Just a quick-random post for you guys.
Weekends (Fridays primarily) are my reason to live.
As the self-proclaimed king of night-game pickup, I always manage to live up to the hype.
Anyway, while heading to the barbershop this evening, 3 high-school girls approached me [age 14]:
“Hey man, can you please give me your headphones? Mines just stopped working and it has a short”.
Now, I can’t live without listening to music for a day via headphones or earpiece.
I’m known in my fucking neighborhood as the guy who never goes anywhere without his earpiece!
I eat, sleep, shit and work listening to music: LITERALLY!
So when these little brats had asked me to give up my cherished headphones, I virtually laughed in their faces and scoffed at the notion of such ridiculousness.
Then I thought to myself:
“Wait a minute, I’ve insulated and isolated myself in this little bubble away from society for almost 5 years on end. Maybe it’s time to break away”.
So with much reservation- I coughed up my headphones to the little lasses and went on to the barbershop.
Moral of the story is this:
Living my entire life in New York City, I generally see bunch of dudes and women commuting the subways and buses with headphones and earpieces on, listening to music.
Sure, there’s no problem with this. But you definitely kill your chances of interaction with people.
I’m a super social guy, thus my pick-up community name; Socialkenny.
However, when I’m commuting, running errands, going to the barbershop, gym, wherever, I must have an earpiece in or my headphones on.
So that’s an entire day of killed opportunities to pick up hotties and get laid.
The only time that I’m actually not listening to music while on the go is when I’m consciously sarging and doing Day Game or Night Game tryna pull ass.
However, 80 % of my time in public is spent with music over my ears when I could’ve been meeting new people.
So ditching my headphones was possibly the best thing I could’ve done.
Other men who are doing this, locking themselves off from others in public, I urge you to take similar action and toss away that iPod, earphones, tablet, or whatever device you’re now glued in, all in the name of meeting new people.
If you’re listening to music on the go and a hot girl is eyeing you, the fact that you’re occupied with your music will prevent you from approaching that girl…who could’ve been your future wife.
I thought I’d die without a minute of listening to Trance, but I thought wrong.
Cheers to the weekend!