up will do KINO wrong and actually piss off the target or get a , “Why are you touching me” shit test.

But over time with experience, one should learn how to CALIBRATE properly,touch her properly at the right moments, right way and right body part.

Field Report:

Ok,so I was sarging the other day and ran across some chics and a dude chillin’ in a park.

I approached them,opened the seated set and did my usual thing.

Found out she’s actually 18 and waiting on her BF at the park[classic lie].

I immediately fucked with her, toyed and bantered with her, push, pull, tug, tap and hit her.

Essentially being flirty with this random stranger chic.

At 1 point (in the short vid clip), her phone rang (some guy), and I playfully got closer to her to listen in and teased her and try dragging the phone from her.

This sort of vibe is the quintessential way you want to communicate with the target: light, fluffy, playful and fun, opposed to serious, quiet and reserved.

Especially when gaming teenagers, they’re so hyped and easily distracted, that you really have to use this sort of fun , flirty vibe to keep her attention.

The video was actually about 20 min. long, but I cut it just to display few playful moments of KINO and being playful.

I intentionally masked over the audio with some electronic music so guys will NOT pay attention to the “WORDS”, but more importantly, to the vibe and mood I’m creating.

At the end of the day, what should guys learn from this article and vid’ clip?

That girls love to have fun, and they won’t kill you for teasing them.

And the fastest way to a girl’s panties is through banter, touching and playfulness.

If you desire to take forever to f-close her; then do the opposite.

*Related article by the top female PUA coach, Kezia Nobles: Being Playful With Women.

Last Night’s LMR(last-minute resistance)

Posted on April 22, 2012 by Socialkenny

LMR(last-minute resistance)is a PUA community coined term,where a girl resists before point of sex.

Had a girl(HB5) at her friend’s place last night(alone)…on the bed,but expected LMR(last-minute resistance)surfaced and fucked things up.

Ok,I had her on the bed,went KINO(touching her fingers),stroking her fingers and hands while saying to her,“Your skin is so soft.Tell me the secret to your soft skin”.

Stroked her bare shoulders and neck with my fingers,but she brushed my hand away,so I re-calibrated and went back to stroking her hands while talking and breathing heavily into her ears.

I visibly notice her quivering as I talked with my lips virtually touching her ear.

Things she said during LMR

•“We shouldn’t be doing this”

•“We’re going too far.I just met you”.

•“I can’t believe this is happening.I just met you days ago”.

•“If my friend finds out I have a guy in his place:he’s gonna kill me”!

•“It’s time to go”.

Calling her bluff,I said to her,“Ok,you’re right:I’m gonna leave now”.I put my sandals on and said,“Are you sure you want me to go”.Her reply,“You don’t have to”.

•“I’m not ready for this”

•“How I know you’re not gonna fuck me and forget me”?

•“I never done one-night stands before[SHH]”.

•“I feel like I’m disrespecting myself”.

•“I have a boyfriend.And I’d feel guilty.My conscience”.

While all this verbal LMR was taking place,I was pretty much using a combination of backing off,re-engaging touching(KINO),massaging her shoulders,stroking hands,rubbing her tits(in bra)…

Last-Minute Resistance(LMR) is a bitch!

Random Escapade Field Report With A Stalker-Chic

Posted on October 18, 2011 by Socialkenny

Interesting story guys:

Past Sunday night on my way to the club, I spotted a girl standing alone outside.

Well, nothing strange in that.

However, something was odd about this picture:

1. She wasn’t dressed as if she was going clubbing.

2. Hair disheveled.

3. She stood afar as if to not be seen.

Anywho, being the king of social game, I approached her [without any pick-up routines; just banter]:

Me: “Hey, if that’s how you going in the club tonight…much props to you girl[smiley face]“.

Lone Wolf: “Lol what’s that supposed to mean”.

Me: “I’m just saying. Seems like your girl crew abandoned you. That’s messed up”.

Lone Wolf: “Lol nah, I’m actually not going in. Im tryna find someone”.

Me: “Its’ 1 am, I doubt this the best time to be out looking for someone”.

Lone Wolf: “Its’ my boyfriend. If he thinks I’m gonna be watching kids all night while he’s out clubbing-fuck that!!

Alarm bells rang off!

Baby-mama drama. This is not the type of shit for me!

So now I’m looking for a quick exit out of this chat, to not get caught up in any drama before the night even kicked off. But then again, my drama-loving intuition kicked in. Plus she wasn’t the ugliest girl I seen for the day. She was probably an HB7 with melon-sized tits: so WTH!

Me: “Well….I doubt you want him to spot you…so let’s go some where near to sit and chat”.

