For a guy who hates Valentine’s, I damn sure still do get my party on. After all, I am the self-proclaimed king of night-game pickup.
As usual, whenever I go out, I tweet my ass out just to give my followers a real-time experience of what’s going down. So some of my tweets from that night are posted along with the article.
Date: Friday, 15th., 2013
Time: 12 AM- 6AM
Venue: The Bloc Nightclub
I went out to a huge-post Valentine’s Day party at a semi-enclosed nightclub on the island.
As I hit the venue, I approached a lone wolf [a girl standing by herself], got blown out. But as RSD Julien puts it: “Rejections don’t exist”, so as usual, it didn’t faze me.
Immediately afterwards, opened a 2 set [2 girls], got great results [good convo], chatted them up for 5 minutes [building social value], made them laugh hysterically [can't remember what I was saying].
Rolled off but I found myself feeling very awkward as I was standing alone sort of surveying the land.
I was nervously holding my drink, shifting my Vodka and cranberry [Cape Cod] from 1 hand to the other.
I was fucking struck with a bolt of nervous energy.
I have no fucking clue as I was just confidently chatting up 3 girls few minutes prior.
Spotted my boy Soul Brotha, [ex-wingman who once cockblocked all my sets], we chatted the shit for a bit.
Throughout the entire night (down until 5 AM), I’d danced with a total of 6 girls and chatted up 10.
As a light drinker, I drank the most ever in my life: 4 glasses of Cape Cods [Vodka and cranberry], but I was surprisingly NOT tipsy…unless I was so fucked-up that I can’t remember LOL!
Of the 6 girls I’d danced with: none of them I took home afterwards.
This isn’t surprising news since I’ve noticed this trend with other guys also over the years.
Not that dancing with girls is a jinx on your One-Night Stand attempts, but I’ll break it down shortly.
After combing the dance floor and being in my element grinding on some fine asses [after 3 AM], I was suddenly struck with a moment of epiphanies:
1.) These girls are erratic and twirling all over the place.
2.) Guys dancing with them (I included), aren’t fucking pulling, and aren’t taking these girls home.
3.) Of the 6 girls I’d danced with, those sessions lasted a grand total of 2 damn minutes!
4.) The hottest girls (in a nightclub), especially when tipsy, are never dancing in the 1 same spot.
They’re always moving about the dance floor, being dragged here and there by their girlfriends, or trying to evade some drunk guy who’s trying to dance with them.
That was the primary reason why I was only able to dance with those 6 girls for just a few seconds at a time.
Now I’m not telling guys to not dance.
However, if you’re ultimate goal at the end of the night is to take a girl home for the f-close [1-night stand], dancing is the worst way to go about achieving this.
Sure dancing is fun! But it doesn’t get you laid, nor does it set the stage for you, the guy who’s dancing with the girl, to fuck her later on…unless…
So have fun dancing if that’s your thing, but understand that there’s only 1 in 10 chance that you’ll fuck this girl at the end of the night (by strictly dancing).
This hearkens back to the old adages of pickup, which is that women in sexual-charged environments like nightclubs, are like tranced-out zombies.
Strictly dancing with her isn’t enough to snap her out of this trance and into a sexual state.
This requires Game: skills, balls, know-how and covert techniques.
Ok, guys reading this article right now might be very confused!
I would too had I not known the laws of club game.
Dancing ‘should’ logically lead to Sexing since it’s a virtual simulation of sex…rationally speaking!
However, it rarely ever works out that way.
Being a Pick-Up Artist, we’re taught to study behavioral patterns and to be analytical whenever in-field.
This has its pluses and negatives [observing people].
At the post V-Day party, the DJ fucked up the entire vibe by playing some dumb shit which threw the women “out of state” and into “rational mode” [these DJ's should be fired]!
In the following video clip [very short], I documented this occurrence by recording the moments where lots of people had existed the venue…including myself.
Partially being in observational mode and studying the social dynamics outside of the club, this is what I mainly noticed:
•All the girls were going home ‘ALONE’ or with their girlfriends with whom they came!
•Groups of girls, girls alone were hopping into cabs leaving.
Those were the same girls dancing all sexually liberated inside the club- yet heading home ‘ALONE’!
What fucking happened to the guys who were dancing with them all night!?
This dichotomy brings me to this realization: Dancing only serves to get a girl (sexually) excited [if that]: not sexually receptive.
