At first, I never knew how instrumental this would be, and the many dividends it would pay off down the line.
There’s quite a number of ways in which to tame the anxiety beast (with women), but 1 of the most effective ways I came to discover was… “Chatting Up Married MILF’s”.
Yes I fucking said it; flirting with ladies who are old enough to be your frikkin’ mother!!
No one was born instinctively knowing limits and boundaries.
A baby doesn’t come into this world knowing its place.
He-she has ZERO fucking bounds!
We were all conditioned to follow social rules and protocols.
Because of this social conditioning as a toddler, most men become incapable of doing things which may seem too radical or forward: like flirting with married women or women older than they are.
This sort of “respect for your elders” frame has become a double-edge sword in the dating scene.
Guys such as I am, are rarities in this world of Betas.
There’s no chick whom I deem as off-limits: whether she’s married, widowed, MILF status, has 20 kids, a judge, nun, teacher, etc.
As long as she’s hot and has a body to my liking.
Respect for your elders as far as women and dating goes, isn’t a motto I abide by at all.
Guys who become extremely good with women have less boundaries and are risqué.
Guys who never become good, or remain below average, have many social hang ups when it comes to sex and dating.
It’s no secret already to regular readers of this blog that I’m an ardent MILF-Hunter, my girlfriend is a 41 year old MILF herself, and I love shagging the shit out of hot cougars and women 15-20 years my elder!
Think Paula Abdul and Michelle Obama!
Apart from getting a sexual gratification of busting a fat-ass nut all over the faces of “respect-worthy” wives: it goes beyond sex.
The skills, ability and confidence to flirt with or pick up a married woman is the pinnacle of Game.
Fuck picking up exotic strippers!
There’s nothing risqué nor ballsy about that!
Strippers and models aren’t forbidden fruit, nor are they hard to seduce!
Try banging the shit out of your high-school teacher or your mother’s hot friend- and then we can talk about confident and Alpha!
There’s a psychological HIGH one gets from knowing he can convince a (so-called) happily-married woman to cough up her phone number.
There’s a sexy MILF business owner who runs a chain of supermarkets along with her husband/business partner where I live.
She’s a 52-year old, VERY religious and church-going diva!
The type who always preaches to people that they should accept Christ into their lives and attend church….
I hate religion [I'm an Agnostic], so such attempts to convert me usually leads to a verbal firefight between the “holy people” and I.
Basically, this 52-year old married MILF business-owner is a serious cookie when it comes to religion and her marriage…until she came across moi.
Just yesterday, I had a guy(random stranger) say to me while exiting the supermarket, “Dude, how the fuck did you get away with that LOL”!!!?
This is what he’s referring to:
Yesterday, the married MILF happened to have popped into 1 of her establishments which I frequent to buy groceries:
Married MILF: “So how was your Valentine’s”?
Me: “I was waiting for your call so you can take me out but you stood me up so I didn’t go anywhere”.
Married MILF: “LOL weren’t you supposed to take me out!? You’re the man”!
Me: “New times, new things. Women take men out nowadays”.
Married MILF: “So you say. So how’s you and your girlfriend”?
Me: “Every time I come in this place to shop, you’re always inquiring about my GF! She’s ok! Worry about us- you and me”!
Married MILF: “Lol young man, I’m way too old for you. I probably have kids your age”.
Me: “Age is just a #”. Your husband better not slip up or I’ll be sleeping with you in no time”!
Married MILF: “LOL you can say some things to make me laugh sometimes boy! I don’t know where they got you from”.
Me: “Nah seriously, set a date and time and we’ll go out”.
Married MILF: “I’m too old for that now. I passed those days. I haven’t gone out in ages”.
Me: “A sexy piece of ass like you shouldn’t restrict herself so much from getting out some”.
Married MILF: “[Blushing pink] LOL you checking me out or something”?
Me: “Come on Mrs. **********, you act like this is my first time here. I been coming here for months and you know I’m always checking you out”.
Married MILF: “Such a perv young man.
Me: “Your husband’s time is limited before I really try seducing you”.
Married MILF: “LOL whatever you say boss”.
I took her hand and gave it a kiss on her wrist as I was leaving which left her stoked and blushing bright red!
Such interactions between us is customary.
This will happen at least 3 times weekly; at times for an entire half hour whenever she’s doing inventory checks throughout the store.
This is just the way I operate with 90% of women I regularly come in contact with, irrespective of her social standings or age…unless she’s OLD and OLD-looking!
The guy who had asked me how did I get away with such forward shit, and even the guys reading this wondering how and why she doesn’t chastise me and put me in my place…
Well reason is because I own my shit!
I’m super congruent and confident whenever I say such ballsy shit.
The moment she or any girl for that matter, senses or notices that you’re iffy, nervous and faltering in the forward shit you’re saying and doing, she will weed you the fuck out and put you in instant check!
So it’s all about the attitude, your ownership of that attitude and your willingness to be forward.
As religious as she is, she never brings the religion shit my way!
She’s never preachy with me!
Ninety percent of our interactions are sexual and forward.
Now, I’m not realistically trying to pick up this married MILF.
She did give me her # months ago but I never bothered to call.
I’m more concerned with social vibing and building my repository of social skills.
The spin off effect of doing this [flirting with women who are way older than you are] is that you learn to become fearless of all women!
Once you can approach and flirt with women who are supposed to be off-limits, you’d be able to approach and flirt with women of your own age group and younger.
So that is the spin-off effect of seducing MILF’s, teachers, preachers, doctors, your mom’s best friend, etc.
You don’t necessarily have to pick them up!
The act alone of flirting with them, flattering them and being sexual with them will inevitably make you almost immune to approach anxiety.
Then approaching and chatting up a super hot teenager will become effortless!
With that said, the next married woman you come across; flirt with her!
If you see it as unethical and wrong to seduce married women; then don’t seduce them! Just flirt with them and see how far you can go.
Have no agenda of actually picking them up.
Just flatter them and say something sexually-charged to them.
If you’re a high-schooler; get flirty with your fine-ass teacher!
It doesn’t have to lead to sex [although that would be nice]. You’re just gradually eliminating your fear of women.
However, if all you’re talking to are women within your comfort zone [your age group or younger], you will never progress.
To use a boxing analogy taught to me by my boxing coach:
“If you always stop at 5 pushups [your comfort zone], you will never be able to do 6”.
Therefore, you need to exceed your limits and go beyond what is comfortable to you.
At this stage of my life (over the past 3 years), I’ve become a rebel on steroids when it comes to sociability.
Want to assassinate your fear of women?
Start doing the unthinkable and break out of that fucking shell!