As any Alpha should, I took her hand and started walking the opposite direction from the club.

Some token resistance as expected:

Lone Wolf: “Where are we going? There’s no where to sit around here”.

Playfully kept leading her to the nearest secluded spot, by the way, which happens to be adjacent to some huge-ass dumpsters [talk about shitty logistics].

I rapidly KINO escalated like a fucking machine on auto!

Some more token resistance reared it’s ugly head, so she said, “I think people can see us from here”.

Bull-fuckin’ shit!!!

So I eased off the heavy KINO to start dancing with her to some music which was coming from the opened-air club.

Lone Wolf: “Oh shit, is that him”!!?

Me: “Him who”?

Lone Wolf: “That fucking bastard boyfriend of mines. He’s the one in front”!

A drunken crew of guys was strolling our way, making more noise than a lynch mob ready to hang someone.

So now I’m like, “WTF are you doing, spying on him”?

Lone Wolf: “I wouldn’t say spying. His ass just shouldn’t expect me to baby sit all day while he gets drunk and flirt with bitches”!

Wow! An actual female-staked in the flesh!

Now I’m just praying that her drunk BF’s mob doesn’t spot us beside this dumpster and fuck my ass up (lmfao).

But this lunatic chic wanted to confront him so I had to try talking her ass out doing it right then and there.

Potential bomb defused (yes!), so as the mob passed, I felt relieved.

She wanted to follow them. I wanted to bang her outdoors.

My frame was stronger (or her hormones were raging),so the KINO re-commenced.

It went as far as tit-play ’cause she kept saying she had to leave, she left her kids home alone…bla, bla, bla.

Psycho alarms went off. But I knew better, that this was just standard-token resistance.

We fooled around some more. But her impulse to run off to stalk her boyfriend/baby daddy was stronger than my frame. So I called it a night and headed to the club.

Lessons to take away:

* Frame control is key. Have a stronger frame than hers will get you far.

* Its’ better to escalate fast until she stops you, than to not escalate at all.

* Fuck the perfect logistics! If you can lay her in the middle of heavy traffic- do it! The logistics will never be 100% in your favor.

The key insight I learned from this field-report escapade was that women can be just as needy as men.

I never thought in a million years that a chic would virtually stalk her boyfriend (when she can just easily phone 1 of her options).

Ciao!!!

Why should sex be on the woman’s terms? Is it really?

Posted on May 30, 2011 by Socialkenny

Oh oh…Not another mysogonistic women-hating post!!?

Not this time at least.

But I want to touch on this semi-touchy subject which boils down to “frame control” and men being pussies.

The other day,I had a not-so nice argument with a female friend on the topic of sex-and when it should happen.

As usual-that’s an argument a guy would never win. I really wasn’t looking to win it; just to see where she’s at on the subject.

But her points were contradictory in nature:

1) She says sex should happen exclusively on the girl’s term.

2) Kissing or making out should be on the girl’s terms.

3) Any physical contact beyond the obligatory-friendly touch should be upto the woman.

Cool!!

But it’s a pile of bullshit!!

I’m not for touching anyone who doesn’t want to be touched, but as we all know, it’s VERY uncommon that the woman would take the lead in any of the above actions.

Not even if she’s fucking horny or 3 drinks deep would she make the 1st. move (physically).

Of course there’s exceptions to ever rule- dont get me wrong. But how rare.

As far as initiating sex, that’s almost always left to the guy.

If he doesn’t- then no sex will be going down [no matter how bad she wants to get laid].

So it’s actually a myth that the women dictates when sex goes down.

She’d love to believe so, primarily to saciate her ego or to appear more in control of her destiny.

But for the average guy who’s not-in-the know thus buy into this BS; it’s time to take a whiff of the old coffee.

If the guy doesn’t initiate the kiss-she wont!

If he doesnt KINO escalate-she wont!

If he doesnt proceed to de-bra her[I think I created a word]- she wont be taking off her own bra (at least not for the 1st lay since she may fee self-concious or slutty).

So when I analyzed this after the phone convo with the female friend, if guys were to really buy into this on a large scale, there would be no women getting laid.

Reality check!!!

Guys ‘ARE’ buying into this, and have bought into this “let the woman lead” mentality.

No wonder why it’s only a small percentage of men in the world actually getting the girl(regularly).

I forgot the theoretical percentage, but I read about it in 1 of Tyler Durden’s old social dynamic articles. It’s only less than 10% of men in the world who gets laid on the regular.

It’s theoretical but I buy it.

Later guys. SocialKenny signing off from paradise island.