You can get a girl horny by raising her buying temperature from grinding on her, but you’ll have to transition to getting sexual with her!
Most men, since most of us are dumb and clueless to getting laid, neglect to transition into a seduction location/isolation.
Since dancing in itself doesn’t accomplish anything besides getting the girl horny for another guy to possible fuck, you’ll have to be savvy enough to “isolate the target” as we say in pickup.
The average guy isn’t thinking of isolating the girl(s) whom he’s grinding on.
He merely wants to feel that ego-gratification he gets whenever his cock is against a girl’s ass and hips, believing that the girl will magically say to him:
“I’m horny! Let’s go fuck”!
So he’s hoping that the girl will isolate him instead- which will never happen unless she’s a fucking hooker!
It’s your responsibility as the man to isolate the target; which isn’t easy to pull off by the way.
In order to isolate the target [the girl], you will have had to been dancing with her 4 or more minutes.
It’s impossible to isolate a girl after just 40 seconds of grinding; which is why I wasn’t able to isolate neither of the 6 girls I’d danced with [since our dances only lasted seconds].
As every Pick-Up Artist would’ve been taught, isolating the girl is a MUST during club game!
Now let’s say that you’d managed to dance with a specific girl for 4 or more minutes.
You now have the logistical framework to try isolate her.
This is Seduction Community 101!
For perfect examples of isolating girls, I recommend that you watch some episodes of MTV’s Jersey Shore.
Isolating girls was an essential part to the guys’ game; predominantly Mike The Situation.
Guys who are good at getting ass instinctively know that they MUST isolate the girl.
You don’t wanna fall into the trap of dancing with a girl for 45 minutes then she says to you:
“I gotta go! My friends are looking for me”!
Lots of men make this common mistake every single night…which periodically happens to me!
To avoid this, isolate the fucking target between 3-8 minutes of dancing with her!
The faster you isolate her- the better!
Longer you wait, greater the chances of something going wrong: her friends, cockblockers/AMOG’s, competition, DJ killing the mood or a Bali-club style suicide bomb going off…
You get the picture!
Now, you isolate her in 2 ways: a combination of verbal leads and physical leads.
Say something to her like:
“It’s hot right here. Let’s go over there”!
“Hey let’s head to the lounge area over there”!
Then you physically take her by the hand, or by the waist, and lead her (or guide her) to the spot you want to isolate her in: a lounge area, sofa, bathroom, where the fuck ever!!!
If you’re brave and physically strong enough; just go caveman and throw her over your shoulder and take her [playfully].
Expect to be “congruence tested” though!
Whatever you say to her, make sure that you’re congruent and Alpha to lead her.
Slightest hesitation and unsurity on your part will cause her to object.
60% of girls at this point would give token resistance (fake resistance) to your attempts of isolating her, by saying something like:
“I can’t go to the sofa”!
“I don’t want to right now”!
“That’s too far to walk”!
As the man, re-calibrate (self compose), stay strong, don’t get frazzled, and say something like:
“You’ll love it! Don’t be so lame girl”!
Then lead her!
Even falsely promise to buy her a drink, lead her to the bar counter then pull a detour to a semi-isolated area.
The key is to “LEAD” [Verbally and Physically]!
Most girls won’t willingly follow you into isolation [this is her rational brain telling her "Don't Go"] since she knows why you want her there!
You’ll have to take her there with leads.
Take her by the hand or waist and lead her to isolation to physically escalate!
Note: You’re not isolating her in order to have a STUNNING conversation.
You’re isolating her in order to escalate: make out, kiss, finger-bang then take her home or bang her in the restroom.
That same night, I’d managed to isolate a girl outside of the club (beside some cars), but the boyfriend fucked up the set by pulling her away before anything physical could happen [Goddamn the boyfriends]!
Presuming that you cannot get to isolate any girl, nor get to dance with any, your other best option to getting a One-Night Stand is what I dub: “Scavenger Game”.
Employ “Scavenger Game” when all fails.
Realistically speaking, I don’t see this as a last resort, just that it could only be utilized when everyone is leaving the club (to go home).
For instance, you cannot use scavenger game early in the night when people are just arriving…DUH!
Four AM onward is the time for scavenging, when girls are sexual, horny, drunk, tipsy, sloppy…
At this time juncture, lots of girls would just stand around in a semi trance, which is your moment to get your scavenger game on.
