Getting sex is 90% logistics and 10% social smart.
You should read that again before proceeding.
Ninety percent of what it takes to sleep with women on a fairly regular basis comes down to logistics and 10% social smarts. Not looks, not dick sizes, not money, not status but LOGISTICS in conjunction with social smarts and balls.
To give you a proper illustration and to simplify what I mean, check out the following scenario.
Let’s say that a girl finds you super attractive, she’s head over heels for you, you’re wealthy, successful and has all the status in the world.
Is that enough to get laid?
Of course not.
Girls won’t mysteriously materialize into your bedroom with bathrobes on saying “fuck me Kenny”…just because you fit her so-called quota of “ideal guy”!
Guys expect girls to just hop on their dicks.
You have to get her to your bedroom first. And that is the hard part which boils down to logistics and social acuity/smarts.
In the previous post, I promised you guys that I will breakdown a novel routine of mines which will skyrocket your lay count like nobody’s business.
Well take notes!
If a girl is willing to give you her home address or work address; she’s willing to fuck you.
Notice how this isn’t true at all for phone numbers exchanges?
If a girl gives you her phone #, it isn’t indicative at all of her fondness for you, nor of her sexual receptiveness.
Hence, if you want to gauge whether a girl is up for hooking up with you, always fish for her work information and address and not necessarily her home address at the beginning.
After all, even if a girl does want to hook up with you, she’ll be reluctant to share with you personal details of where she lives.
Such reluctance is understood due to legitimate-safety issues. For crying out loud- you could be Jeffrey Dahmer 2.0 [he was a notorious American serial-killer for those who aren't inclined to American history].
Therefore, girls are expected to be hesitant in giving out their home addresses.
Her work address though, since it’s most likely in a public domain, she’ll be much more willing to cough that up to a guy whom she deems fuck-worthy.
Related excerpts from my previous-video post:
If a girl is willing to give you her work information, details, department, working hours, etc. then there’s a 90% chance that she’s interested where she would expect that you would seek her out there. Not in a stalker-type fashion but with the realization that you’re the type of man who goes after what he wants without shame.
Whenever a girl gives me her work address, it’s equivalent to giving me the address to her apartment. She’s essentially telling me to come by. She wouldn’t do this with a guy whom she didn’t find attractive, dominant and fuckable. Hence she wasn’t gonna cough up her work information to a bum or a guy whom she wouldn’t fuck.
Simply get her work address, find out the logistics and meet her there (either during or afterwards).
The objective is to connect with her another time (soon) without the possibility of she flaking on you.
Women are fucking notorious for flaking and standing guys up! For men; this isn’t news flash.
If you allow the girl a (psychological) chance to flake: she will fucking flake!
You eliminate the chances of flakes by meeting her at her workplace.
She cannot flake on you at work or while she’s at work since she’s obviously confined to a specific location i.e. her workplace.
Get the difference?
She can only flake on you through a phone number, text or any other indirect and impersonal mean. But she cannot stand you up while there in your face…at her job. :twisted:
Now this may sound pretty crazy to most readers:
“Oh shit: Kenny is actually condoning stalker game”! :shock:
In reality, you must realize that women think differently than men do.
What you as a guy may see as stalking or weirdness, a girl is likely to see it different, perhaps as persistence and the result of male-female-attraction: “He likes me so much that he’s willing to persist to the point of meeting me at work”. Such a move- women find it dominant and not desperate.
Therefore, never judge women through the eyes of a man and from a male’s perspective or you’ll always miss the boat by a mile!
If during the initial conversation with a new girl, she names drop her workplace or merely mentions it for whatever reason, then a fucking light bulb should immediately flick on inside of your head [Flick]!
She’s essentially (perhaps unconsciously) giving you a clue as to where to meet her if you really want to see her.
A little secret you must also get clued in on, is that a girl will almost always give you hints and clues as to when and how to hook up with her (perhaps this is done outside of her consciousness).
For instance, if during conversation the girl says something like, “I live too far” or “I work nearby”, this most times is an indication for you (the guy) to read into and maneuver yourself accordingly.
Most men however, myself included, would totally miss these subtle clues where the girl drops something into the conversation of logistical matters in order to facilitate sex.
It doesn’t necessarily mean she wants you to meet her at work in order to fuck. However, it does indicate that she’s open to personal communication be it mere face-to-face chatting.
