Not Everyone Is Built For Pickup + 96% Of Us Will Fucking Fail To Get Good With Women

Getting good with women is easy…yet hard!

Pickup is easy…yet hard!

Gaming girls is the easiest shit in the world for any guy to attempt…yet the hardest part of any guy’s life to manage.

What a fucking dichotomy if there ever was 1!

In comparison to other undertakings and hobbies in which a guy may undertake; picking up women is the most risk-adverse, and involves zero chances of being injured at all…yet men give up on this harmless hobby so easily.

Learning to ride a bike can be dangerous.

Learning to drive a car can cost you your fucking life!

Trying to cook a meal for the first time can set your house ablaze :shock: !

Saying all that to say: learning to pick up women can cause no bodily harm whatsoever.

You cannot be physical hurt learning to master the art of chatting up chicks and taking them to bed.

Yet, of every facet of life, getting good with women is the 1 area in which guys fail most, give up quicker and just never manage to handle.

Thus Pickup/Game will be the easiest yet the most difficult thing a guy can ever undertake.

My personal imperical data (from analysis) show that 92% of men who get involved in Pickup (be it just from reading blogs), will eventually drop out within 6 months or less.

That leaves only 8% of men who learn about pickup, will have the potential and persistence to master the art of getting laid and getting good with women.

Out of the 8 % of hopefuls, 4% of those will actually succeed.

Hence, an elite class of 4 percenters due for success [by the way, success doesn't mean no failure].

What makes those guys elite compared to the 92-96% of losers?

Few things:

*Craziness

*Perseverance

*Persistence

*Patience

*Durability

*Extreme lack of sex

*Passion

Guys who get good with women (via Pickup) must possess the above 7 qualities as prerequisites (and they generally do).

Why craziness?

Because people will think that you’re fucking nuts :lol: !!!!

Only crazy people do shit that is socially inappropriate that someone who’s sane wouldn’t do.

Same thing in Pickup: one must do and say things which may be perceived as crazy to the average ears and eyes.

Actively trying to pull One-Night Stands is sort of crazy [according to the social narrative]!

Actively approaching tons of women on a daily basis is sort of crazy!

Going up to random girls in the club and making out with them is sort of crazy :) !

In order to “Win” at the Game of Pickup and Seduction; you have to be crazy!

Now I’m using the word crazy in an exacerbated manner here. Surly I’m not crazy, nor is any other PUA practitioner.

I use the word crazy to emphasize the great abnormality of the situation.

As I mentioned in the commentary on Bog’s post, lots of men fail at this due to the curse of “quick result”…or wanting quick results.

Guys are willing to sacrifice and frankly waste 4 years to get a bachelors degree in whichever field, which they will rarely ever find employment in the same field related to their studies…not withstanding that the tertiary-education system in America [college] is 1 of the greatest scams ever in order to keep young people indebted for life to the government…yet the average guy is willing to waste 4 years just to accrue a worthless piece of paper.

That’s a very long commitment if you ask me.

No one is looking for the quick-fix alternative to 2-4 years of college.

However, when it comes to getting laid and getting good with women; guys want a magic pill which will transform them into big pimps over night where hot chicks will just materialize in their beds without lifting a finger.

Now, in retrospect, getting laid should be a quick-result process.

What I mean by that is, every man (with few exceptions) was instinctively bred with the mechanisms in order to make love and to procreate: a tongue, hands, a phallus and spermies.

With that, a boy is already equipped with the necessary tools to do the job of mating as early as age 12. So rationally, finding girls to fuck should come easy. It shouldn’t be work!

From that angle, I get why lots of men are desirous of the magic-pill approach, or feel that they’re inherently good with women, so learning Pickup would be unnecessary.

Therefore, whenever the modern man encounters resistance from women, he feels as though he’s above the process and he shouldn’t have to work to get laid nor to get a girlfriend.

Those guys usually resort to a life of porn [I love porn also ;) ], online dating and being hooked up with the default friend of the family- a girl whom he isn’t even that attracted to but settles for.

