Jan, 14th., 2013
Tom:
“Women always choose a badboy over me. What are the badboys weaknesses, how can I exploit them? And how can I make sure women won’t go off with them
when she does go out with me”?
Thanks for contacting me Tom.
“There’s no way to exploit a badboy’s weaknesses in this setting.
He has no weaknesses as far as dating goes.
His only weakness is in a relationship type situation where his bad-boy ways may go too far and run the girl away.
You will have to compete with him by displaying bad-boy attitudes as well.
If you can’t beat them; join ‘em. This applies here in your case.
Now, I’m definitely not saying to become their friends. But you’ll have to demonstrate that you are a fellow bad-boy Alpha male in order for badboys to back off and not challenge you by staying away”.
•This is a common thing that happens at bars and other night venues, where a guy actually tries gaming your date or girlfriend.
•I’ve done it at times to other guys, and other guys have done it to me.
•This sort of thing is unavoidable. Perhaps the guy who’s chatting up your girl doesn’t even realize she’s your date.
•The worst possible response would be to come off in a jealousy rage when a guy is hitting on your girlfriend or date.
•In the video, I give a few crucial tips in response to a reader’s e-mail question [Tom's].
•Every guy should take note of the simple tips I give in this video [1 being a verbal tip, and the other a body-language tip.
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horrible advise
@Alis- Really? Clue me in then on some better advice. Perhaps a bar brawl would do it?
It’s true, the powerful man is not threatened by other men, by definition. When I’ve been out with a hot girl at a bar, and some random guy starts talking to her, I was totally cool and confident. Because I know she’s mine. I just let them talk, and eventually he leaves/ she comes back to me. I actually kind of enjoy it because I love game and I love watching guys to see what they’re gonna do and say, etc.
And if it’s a pickup (so me and her are not a full couple yet), then I MAKE us a couple. I come over and put my arms around her, kiss her on the cheek and greet the guy. Physically dominating the woman, in other words.
The only thing I would somewhat disagree with is that jealousy hurts you. It’s true that it’s not healthy for you emotionally, and of course you don’t want to get into a fight, but actually girls kind of enjoy it when their man gets jealous and possessive. It’s kind of a turn-on because she feels like her man is asserting his dominance over his turf (her). She feels like she’s worth fighting for. She feels desired. It’s that primal, masculine/ feminine dynamic. It’s no surprise if they fuck their brains out later that night.
Well said IP! I agree with everything said!
In fact, I got this insight from Savoy of Lovesystems from a podcast of his years ago where he spoke about LTR management.
To add to what you said, I remember being @ a bar and told my GF to flirt with some guys just for the fuck of it. She did, and guys approach and chatted her up. I basically wanted to see what kinda game these dudes had. I enjoy it as you said, to watch game.
I like you move too where you go over and completely AMOG’s the fuck out the guy by showing that you run shit by embracing the girl, kissing ,hugging, etc. A guy seeing this has to respect it.
This is perfect example for Tom who’d e-mailed me this question. When a badboy or any guy tries chat up his date or GF, 1 move he can do is what you said IP: get physical with the girl (kissing, touching, smooching, grinding, etc.).
The absolute worst response is to throw a jealous fit. A bit of jealous is good. I advocate this bro lol! Just don’t go overboard to tool yourself by looking hurt.
I don’t play other dudes talking to my girl, dancing with my girl or any of that shit. I think that’s very disrespectful. I don’t get into competition with other dudes. I only deal with cooperation haha.
LOL I can’t knock you for that and not playing other dudes playing your girl.
The good thing about being a big guy is a lot of guys don’t fuck with you or ur girl lol. But if it happened yeah I’d show a little swag….you gotta have that anyways
Lol that’s true. Guys would think twice about messing up a Linebacker’s game or try hollering at his girl (while he’s there).
Good advice. It’s attractive when a man knows how to handle stressful or awkward situations in a confident way and takes the lead. Very attractive. Also a little jealousy doesn’t hurt. But don’t overdo it as you said, then we think something is wrong with you.
Great tip coming from a chick. Wow; that rhymes!
lol Kenny