This sure beats the hell out of chatting through text or over the phone!
By the way, this should come about through an unannounced visit.
This is why a phone # isn’t necessary especially in such a case.
You can’t exactly phone a new girl and say:
“Hey Jill, it’s Tommy. I wanted to see you so I’ll be swinging by your workplace”.
She will fabricate an excuse for you to not come:
Jill: “I’m pretty busy at work…we can always set something up for the weekend…perhaps a date”.
Bam! You’re dead! :mad:
Therefore: no phone calls!
Just fucking show up!
Remember, your objective is to take away her ability to screw you over psychologically.
If a girl sees an outlet/option in which she can wiggle her way out of meeting up with a new guy (even though she likes this guy), she will chose that option, merely due to the fact that modern humans are prone to laziness and inclined to do the least amount of work and put in minimal effort.
What this spells out is that it’s MUCH easier for a girl to decline and flake than it is for her to say “yes” then have to deal with the likelihood of anxiety, fear, emotions, jitters, self-doubt, etc.
It’s much easier on her (emotionally, psychologically and physically) to say to you over the phone: “Let’s schedule for another time”, essentially giving you the runaround, than it is for her to confirm then have to deal with the emotional fears of meeting this new guy.
Hence, by you (the guy) showing up unannounced to her place of work, you rob her of that “excuse card” in which to play.
Check mate! ;)
Often times, hooking up with a new girl comes down to who can check-mate who.
This is essentially the animal-mating ritual of push-pull, chase and retreat, cat and mouse.
Moreover, most times, sex with a new girl happens when the girl feels as though she has no other options and recourse but to fuck this guy because he simply won’t relent.
Think about that for a minute and what it actually means!
A new girl will sleep with you just to get you off her back.
This is essentially Persistence-Game in its rawest form.
Would you like to know the secret of guys who get the most poontang consistently?
Guys who get laid the most, often psychologically corner women into feeling as though they have to have sex with them. :shock:
That’s the secret of guys who get laid often.
Sounds cruel and unethical but effective.
This is conversely why getting phone numbers is NOT an effective mode or tool in which to try to hook up [it's the worst way possible actually].
Over a phone call or text messaging, a woman has all the tools of excuse-making at her disposal…and she will fucking use them.
She can haphazardly toss her Samsung Galaxy aside or simply ignore your texts and phone calls as if you don’t exist…then days later pretend as though she never noticed your communication attempts.
Should I take this phone call? Nope!
With this being the reality; she won’t fuck you!
She won’t hook up with you!
She won’t meet up with you!
She doesn’t feel a need to!
Hence, you need to put a proverbial gun to her head in order to get her to meet up. And this cannot be achieved through the telephone, in the same way one cannot stick up a bank through the phone or via e-mail.
Note: I said “PROVERBIAL” gun to the head and not a real 1!
For clarity sake: this sort of mercenary approach isn’t necessary with all women in all cases. But it is applicable in majority cases as with girls who will have slipped through your hands via flakes. Such gun-to-the-head approach would’ve been the most expedient game in which to employ in order to get sex with least hassle.
Girls who flake perpetually and stand guys up, on an intricate level, this is the product of the girl having the psychological option and mental space to decide, decline and bow out at any moment.
As I eluded to previously, humans are lazy-fucks, therefore we will chose the easiest path to remain lazy, safe, stagnant, insulated and in-the-box.
Hence, whenever a new girl is faced with a decision of whether to meet up with you (the new guy) at a lavish restaurant or just to stay the fuck home and watch Netflix “ALONE” [her psychological comfort zone]; 8 in 10 times, she will chose the decision which requires the least amount of effort and work: which is to stay home and not give a shit about the guy who’s been trying to set up a date with her.
I can do this all night: every day of the week
This is the root of why women flake, stand guys up and become indifferent towards text messages and phone calls.
It’s much easier on her (physically and physiologically) to just not go through with a date.
This is why most women [males too] must have a PROVERBIAL gun to their heads in order to be spurred into action.
This proverbial gun comes in the form of zero-option frame as simply showing up at her workplace to see her (without calling her seeking permission).
She has no option nor decision in such a case!
She cannot tell you to not enter her workplace (presuming she doesn’t work at home).
If she works the aisles at Walmart or a department store; you simply show up as if by chance or shopping and try to structure the pull from there…meaning a meet-up or date.
