A little fore-note for the readers:
This reader question comes from R.T., who resides in the Caribbean.
The (dating) culture in the islands is that where adult women generally engage in sexual relationships with teenage boys around the ages of 15-17.
A female teacher banging her male students is just another day @ the office.
Sexy teacher robbing the cradle of her male students!
This is totally common and acceptable in all of the Caribbean islands [also legal].
A 26 year old chick can be seen dating a 15 or 16-year old kid on a regular basis.
Think what you may, but this practice is commonly acceptable in the Caribbean [and it's vice versa: a 29 year old guy dating a 15 year old].
So this reader’s question is coming from a viewpoint of adult women who engage in sexual relationships with guys under the age of 18 [which as I said, is common practice in the Caribbean islands].
Date: Jan., 16th., 2013
Inquirer: R.T.
“Yo I gotta another topic for ya!
I’m trying to get this over in my head, now here’s the scenario: a
grown woman has no problem in dating a school boy yet alone give him the pussy on a regular but
she wouldn’t give a grown man whether in his prime or not any pussy yet alone date because he
has no job.
Now I know as a grown man its
responsible enough to have a job or at least be looking or hustling; but whats the difference really and truly?
They are still giving up the pussy
without any benefits at all……and apart from sex, there is no benefit at all that they would gain from
a teenager; so why can’t that same principle apply
to a man”.
Hey R.T., this kills me too LOL!
I had to really study this for a while.
One thing that plays a huge part is “fresh meat”.
Just as when a strange-hot girl moves into your neighborhood, every guy wants a sample [to bang her or date her].
Same thing with a teen boy who’s still in school [thus not financial stable neither].
Even though he can’t do shit much for a grown woman [financially and sexually], that doesn’t matter to some women.
So there are 2 reasons also (why grown women would date guys who are still going to school):
1.) She wants to sample fresh meat [just as most guys are gungho on fucking virgins].
2.) She wants control.
Every girl has built into her, a motherly/maternal instinct where she wants to baby, nurture and dominate the man.
Attempting to dominate a grown man [let's say one who is older than she is] would be very challenging, so she hooks up with a very young guy where she can have a bit of control and to play that motherly/nurturing role, which she cannot really pull off with a grown man who’s already seasoned in the world of dating and mating.
But it always come back to bite them in the ass since the school boy doesn’t stick around or can’t do shit for her since he doesn’t work nor have income.
And some women may simply have a fetish for younger men or teenagers who are still going to school.
Perhaps the chicks you’re referring to fit this bracket [fetish for school-age guys].
Lastly, you have to remember that women on a whole [damn-near 100% of them] select men based on looks, youthfulness, status and sexual desires.
She will reject a good guy who’s financially stable who’ll make a great father, and instead, elect to deal with a guy who’s dirt-poor, has no job, who batters women for a living.
I’ll address how to handle this in a later article.
@SocialKenny that’s easy, because those little guys are fucking men. Flip the lens, you’re looking at the wrong end of kaleidoscope
@RyanMega Lol can’t argue with that Ryan.
@SocialKenny rill talk- hormonal rage for men 13-25 for women 30-40. There should be more instances of this. Trust- its not just the teacher
@RyanMega Lol I feel you bruh. And good break down with the hormonal range. This answers a lot.
@SocialKenny a lot of rureal americans so far. All the mom does son’s friend porn is inspiring.
@RyanMega Lol ok I get where you coming from now. But it’s funny how American society acts as though this shit doesn’t go on in (rural area)
@SocialKenny it happens elsewhere I’m sure but the national news on this topic
NOT in schools has that common theme. I
see the stigma fading
@RyanMega Personally, I don’t have a prob if a male student wants to bang his teacher. I’m all for it. Every teen has that 1 teacher he wanted
@SocialKenny if you could’ve fucked that teacher crush, your life would be different. I am sure I would’ve gone on to create facebook after
@RyanMega LMAO that’s my exactly point! We all had that teacher crush, but society makes it seem like it’d scar us for life or some shit lol
@SocialKenny only in the reverse. Old peevy men are def predators of a different sort. A hetero sandusky is still a damn shame
@RyanMega For sure! Thats why I’m not even advocating that. But if a hot 27 year old chic wanted me to bang her and I was 16 I’d tear it up!
