I guess the old saying: “Curiosity killed the cat”, has some practical truth to it as relates to pickup and seduction.
A girl who isn’t curious is impossible to seduce.
Let me reiterate: A girl who isn’t curious is impossible to seduce!
By curious, I mean curious about you and inquisitive towards you.
A girl being curious is in essence “Investment” on her part.
If a girl doesn’t invest in you nor into the interaction between you both (by asking questions), she will not allow herself to be picked seduced and fucked.
Neither will she give you her #…unless it’s a fake one which will have you going bat-shit crazy as to why she had done that.
Now, there are few pick-up tactics on how to get her to invest by making her curious. However, this isn’t a post about tactical theories, but more so an enlightenment as to this dilemma which throws many guys off their games.
The biggest and subtlest verbal SOI (Sign Of Interest) a guy can receive from the target [the girl he's chatting up], is she asking questions of you.
Girls who AREN’T interested in you will not ask you rapport-building questions.
She won’t give a rat’s ass where you grew up, do you have a girlfriend, how old are you, etc.
Likewise, the easiest and most common way for a girl to reject a guy is to just not talk to him and ignore him.
You can see this play out all the time at clubs or bars where the girl will give the guy a cold shoulder as he approaches her and tries to chat her up.
She doesn’t want to invest because she isn’t into him.
Once she becomes curious about you and starts to asks those investment questions, it’s a great indicator of her interest in you, which you can build on.
Contrarily, if she isn’t inquiring, isn’t curious about anything pertaining to you, it’s pretty much a lost cause unless you’re savvy and skilled enough to make her invest and make her become curious.
Just over the Super Bowl weekend, I went clubbing on Friday and was engaged in a perfect situation which highlights the investment theory.
After an intense battle between me and 4 other guys [for 1 girl], I was able to AMOG the shit out of them and got the girl focused on me only.
I was actually shoved by some clown-ass dude who was drunk and kept harassing the Canadian girl I was chatting up.
Anyway, she was super attracted to me and invested.
At various times during the interaction, she asked me these 3 questions:
1.) “Where are you from”?
2.) “Do you like me”?
3.) “How old are you”?
Girls who aren’t interested wouldn’t ask those questions of a guy.
She wouldn’t care less.
I managed to isolate her outside of the nightclub behind a pickup truck and started to physically escalate by rubbing on her tits and ass while she groped my cock!
Long story short, I didn’t take her home though [read why: I now prefer the thrill of the chase than actual sex], and the streets were too crowded to actually fuck her right there on the hood of the jeep.
Not that I’m against public sex [as I'd displayed in this post: Socialkenny escapade with a stalker-chic], but I wasn’t horny enough that night to pursue such thrill-seeking feat.
So guys remember; you must get her curiosity juices flowing if you want her to spread those legs.
Men who are naturally good with women already know this and instinctively do this.
The more curious she becomes and the more questions she asks of you, the more invested she’ll become.
It’s quite elementary: if she likes you, she’ll ask questions of you.
If she doesn’t like you and isn’t attracted to you, she won’t.
For some nifty little tactics in how to make her curious and ask more questions [which equals investment which leads to sex], check out the following articles:
Deny her closure by Socialkenny.
Hook Theory by Sasha PUA.
Push-pull tactics by Chase Amante.