A little fore-note for the readers:
This reader question comes from R.T., who resides in the Caribbean.
The (dating) culture in the islands is that where adult women generally engage in sexual relationships with teenage boys around the ages of 15-17.
A female teacher banging her male students is just another day @ the office.
This is totally common and acceptable in all of the Caribbean islands [also legal].
A 26 year old chick can be seen dating a 15 or 16-year old kid on a regular basis.
Think what you may, but this practice is commonly acceptable in the Caribbean [and it's vice versa: a 29 year old guy dating a 15 year old].
So this reader’s question is coming from a viewpoint of adult women who engage in sexual relationships with guys under the age of 18 [which as I said, is common practice in the Caribbean islands].
Date: Jan., 16th., 2013
“Yo I gotta another topic for ya!
I’m trying to get this over in my head, now here’s the scenario: a
grown woman has no problem in dating a school boy yet alone give him the pussy on a regular but
she wouldn’t give a grown man whether in his prime or not any pussy yet alone date because he
has no job.
Now I know as a grown man its
responsible enough to have a job or at least be looking or hustling; but whats the difference really and truly?
They are still giving up the pussy
without any benefits at all……and apart from sex, there is no benefit at all that they would gain from
a teenager; so why can’t that same principle apply
to a man”.
Hey R.T., this kills me too LOL!
I had to really study this for a while.
One thing that plays a huge part is “fresh meat”.
Just as when a strange-hot girl moves into your neighborhood, every guy wants a sample [to bang her or date her].
Same thing with a teen boy who’s still in school [thus not financial stable neither].
Even though he can’t do shit much for a grown woman [financially and sexually], that doesn’t matter to some women.
So there are 2 reasons also (why grown women would date guys who are still going to school):
1.) She wants to sample fresh meat [just as most guys are gungho on fucking virgins].
2.) She wants control.
Every girl has built into her, a motherly/maternal instinct where she wants to baby, nurture and dominate the man.
Attempting to dominate a grown man [let's say one who is older than she is] would be very challenging, so she hooks up with a very young guy where she can have a bit of control and to play that motherly/nurturing role, which she cannot really pull off with a grown man who’s already seasoned in the world of dating and mating.
But it always come back to bite them in the ass since the school boy doesn’t stick around or can’t do shit for her since he doesn’t work nor have income.
And some women may simply have a fetish for younger men or teenagers who are still going to school.
Perhaps the chicks you’re referring to fit this bracket [fetish for school-age guys].
Lastly, you have to remember that women on a whole [damn-near 100% of them] select men based on looks, youthfulness, status and sexual desires.
She will reject a good guy who’s financially stable who’ll make a great father, and instead, elect to deal with a guy who’s dirt-poor, has no job, who batters women for a living.
I’ll address how to handle this in a later article.