The least option she has to shut you down, the more she’ll be psychologically pressured into sleeping with you just to get rid of you [that's if she sees you as a bother].
This is also the underlying theme of One-Night Stands.
In order to fuck a girl the same night of meeting her, the girl must feel as though if she doesn’t sleep with you NOW- tonight- she will lose you for good.
If you played your cards right and created the right vibe: she will fuck you that same night.
This is essentially “gun-to-the-head” approach.
However, the moment she senses that you wouldn’t mine texting and calling, she will remove One-Night Stand sex from the table, thus putting you into the “he can wait” basket…which entails being jerked around, flaked on, screened calls, etc.
This is precisely why in my One-Night Stand video from February, the girl whom I’d taken home tried to offer me her phone #, essentially trying to shove me into the “Wait” basket, but I countered this by telling her: “I don’t do numbers”, hence I declined to take her phone number, thereby leaving Same-Night Sex as the only option if she really wants to see me again.
Girls don’t make men of perceived-high value wait for sex.
Hence if a new girl senses that you’ll wait; she’ll gladly fucking make you wait. :)
Taking her phone number is virtually and literally saying to her: “I’ll wait on sex”.
If you’re a guy like myself; you don’t wanna wait!
This is why I don’t do phone numbers anymore. I’ve totally eliminated text game and phone game from my seduction arsenal.
Swapping #’s with a girl indirectly sends a peculiar message to her psyche, that you aren’t DTF or else you’d try to sleep with her then and there, or provide her little to no option in which she can wiggle her way out of meeting up…like showing up to her job.
Now, the hidden beauty in this (showing up at her workplace) is pretty simple:
If the girl already likes you and is attracted to your vibe, showing up at her place of work would only serve to solidify her feelings and attraction for you.
It’s only if the girl isn’t into you, that she would find it weird and stalkerish that you would show up unannounced to her workplace.
It’s common sense and intelligible in any other aspect of game or dating.
This is no different than if trying to chat up a hot girl in person and she gives you signals that she doesn’t want to be bothered with. For you to then show up unannounced at her workplace, it may very well land you in the creep-zone or even worse: the slammer…depended on the laws of the land. :shock:
Hence social smarts is a prerequisite.
If a girl likes you, you can almost get away with murder…you can do no wrong, like meeting her at work in order to whisk her away to an insta-date afterwards.
Now, this begs the question?
“How do I know if she likes me and if I’m at liberty to meet her at work”?
As I mentioned earlier, a girl isn’t going to divulge personal-work information (such as address) to a guy whom she isn’t at least remotely interested in.
Unlike phone numbers, a girl will definitely swap #’s with a guy whom she sees as a grotesque fetus and doesn’t stand a chance in hell with her [as backwards as this sounds to the normal mind]!
She will simply screen and not answer his calls whenever he does call.
However, she isn’t going to say to Joe, The Creepy Fetus Look-alike Beta-Male Stranger:
“I work at so and so company and it’s on so and so street in the black and blue building on the corner, on the 3rd. floor, 6th. door on the left, etc, etc, etc.
Joe the Beta-Male Loser whom she isn’t interested in; won’t get such information. So we can effectively assume that she isn’t digging Joe.
That is how you can gauge whether the girl is into you or not.
If she gives up work details including the address; then meet her there! She likes you!
Moreover, if she coughs up such details whether by request from you or on her own volition, it signals that she’s interested, attracted and subconsciously open to you stopping by her workplace (in order to set something up or to simply get acquainted).
Alright, so you might also be asking yourself: “Why should I meet up with her at work anyway”?
Once again, the reason for this is because she’s more likely to give you her work address than her home address during the initial convo as total strangers.
Your ultimate objective is to meet up with the girl instead of grabbing a phone # and playing the waiting and scheduling game, right?
Also, by not taking a girl’s phone number, you psychological force yourself into the right action, knowing that you don’t have a number in which to rely on and procrastinate.
Think: if you were on a rapidly sinking ship and the girl were your only life-raft, would you waste time jumping on?
Of course not!
With no options; humans are forced to act!
With options such as having a girl’s phone #, you’re naturally inclined to dilly dally and become non-proactive towards this girl.
Having no phone #, no options in which to communicate and to see her besides showing up at her workplace, you’d be more inclined to be proactive and go after the girl with persistence and vigor.
Grabbing her phone # will lull you into a false sense of time, giving you a false impression that you have ample time to get the ball rolling.