Guys who become good at getting girls are in this for the long haul!

They don’t ascribe a timeline to when this will happen.

It isn’t a 4 year commitment (or 1).

It takes however long it takes.

When I first got into Pickup, I spent almost a year and a half solely reading, gathering information, dissecting pick-up theories, learning routines and openers, female psychology, inner, outer game, etc.

The typical shit that all PUA’s learn.

When I eventually took to the field to apply what I learned; epic fucking FAIL!!!

Now, the beauty in this, is that I never expected to kill it right away!

None of the pickup gurus ever taught nor expected that newbies and students would kill it right away!

I knew that I had to fail many times before getting the hang of it.

Quick fix was not my outlook.

In conjunction with that, You must have a passion for women, for meeting women, and a passion for Pickup.

If you lack the inherent passion and sexual desire for fucking the shit out of sexy women, then why would you put yourself on the line night after night to meet them?

You wouldn’t; hence quitting.

For reference sake, I posted an in-field video yesterday where I’d lost a girl who was ripe for the picking! All I had to do was project a more positive and dominant stance but I failed to. So even as advanced PUA’s; we still expect to fail and not get all butt-hurt about it!

Pain in dating is also a great motivational factor as to why guys stick with pickup opposed to giving up easily.

If you’ve had many instances where the love of your life, or your so-called dream girl, had snubbed you for a bad boy no-lifer, then ego-deflating experiences like those will spur you to getting good with women.

What led me to discovering the Pickup/Seduction community (by sheer chance of a google search) was a Valentine’s day situation where I’d gone out to purchase a teddy bear, box of expensive chocolate, roses and written poem for a girl whom I’d wanted to get with.

Very fucking romantic :lol: !!!

She took the gifts, expressed thankfulness, turned down my date proposal then later hook up with a neighborhood bad boy/asshole who I can guarantee didn’t get her shit for Valentine’s yet was able to fuck her.

I had too many of those situations happened to me in my lifetime (prior to Pickup), so it really couldn’t get any worse, which was a huge part of the reason why I adhered to Pickup and never quit since I knew what being shitted on by girls felt like.

Now, if you’re a guy who hadn’t had any such heart-pummeling things happened to you, then getting blown out and rejected by a girl on cold approach would be life-shattering. So much so that you would throw in the towel on Pickup like a little bitch!

Therefore, being constantly fucked over by women, will make you a good candidate to becoming good with women and excel in Pickup.

Not having such experience may rob you of the necessary drive to go far with women.

With that, I leave you with these video from the Pickup guru, RSD Tyler, as he talks about making Pick up easy, + lecturing about true passion for the Game.

8 Responses to “Not Everyone Is Built For Pickup + 96% Of Us Will Fucking Fail To Get Good With Women”

  1. The good news is that there are many ways to skin a cat: day time cold approaching, night time cold approaching, social circle, highly physical game, highly verbal game, large number of approaches, small number, etc. Guys that get discouraged are often practicing the wrong type of game for them. If they experiment, they can usually get it right. But many of them drop out before that happens.

    You’re right, a lot of guys expect quick fixes, when normally their problems have much deeper causes that will take time to work through if they want to be much more attractive to women and have choice in their dating lives.

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  2. I also got into the game after my first love cheated on me with my best friend. Painful then, but I’m glad it happened in a masochist type of way haha!

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  3. […] in a recent post, I dealt with why girls drop out the game so […]

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  4. I do not think that guys who struggled with meeting women their entire life and have many negative memories and feeling and emotions associated with it. I honestly do not think they expect quick results.

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  5. I think at first they think this is will be a magic bullet and when they realize it’s not, they get overwhelmed and give up.

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  6. Picking up girls need a lot of focus and skills to learn so you can improve your chance of finding a dating prospect. Try to have other dates through bar hopping or simply walking in the park. Nowadays, almost everybody can pick up women anywhere. That might be sad to know but we need to adapt to such changes.

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