@SocialKenny because they’re easy to
)
mold
@angiegomez1010 Lmao yea basically. That’s what I told the reader who asked me the question. It comes down to molding and fetish
@Socialkenny Men will try to break down your Ego because theirs is not big enough!
@SerenityPure Is that so?
@SocialKenny Yes! or they just looking for a sex toy…Real Women needs a Real Man…boys are for toys
@SerenityPure I agree with all my heart. I wanna be treated as a sex toy too but 1 that could perform
@SocialKenny Your type becomes a
challenge! laughs…
@SocialKenny I bet Cali legalizes it first
@RyanMega LOL or Colorado
whaddup kenny. for real are high school dudes banging there teachers. that is straight up playa status get it son
Lol I’m telling you bro. What a huge head start in a boy’s life to be able to bang his fine-ass teacher and the teacher not get in trouble for it. Damn I wish I was back in high school with the mind of a pick-up artist lol!
The minute I read the title the same thing came to mind…control. Like you said a grown man isn’t easy to tame as a younger boy. the older guy is already set into his old ways and should know by now what he will and will not tolerate. a younger boy doesn’t know much about appreciation but the woman feels that if she is able to give that boy something he didn’t have from the beginning then she’s upgrading him which is satisfying to her as long as he gives her the pipe and attention she seeks. this is the same exact reason why older men go after younger girls…the power to control, manipulate and use until they wisen up and realize what’s going on…which comes with growing up in age.
Good breakdown Bambi. You’re a chick, so you can speak to this better than I can.
Idk, I agree that women want control, since they usually aren’t physically dominant. But I don’t think the same applies for a guy. Older guys just like hot girls, and girls are hottest around 16-20 years of age.
So between that age would be like the hot peak or hottest points?
In general, yeah, cuz men biologically want young, fertile women, and most girls are well-developed by age 16. This doesn’t mean there aren’t cougar-hunters (I fancy older women, sometimes) or that we don’t find girls over twenty attractive, but just that we find younger girls more attractive. (Of course, younger girls are not great for actual relationships, but I’m just talking about sex appeal.)
You’re totally right. You got pretty deep here into biology and evolution. But it’s totally true though. All over the globe, older men generally prefer younger women and vice versa (fertility I guess).
Also you’re right with the developed thing, and I guess that’s why in regions like the Caribbean, the legal age of consent is 15-16 and not 18 like in the states.
As a person who might become a parent, I like how most states in the US handle consent laws. 16 year olds can have sex (in most states), but just can’t have sex with someone like more than 2 or 3 years older than them. That way, 16 year olds who are dating and sexually mature can legally enjoy themselves, but their parents don’t have to worry about them being manipulated by an older mate.
That makes sense.
Older men go for younger women for the mind control…to be that “father figure” in a sense and easily manipulate the mind..when a older man has an insecurity, they can easily woe over a younger woman than they could a woman of their own age who could identify with it. Some younger girls are just too happy to have caught an older man.
I totally disagree with you. Totally. Once again, this is women trying to equate what they do to what men do. Men and women have different motives for what we do. We are nothing alike on a decision-making level, behavioral level…
I can’t speak on all men but the ones I’ve known have expressed through conversation the reason behind going after a younger girl than one their age or older-so no..this is not another one of your illusions of women equating what we do to what men do. You should speak to more men outside of the PUA organization
Control? Totally never heard about that. It’s usually for bragging rights that an older man go with a younger girl, or for fertility reasons to probably have kids. Never heard of the control factor. I’ll have to look into it. But you said you know men like that.
If they say they “love” the younger girl, then I agree with this description. But generally, they’re just going for easy, hot ass. It’s like Hugh Hefner: he likes all those girls because they’re hot and he can afford them. But when he tried to marry one, he felt happy about being a sort of father figure towards her (but not towards all the other ones).
I don’t think women look at youth as much as men do in a mate. They basically want someone they find sexually attractive, and status does matter, sometimes. You know women are all over the place! They definitely do overlook the stable, financially secure guy, great father, blah blah blah. Damn, just reading about that made me think…boring! lol
Some more food for thought and clarification on the female mind.
Now that I think of it, some women like control too. But you know, mainly we pick guys from the experience and feelings we get from and with him. I think the PUA tips helps guys create those feelings and experiences so you can get farther with us.
Plus the motherly instinct in every woman. Women naturally tend to want to treat their men like mothers. It’s in their blood. Can’t blame them. So when they do get with guys much younger, this natural maternal instinct comes out