Half of my One-Night Stands over the years since entering the PUA community were scavenger-game pulls after 4 AM from the bar or club.
This strategy is super fucking powerful!
It’s either hit or miss though, but you have dozens of chances to take 1 of those horny girls home.
If 1 attempt fails- so fucking what!
Move on to the next girl who’s standing around outside the venue!
That’s the hidden beauty in scavenger game: you can try and try until 1 hooks.
I spotted a sexy girl with the looks of a young Janet Jackson, I approached her and immediately escalated!
Also bear in mind; scavenger game is about immediate-sexual escalation: IMMEDIATE!
This is a last-ditch effort, do-or-die moment, therefore long conversations are fucking NO NO!
This is no time to be chatting about “how long you lived in this town…”.
Note: Your biggest challenge in scavenger game will be competition from other guys.
This chick had 4 other aggressive dudes trying to take her home.
Some guys instinctively understand Scavenger Game and apply it just as I was doing, so don’t kid yourself into thinking that you won’t have to fight to get the girl.
Another crazy thing: I’ve known guys who don’t even enter nightclubs.
They’d just show up at scavenger hours [after 5 AM] to see which half-drunk girl they can pull to their parked cars to fuck.
Anywho, at 1 point, some other guy had managed to get the Janet Jackson look-alike from me [hot-club girls have short attention spans, so this will happen often].
He tried kissing her, I overheard him telling her that he wants to fuck her, she pulled back in a semi-shocked manner, he got disheartened and bounced.
I swooped back in, grabbed her hand and led her, we made out , she pulled away, said she gotta take a piss, so she took a leak behind a car while I stood there zoned out watching urine sputter from her pussy [I know I'm perverted]!
We continued walking, she says to me:
“I don’t even know you. I wanna go back in the club. I don’t wanna go home yet”!
I convinced her to not go back into the club [they were already closing anyway].
She tells me she lives nearby, so I walked with her while we fondled each other and made out a bit.
Got to where she stays, fooled around @ the gate, she says her roommate is up early so we can’t go in [I did notice someone inside from outside], so I tried pulling her pants down to bang her right there @ the gate but her fucking jeans were too damn tight!
Sun rapidly rising as it was after 6 AM [I think], so I aborted the mission, went to grab a super early breakfast then headed home.
Did I take her #?
Fuck no! [Read: Get off the fucking phone and escalate you idiot]!!
1st.ly , she would not have remembered me.
2nd.ly , if she did remember me, she would have felt slutty the next morning and avoid communication with me [I discovered this from field-tested experiences].
Girls whom you meet at the clubs and bars should strictly be designated as One-Night Stand opportunities.
If you don’t get to fuck her that same night after the club ; then let it go!
It wasn’t meant to be!
In closing, when trying to get laid from the nightclub, your best bet is to use “Isolation Game” or “Scavenger Game”.
Dancing (all night) is unnecessary, and learning how to dance is also unnecessary.
Only requirement is the know-how to lead and isolate, and to escalate when the club is near closing.
By the way, my entire night was documented as usual via twitter in real time.
Follow me on Twitter for more in-field updates: @Socialkenny
I like interacting with all you guys while I’m out in-field.
I’m absolutely the most (inter)active PUA on Twitter.
That night I was conversing (tweeting) with my co-author (of this blog): Chelios PUA out of London, and also tweeting with a massage therapist (who does Pickup) out of Santa Barbara, California, who had just started following me yesterday: C2DARIS.
Those guys were my cyber wingmen up with me all night tweeting back and forth, giving tips and encouragements while I worked the club.
Tweeting from the club, sure sex slips away by Socialkenny PUA
You’ll have to become her interpreter; decoding her words by Socialkenny PUA
Stealing horny chicks by RSD Tyler
Basics of isolation from PUA Express
28 pickup tips for the bars and clubs to get laid by JC of Seduction Science
The reverse cockblock by Escobar of The Pickup Kings.Com
11 tips for nightclub pickup by The Player from Ask Men.Com
Take women to bed: physical escalation once isolated by Chase Amante
Complete guide to getting physical with women by Renaissan PUA
How to get a Same-Night Lay/One-Night Stand by Kezia Noble
How to have One Night Stands in 5 easy steps by JT Tran of The ABC’s of Attraction
Touch escalation ladder by JC