Ok, lemme relay a brief-field report example just to put things into perspective.
Earlier in the year, I met a girl, as usual, through cold-approach pickup on the streets.
Instead of getting her phone # before we parted ways, we chatted briefly about work and work logistics.
She told me that she’s a security guard and works at *******.
I fished for further details in which she shared with me her work schedule for the next night and that her shifts finishes at 11 PM.
I then said to her, “I will visit you tomorrow night being that I usually commute through that area”.
Whatever her answer would’ve been- did not matter.
I at least wanted to give her heads up to expect me (without seeking permission). BTW, giving advanced notice is optional.
After learning the logistics (from her) that she manned a booth at the entrance of a mall, the following night, I showed up as promised (probably to her surprise).
I made sure to show up shortly before her shift finishes where I could’ve structured an instant-pull by going for a walk.
We were able to hook up that same night directly from her work site as we went for a walk…which subsequently led to sex in the bushes. :twisted:
In essence; I forced her into a psychological corner by doing something so uncharacteristic, that she had to fuck me that night in order that I not show up on her job site again…which could’ve realistically gotten her fired. :evil:
Such a bold and unconventional move on my part also embodied a quality which all sexually-active women are addicted to like drugs: RISK-TAKING and DANGER!
Now, had I gone the traditional route of call and text; would I had gotten to sleep with her the following night after we met?
Of course not!
There would have been zero psychological pressure upon her in which to propel her towards sleeping with me so fast or at all.
Majority of new girls [80%], won’t sleep with you unless they feel that they’re at a point of no return. But as long as a girl sees an avenue in which to wiggle her way out of fucking you; she will take that avenue towards no sex…even if her pussy was leaking in anticipation of new cock.
She won’t give in unless she feels it’s imperative or the option of sex is the only option.
Now, I’m not advocating the following sort of game [try at your own peril], but here on island, I have a former work-buddy [a Natural with women] who often meets new women by casually offering to give them a lift here and there instead of walking.
He would cruise the streets at sunset in his vehicle, he would spot a hot girl on foot, chat her up, offer to give her a ride to her destination, she would hop in but he would then detour to the farthest part of the island under the guise that he’d left some important-travel documents at the beach and needed to retrieve them in a hurry.
The girls would often times be un-bias to this and not think anything shady, so they would tag along for the drive.
He would then arrive at a remote beach, hours away from any signs of modernity and human civilization: no cars, no traffic, no lights, no cellphone reception, sand roads…just the sounds of waves crashing against jagged reefs. And the only lights in sight came from his SUV. :shock:
See where I’m going here [Fear, Danger, Risk, Adventure, No Options...]?
A pretty scary setting if you ask me.
Bear in mind, his intention is to fuck these girls by allowing them no options, no recourse to back out [proverbial gun to her head].
As he gets to the remote beach to fetch his fictitious documents which don’t exist, he would feign as though the SUV battery died and it just won’t start.
He would then reassure the girl that if his vehicle doesn’t start shortly, he would find a way to get a taxi to take her home.
The thing is though: there’s only about a 5% chance of this happening since there’s no guarantee that he’d even have cellphone signal in such a remote area…but this is what he wanted, to provide the girl a little glimmer of hope, enough so that she won’t freak out, but so little so to ensure that she feels a bit stranded alone with a stranger- him-…her only way of getting back home.
With this being the current situation: the girl will have sex with him out of fear.
With a mixture of slight fear and attraction [the girls were obviously attracted to his vibe], she will have felt that to get home safely or at all, she will have to comply with his request for sex [although my buddy says he generally never asks for sex].
She’s essentially left with no options; gun to the head.
Refusing to have sex may very well mean a long walk home alone, in pitch darkness, in the middle of nowhere, an hour away from civilization. :shock:
Not to mention that women in the Caribbean are ULTRA superstitious where tales of chupacabra sitings and Loch Ness-like Monsters lurking in the woods at night, are as prevalent and real as kids who hold fast to the Santa fable.
The feared and legendary chupacabra of Puerto Rico and the wider Caribbean
In that case for the girl, sex will have seemed the easier and safest option.
My former work-buddy has been running this sort of game for quite some years now and has met and slept with countless amounts of women from doing this.
Only twice he said he actually had to kick a girl out his vehicle for refusing to have sex with him.
