Sounds crazy but it’s fascinatingly true!
As a guy, once you’re able to plug yourself out from the matrix of mainstream-dating advice, you will have realized that 90% of what you once believed and were taught about dating and mating, was actually UNTRUE!
You will also begin to realize that the opposite often times is the reality.
Mainstream-dating advice would have it that if a girl calls you crazy or a player; it’s a bad thing.
In reality, if a girl calls you a player or crazy: it’s actually the 2 biggest compliments you can ever fucking get from a woman!
In Pickup parlance, this would be a DHV!
Every girl I slept with had called me crazy.
Every girl I slept with had also thought that I was a player, and labeled me one.
As for “Crazy”, do these girls actually think that I’m crazy as in a nut-job?
Of course not!
What they actually mean is You’re turning them on or doing a splendid job of attracting them.
Women don’t call nice guys crazy!
Women don’t call guys in the friendzone crazy!
They only call players and guys who get laid crazy!
Hence, being called crazy is a compliment.
Being called “Nice” should be deemed a disrespect.
If a woman calls you “Nice”, she’s essentially saying, “You’re nice enough to be a friend”.
Women don’t fuck guys who are nice!
Todd Valentine mad a great point in a video of his when he said that he would rather women call him an asshole than a nice guy.
You can draw the correlation with the theme of this post and deduce the points.
I personally would rather a girl call me an asshole, bad boy, player, douch-bag than to call me friendly, friend, nice, cute, adorable, sweet, lovely…which hearkens back to the tired-classic argument of bad boys get laid while nice guys finish last.
Guys who are good with women can all shake their heads in the affirmative of being called crazy by women…yet they still fuck those same women.
Before I’d came to this realization, whenever girls would call me crazy while in set (chatting them up), it would totally fuck my game! I mean, I was stopped dead in my tracks and actually took it as a bad thing! :(
I expected to be called “normal, sane, smooth, etc.”, but not fucking crazy!
Ignorant to chick-logics, I swore that this was a huge IOD (Indication Of Disinterest) and it meant that the girl wasn’t attracted to me although she was subconsciously displaying signs of interest.
Another point that’s very interesting: as a girl begins to get hot and bothered over you (sexually aroused), it’s almost inevitable that she’d say:
“You’re crazy you know that”!
Nowadays, whenever a girl says that to me, it’s like the biggest fucking green light ever to escalate and the surest sign of her interest in me!
So remember guys, if a girl calls you crazy: don’t take it personal. Chances are, she’s super attracted to you and is actually turned on by your charms and charisma to the point that her mental circuitry is being tossed into a tailspin on whether to fuck you right here- right now!
Guys who play it safe are never called crazy, therefore rarely ever spark any spontaneous attraction in women.