Archive for the Tips Category

What’s Your Story? Conveying Interest During Conversation

Posted in Conversation, Tips on August 11, 2014 by kennyata joseph

What is your story?

Do you even have 1?

Well I advise you to put 1 together right now for your next interaction with a girl you’d like to get to know.

Example: “I dropped out of school to pursue the life of a badboy pick-up artist. I just wanted to do something really shocking in life”.

Well- that isn’t exactly my story- but you get the point, right?

You don’t have to be too specific neither.

Keep it vague actually.

Remember that women process information differently than men do.

Men need specifics in order to latch onto something.

Women, once they’re given all the specifics, they tend to lose interest and become bored.

Create an interesting life story that gets the girl to go, “Wow- that’s interesting”!

You can incorporate this into your little conversational repertoire along with other aspects of good conversation.

2 Simple Tips For Breaking Out Of Your Shell And Becoming Social

Posted in Approaching, Social Anxiety, Tips on May 26, 2014 by kennyata joseph

Two great ways to break out of your shell:

1.) Ask someone who doesn’t look certain, if he or she needs some help as in directions.

2.) Say hi to someone whom you’re not on speaking terms with.

Nearly 2 years ago, I had a massive falling-out with a certain girl and we no longer spoke since then.

On my way to work, I would see this girl like once a week and we would pass each other without the slightest acknowledgment.

One day I said to myself, “Why the fuck not!? Why not say something to her and totally throw her off guard”?

The next time that I seen her, I’d broken the 2 years of silence:

Me: “Hi V******”.

She was so startled that she almost dropped her cellphone. :)

She reciprocated with a hi and we kept it moving.

Mission successful!

Second example for you guys to break out of the shell is to ask someone if they need help.

While running some errands, I came across an elderly lady who seemed to have been unsure of where she wanted to go but was too flustered to ask for help or directions.

Noticing this, I immediately took the initiative to say:

“Oh you need help with something”?

Old lady: “Oh yes thanks, I was looking for the *********”.

Irony is, she was actually seeking directions to my workplace.

There you have it: nothing fancy, no ulterior motives besides sharpening your social skills which will help you over time on the journey in dating and getting laid.

Plus- you can’t get laid by not being sociable!

Push comes to shove, my most recent video where I’d approached almost 30 random women about their g-string, you can take that approach to push yourself in the right direction…which is to get laid!

A Compliment A Day Keeps Anxiety Away

Posted in Social Anxiety, Tips on April 8, 2014 by kennyata joseph

Whether it be Approach Anxiety or Social Anxiety, both states of mind are crippling and not so easy to keep at bay.

Do I still have bouts of anxiety when it pertains to approaching unfamiliar women?

Sure!

Anxiety is like a fucking pest which only comes around when you least expect and in situations where you really don’t need it.

I have quite a few ways in which I handle anxiety and I’ve written about them before: No one gives a shit.

A novel approach to keeping approach and social anxiety away is to just give a compliment a day.

Just give a compliment to one girl a day…preferably a complete stranger.

Not only will doing so keep anxiety away but it’ll also keep your social wheels greased and keep you sharp as a social individual.

The reason I recommend “a compliment” opposed to just saying “hi”, is because a compliment raises the bar and stakes while a simple “hi” doesn’t require much psychological effort.

To familiarize yourself with the seduction-community jargon, check out the acronym and term list: PUA acronym and term list.

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