Technically in the Caribbean, this isn’t a criminal offense [kidnapping, etc] since no laws are being broken. So my buddy has zero ethical qualms with running this sorta mercenary frame in order to get laid.
From his estimate which he’d shared with me, he’s about 50 in 52 with only 2 girls having refused to have sex with him after he’d duped them with this sorta game. So that’s an almost flawless success-to-failure ratio on One-Night Stands alone.
Sure beats the hell out of an 80% failure rate you will have accrued through trying to hookup with girls the traditional way.
I personally don’t have the heart or cojones to push it this far as my former work-mate. But the psychological effect of his frame/game, leaves women with almost no choice but to have sex as the sole, easier and safer option.
This is akin to raping a girl without actually physically raping her…I guess. :?:
On a related note, I’ve met guys who unknowingly pester women into fucking them.
I’d actually written an article on this sort of game but never got around to publishing it.
When it comes to Pester-Game as I dub it, this can only be done in person.
You cannot (effectively) pester a girl via text or over the phone. She can and will simply lock her phone off if you keep ringing her too much. So pester game can only work in person.
Before I’d backwards-engineered this, I actually utilized pester-game to get laid once.
What pester-game entails is that you bug the girl into submission (in person), so much so that she has to have sex with you in hopes that you’d leave her alone.
Either that or she’ll call the cops [the latter option is rarely used].
Even backwards ass Hollywood is privy to Pester-Game.
There are countless Hollywood films which depict Pester-Game, where the male protagonist meets a strange woman [the female protagonist], fancies her, bugs her to death, she hates his guts, tries to persuade him to leave her alone through threats and flattery, but to no avail- he persists with pester-game until the girl eventually sleeps with him and they both live happily ever after. :) :)
With Pester-Game, just as the game in which my former work-buddy runs, you’re not asking the girl for sex. However, a woman is so socially conditioned into thinking that men only want sex, she will use sex as a way in which to placate men, i.e. the pest.
Years ago, I’d met a girl at a fast-food joint. Since I frequented that spot, I was always in reach of this specific girl whom I wanted to fuck.
I got her phone # without a hiccup but she kept fucking flaking, screening calls and playing female head-games! :mad:
At that point I said to myself: “I gotta get this bitch back. She fucks with me- I fuck with her”! :evil:
Therefore, I decided to pester the living daylights out of her whenever I stopped by her workplace to grab some fast-food [she was a cashier there].
I would pester her in front of her coworkers, teasing her and getting all Hollywood dramatic, proclaiming my love for her around other customers and workers, essentially making her super uncomfortable and embarrassed in public. :twisted:
For the first time since we’d exchanged phone numbers 3 weeks prior, she hits me up with a phone call: “What is this all about Kenny”!?
Me: “Oh, so it took this much for me to have to act an ass for you to act like a grown fucking woman and quit the head-games”!?
After a week of running Pester-Game, she got so annoyed that she literally slept with me just to get rid of me or to get me off her back. :shock:
That is Pester-Game 101.
When all fail and the girl continues to jerk you around; it’s proven very effective.
You’re virtually black-mailing her into sex: “Fuck me or I’ll continue to cause you embarrassment and ruin your public image and social value”!
I currently know guys who utilize Pester-Game by default and get laid consistently from such an approach.
By the way, this isn’t pre-planned. Those guys legitimately believe to themselves that pestering women is the only way or the easiest way to get laid since it has proven so effective for them.
My first and only wingman (a Natural) many years ago, was a notorious pest throughout his district.
We’d hit the nightclubs and he would pester bartenders into going home with him at the end of the night after few weeks of pestering specific girls.
He would cause me so much public embarrassment that I had cut him off due to his ultra-unconventional style of game (pestering) which was highly effective for him by the way.
In retrospect, this is exactly what is called “freedom from outcome” and self-amusement.
It takes a guy with little social inhibitions to pull this off consistently…not to mention that a pest can actually get booted and banned from certain establishments such as nightclubs, bars and restaurants. So it’s a very risky game to run yet effective in getting laid.
If you’re a pesky guy by nature, then this sort of game will naturally suit you with total congruence to your personality.
Ok, a pretty lengthy post I’d admit.
What I hope you’d learned from this article is how effective it is to leave girls little to no options.
Also the realization that the modern man is inclined to laziness [blame technology for this], which means that a girl will rather stay home to watch reruns of the Bad Girls Club or fuck around on Instagram, than to go out with you: the new guy.
