Text Game: “Dos & Donts Of Texting Girls”
Text- Game rules do “NOT” apply to texting your wife, partner, girlfriend, nor a girl whom you’d already slept with [for those girls, any type of text message goes].
However, they apply to texting girls you just met, hadn’t hooked up with as yet, nor went on a date with. You practically just got this girl’s digits.
1.) Keep your messages brief! Your txt should rarely be longer and more detailed than hers. So if she texts, ”
I like vanilla ice cream a lot but hate strawberry. It makes me nauseous.
*Your text should be shorter:
I hate vanilla! You have poor taste missy.
*Few years ago, my reply text would read something long like this:
Damn I hate vanilla ice cream so much it’s not even funny! I cant begin to explain how much I hate it for real! But you have poor taste though missy.
*So you never want to be sending her a book if she sent you a leaflet.
2.) Don’t over text! If she texts you 4 times daily (4 texts): send her 4 text or less. But do not make the mistake to send her 7 messages when she only sent you 4.
*You never want her believing that you’re more into her than she’s into you. You want her showing more interest by texting you more.
3.) Always appear to be doing something (interesting) or busy.
*If she texts,
So what are you doing right now?
*The worst replies would be [and this is unfortunately what most guys would say]
Nothing at all.
Just sitting here bored to death.
Playing Wii with friends.
*Those were the worst generic-type messages you can ever reply with [which communicates to the girl that you have shit going for you].
*You wanna say something like this [even if you have to lie your balls off]. Always convey to her that you’re doing interesting things and that you have an active lifestyle:
Oh, just getting ready to hit the gym then appointment at the spa.
Take my son to the zoo, see some exotic creatures…
Morning jog, skiing then cooking a meal like the Iron Chef lol.
*Always convey that you have a life and you’re not a fucking loafer laying around in your shitty boxers eating cheetos and watching re-runs of Family Matters all day.
4.) Humor humor humor! Avoid sending boring messages. Spruce up your texts also with emoticons, smileys and popular acronyms like Lol, ROTFL, LMAO (which lightens the mood and display humor). For example:
My grandma’s cat pissed on my new shoes LMAO. I’m gonna kill his ass lol!
*Or let’s say she says
What are U up to later Kenny?
*I’d reply with something like this
Nothing. Just cuddling with my stuffed animals & teddies lol.
Going to the gym to try lose this beer belly that’s holding me back SMH.
*So you never want to come off as boring and out-dated.
5.) This is probably ‘the’ oldest text-game advice ever written by the seduction community:Mirroring.
*You always wanna compose your messages similar to hers in the sense of using words and lingo that she uses. It builds familiarity, comfort/rapport. It makes her subconsciously think that she knows you or have a connection with you.
*Let’s say she ALWAYS uses the following words in her texts: Pompous, chilled…. For example, she says:
That POMPOUS guy at my job gets on my nervous!
Everything was CHILLED yesterday at work.
*Your messages down the line should include the words Pompous, Chilled or whichever words she generally uses. This is essentially a form of mirroring & Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).
*If she usually uses profanity: Shit, Fuck, Asshole, dick, MOFO, etc., you wanna mirror her by using those same words also.
*On the contrary: if she doesn’t curse, you don’t wanna be using much curses (which would turn her off).
*So compose your texts the way she does (with her lingo and her favorite words).
*If you don’t know her favorite catch phrases and words: just look back at her previous messages and check out which words she uses often.
6.) The most important rule of them all [they all are important]: get to the fucking point. You don’t wanna be exchanging txts all day which are leading to nada (nothing).
*The more time you spend texting, more comfortable she’ll become with the idea of “just texting”. Then she won’t see a need nor urgency to meet with you or go out with you.
*I used to make this mistake every-single time: whether it’s via text messaging or Facebook chat. We would text back and forth for an entire week after getting her #. Then when I did try to transition to the ‘meet-up’, she’d flake.
*So don’t make her feel that you’re too comfortable with the idea of texting. So that’s why it’s also a good idea to NOT reply to all of her texts.
Another wicked post on texting girls you guys should all read now! Most important text message you could ever send a new girl!
On a related note, this podcast episode of mines addresses online dating (text game by extension) which will benefit you greatly in overall texting and online dating: Socialkenny’s PUA Podcast Show episode #9: Best Online Dating Tips Ever.
To tweak your text game when it comes to getting girls on dates the right way, check out this following video of mines where I teach the proper way of getting girls to meet up with you with less hassle and less worries of flaking:
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