A Newly Met Girl Will Always Try To Fake You Out; But Don’t Be Fooled!
Last night [Wednesday], I’d picked up a 23 year old HB8.9 while finishing up a round of exercise at a sporting complex [mentioned here in a tweet].
I took her on a mini insta-date as I bounced her from the complex area to the pier where we sat down, chatted and shared a juice.
This random date lasted about 2 hours.
What had really surprised me about this chick, and actually impressed me also, was that she talked more than I did :lol:!
I even negged her at 1 point saying to her that she’s the first-female chatterbox I ever met ;).
Now, during the 2 hours of rambling, the following statements were uttered to me from her perky lips:
► “I have a boyfriend”.
► “I hate girls who cheat”.
► “I’m faithful”.
► “Guys who hit on me are creepy”.
► “When my BF cheated on me twice, I never cheated back on him”.
► “I never cheated before”.
► “I don’t kiss men I don’t know”.
Now, the average guy who takes everything at face value, who doesn’t understand that he should NEVER listen to what a woman says [at least in such cases], he would have instantly gobbled up every single word as gospel, which would indicate to him that the girl was a standard-bearer or morality, prudish and a champion of fidelity.
I have AFC friends in my personal life who would repeatedly fall for the fake-outs, then after the date, I would say to them:
Me: “So why didn’t you fuck her”?
AFC friend: “Nah man, she told me she doesn’t get with dudes like that until she knows them for over a month”.
Me: “Ok, so did you at least get to make out with her”?
AFC friend: “Nah! Not after she told me she doesn’t like kissing”.
You see, those guys fell for the fucking fake-out!
There is a real possibility that those girls could’ve been being honest and forthright!
However, don’t leave it up to fucking chance!
As the old-school Pick-Up Artists would say, “Make the hoe say no”!
What that basically means is, no matter what this new girl says out of her mouth; don’t fucking believe it!
Plow forward until she says no and objects to your advances!
If she doesn’t say no/objects; then it’s all good !
You now would’ve had confirmation that what she said to you just 20 minutes earlier was all a crack of bullshit!
Now back to the field-report date.
So as my so-call date, whom I’d just met an hour earlier for the first time [cold approached], was rambling on about all men being cheaters and how she loves her BF in spite of his cheating ways and so forth- I kept cool in that her statements were filtered through 1 ear out the other, discarded as Crème de la Crème bullshit.
Did I believe anything she said about not cheating and her prudish-like declarations?
I mean, she’s probably never cheated before. I believe she was telling the truth, and I know that contradicts what I said about not believing women: but I can explain :)!
Whether what she said was the gospel truth or not; it shouldn’t frikkin’ matter!
Just because she never cheated before doesn’t mean she can’t start now…with you!
It must start somewhere [if it's ever gonna start] with some guy. And that guy is usually the 1 who doesn’t fall for the fake-outs, the 1 who screens out what the girl says and plow forward as though he has selective amnesia.
This doesn’t only apply to cheating and fucking, nor to girls who are in relationships.
Let’s say that this chick was single and she had said to me:
“I don’t kiss on the first date. I never did, never will”.
I can either accept that as her truly unwavering position, fall for the (potential) fake-out and waste an entire night with nothing to show for it but good conversation.
Or, I can accept what she said as her genuine and true position, but it is still capable of being undermined, busted and shaken to the core.
With this girl whom I’m writing about, I didn’t manage to lay her last night due to various logistical reasons.
The following happened though:
► While seated face to face on the pier bench, we flirted by knee touching playfully under the table [initiated by me of course].
► I stroked her hair by brushing her bangs behind her ear. This I did repeatedly…without objection.
► While gazing together @ the Orion constellation on the star-filled night [she'd pointed out the Orion belt], the cheek of my face was pressed against hers closely…with no objections.
► After getting up to pretend as though I was throwing something into the garbage, I sat behind her almost straddling her in a seated-spoon position…without objections.
► While seated behind her (my cock pressed against her backside), I stroked her shoulders and caressed her neck…without objection.
► As we walked, we hugged, held hands and other PDA moves…with no objections.
► We paused while I embraced her from behind to size up her ass with the palms of my hand…with no objections.
► I kissed her on 4 different occasions proceeding everything else…with no objections.
► She kissed me 3 times including the conclusion of the insta-date.
Ok, let’s re-examine the original points and factors here:
1.) This girl has a boyfriend. She had even shown me pics of him on her BBM during the night.
2.) Says she doesn’t kiss guys whom she doesn’t know [she surely doesn't know me].
3.) Says she hates girls who cheat. Well she never cheated technically (with me…yet), but it doesn’t make it less abominable (to societal standards) to have a guy all up on you in a sexual way…a complete stranger at that whom you don’t even know but for 1-2 hours!
Now, what would’ve happened had I not escalated KINO (touched her)?
What would’ve happened had I not kissed her?
I would’ve gone home with doubts and a gazillion questions of “what if”, “should I have…”?
Women ultimately respects a man who doesn’t fall for her shit!
She expects you to be smarter than that!
She hopes and expects that you will see through her fronting facade!
She doesn’t expect a grown-fucking man to fall for the verbal fake-out!!!
Situations like these are what separate boys from men, Betas from Alphas, men who will be laughed at from men who will be respected and fucked!
Whenever your date says something anti-climactic, or declares something which makes it seems as though you won’t be getting any action: Don’t Buy It!!!
Don’t even acknowledge it but with a slight nod of the head in agreement, but with a mental smirk of, “Yea right, you can’t fool me”.
Then Plow, Plow, Plow, Act, Act, Act!
She wants you to act!
What’s the worst that can happen if you do attempt to get sexual or touchy with her?
► She scolds you.
► She leaves.
That’s it !???
You’ll still live.
Either way, if she chooses to terminate the date and leave, then she wasn’t down with the program anyway.
If she scolds you and really means it, you simply cut the date short and you leave as I’d done on this date with a professional-Canadian MILF photographer whom I’d picked up.
Don’t put yourself in the 95% class of men who become discouraged based on what a girl says on a date or prior to that 1st. date, and their hopes become shattered whenever the girl says she doesn’t do this and that, doesn’t like this or that, this or that isn’t her type, he isn’t her type, bla, bla, bla…
All I’m saying is: don’t be discouraged, do not listen to what she says until she proves it to you by your actions and her actions.
If while in the sack she says that she doesn’t give blowjobs, don’t be a fucking idiot to take that as gospel. Tell her to suck it and motion to her to suck it!
If she says she doesn’t kiss on the first date: Try kissing her on the first date!!!
You get the point!
Women will often test your manhood this way and they will try to save face by pretending as though they’re anti-hooking up.
Reminds me of a recent video I seen of James Marshall picking up a girl after she insinuates that he was a maniac and stuff…but she still gave him her #.
Had he took the things she said at face value, he would’ve left dejectedly without any achievement but wasted time.
However, James being a master PUA coach and practitioner, knew better that to stay non-reactive, filter out the BS and proceed.
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