With their consent of course[Kenny does have etiquette at times], I’d be posting a pic’ with a fake name [Fuck off stalkers!!].
The questions were asked in real time via Facebook chat BTW(interesting), so these are women I generally chat with.
Every guy who dates or picks up chics, has heard about the ‘3-Day Rule’, where the guy shouldn’t call nor contact the girl before 3 days of getting the digits. For obvious reason of not looking desperate.
Being a curious bastard as I am, I wanted to get a general feedback from every-day women on this subject.
Ok, here we go!
Cool-sexy chic I met days ago via mutual friends on Facebook, so I threw her in the fray.
Q. If a guy was to get your # and he calls the same night, would you see that as desperate?
“Nope. Not really. Says that he’s interested”
Q. Ok cool. Should he wait to call?
“Well to me: it doesn’t really matter but it shows that he’s interested. But others have their own opinion”.
Me: Some women say that the guy would look desperate calling the same night.
“Unless he reaches the point where he’s just calling str8 then that’s another story”.
KW’s a hot MILF I’ve been Facebook friends with for a while now. We probably have like 40 mutual friends, so she’s essentially in my social circle (online at least).
Q. Ok, if you gave a guy your # and he calls the same night, would you think he’s desperate?
Q. So how long should he wait to call? Few days or what?
“No just call her”.
Me: “Some women say that it looks desperate to call the same day. What do you say”?
“No it’s not desperate…what’s the difference if he calls the same night or 2 weeks lata”?
Cute Bronx chica I’d met on POF dating site.
Q. If you give a guy the digits and he hits you up the same day/same night, would you say thats’ needy and desperate?
“Umm no not desperate but I need to keep my eyez open lol”.
Q. Lol, so when should he call?
“Maybe that same week. But can definitely text show that he’s interested”.
Cool Asian girl I met on POF too. She’s quite interesting with her insights.
Q. If you give a guy your # and he contacts you the same day or night, would that seem desperate?
Q. Ok, but why would that be?
“Maybe he just wants a booty call”.
Q. So generally, how long should the guy wait to contact you to not seem desperate for a booty call
“Umm maybe a week not sure”.
Findings & Conclusion
Wow- that was interesting to find out where women stand (supposedly).
We in the seduction community, already know that what a girl wants and expects LOGICALLY, isn’t what she wants, expects or goes for EMOTIONALLY.
Anyway, the most interesting finding here (for me), is that most of the women I surveyed, do NOT think it’d be needy and desperate to call the same day/night of getting the digits.
Yet it’s still a catch 22 though with going for what a girl says and what she actually responds to.
Nevertheless, I like the point made by Miz (the Bronx chica) about the guy texting same day/night to show that he’s still interested.
That’s key! And I happen to do that shit most times. Rather running the risk of the girl forgetting who you are, it’s worth it sending a short text with built-in humor (based on the initial chat).
The hidden beauty of this Q & A post is that it could be used as an opinion opener in street approaches or wherever.
Cool shit right?