Two great ways to break out of your shell:
1.) Ask someone who doesn’t look certain, if he or she needs some help as in directions.
2.) Say hi to someone whom you’re not on speaking terms with.
Nearly 2 years ago, I had a massive falling-out with a certain girl and we no longer spoke since then.
On my way to work, I would see this girl like once a week and we would pass each other without the slightest acknowledgment.
One day I said to myself, “Why the fuck not!? Why not say something to her and totally throw her off guard”?
The next time that I seen her, I’d broken the 2 years of silence:
Me: “Hi V******”.
She was so startled that she almost dropped her cellphone. :)
She reciprocated with a hi and we kept it moving.
Second example for you guys to break out of the shell is to ask someone if they need help.
While running some errands, I came across an elderly lady who seemed to have been unsure of where she wanted to go but was too flustered to ask for help or directions.
Noticing this, I immediately took the initiative to say:
“Oh you need help with something”?
Old lady: “Oh yes thanks, I was looking for the *********”.
Irony is, she was actually seeking directions to my workplace.
There you have it: nothing fancy, no ulterior motives besides sharpening your social skills which will help you over time on the journey in dating and getting laid.
Plus- you can’t get laid by not being sociable!
Push comes to shove, my most recent video where I’d approached almost 30 random women about their g-string, you can take that approach to push yourself in the right direction…which is to get laid!