She will 90% of the time, choose the option which requires her to think less, work less, move less and do less.
The only reason she crawls out of bed in the mornings is to go to work…and that is because she has to…or she’ll starve and die LITERALLY.
Hence she has no options there but to leave the house and go to work [gun to her head].
This is why it’s much smarter and expedient to catch her at work or just as she finishes work while she’s already out of the house [same applies to catching her out while she's shopping or grabbing a bite to eat].
It doesn’t require any extra effort at all on her part to run into a random guy on the streets and then decide go on an instant-date with him since she’s already out of the house.
This’ why I can effectively and almost at will, magically get complete strangers on instant-dates within 20 minutes of meeting them (as I showcased in the recently posted video below).
The secret [my secret] lies in knowing that once women are already out and about doing their essentials (work and shopping), it’d be no big deal in getting them to detour to grab a cup of coffee, pizza or simply take a walk…which if handled correctly- can lead to sex.
However, the problem arises when trying to convince a girl [via telephone] whom you haven’t slept with yet, that she should drop her routine and to leave her home in order to go out with you…a fucking stranger whom she has no obligations to!
This is why majority of the time- she will flake and play head-games and not give a flying fuck about ethics, protocols, principles and karma!
You’re just a complete stranger to her.
She knows it- but you don’t.
She will give you more runarounds than a track and field athlete.
She effectively calls the shots while over the phone and texting. But in person where she has to look you in the eye; she would think twice about excessive games and find herself complying more instead of making excuses as she’s at liberty to do while over the phone.
Hence, getting phone numbers and calling women is a huge waste of time and will only make you age faster due to wrecking your brains trying to figure out why 4 in 5 girls you meet, are bound to play excessive head-games and not stick to the script neither their words!
As previously mentioned: humans are socially conditioned to be lazy (through technology). We now live in a world where everything is automated and instant: coffee, food, movies, elevators, cars, banking, online dating, online shopping, e-commerce, cyber sex, texting, virtual dating, etc.
Technology ruins your chances of getting sex.
Therefore, believing that most women will be ecstatic to get themselves ready for a date with you (hair, wardrobe, makeup, money…), is fooling yourself guys.
This is essentially why majority of the phone numbers you will have secured, 80% of them will result to Naught, NADA, Zilch, Zip.
This percentage of failure will only decrease, which means your turnover ratio of sex will have improved, when you desist from relying on phone numbers and by extension, not rely on traditional dating.
You want to afford women the least amount of time to think rationally.
When a new girl thinks (rationally), or is given the (ample) time to think (rationally), she will almost always decide to not have sex and not go on that date.
She has all the time in the world to “think” while not in your presence, hence she will say to herself: “What does he want? Does he think I’m some kinda easy bitch? What if he’s a rapist? I don’t know this guy at all! I should call Sharon about this. What if I look fat in that dress? My hair is in shambles”! :shock:
When a girl is allowed to think; those are snippets of what run through her mind when faced with the decision of meeting a new guy as for a date.
With randomly showing up at her workplace, she doesn’t have time to think or consequences or think of anything for that matter besides what is taking place in the moment with you: the new guy.
Moreover, this is why girls drink and do drugs. The intoxicants put their rational minds, thinking-ability and inhibitions to bed.
Alcohol and drugs strip away the woman’s ability to think rationally [male and female both].
You want to, and must cause the same effect on the girl as an intoxicant and date-rape drug do.
This is a widely accepted concept in seduction whenever seducing a girl, that the less she’s allowed to think, the greater chance that she’ll have sex with you.
You want to take away her power to think by jamming her decision-making processor like a rocket-propelled grenade blowing a hole through a poorly fortified Humvee.
Again- this is why and how One-Night Stands are possible; you’re allowing the girl no time to think rationally, giving her no space to flake while simultaneously rendering her logical brain disabled.
Taking a stranger on a random insta-date, is the same psychological procedure as structuring a One-Night Stand.
Likewise with showing up unannounced to meet with a girl at her place of work (provided she’s into you).
Since she isn’t expecting you to really do this (something so unconventional), she will not have had the sufficient time to strategize an out or excuse.
With the teen mom from my latest-infield video, as you will have seen, I did not take her phone number even though the likelihood of getting it was very high.
Instead, I fished for her work details with the promise that I’ll stop by one of these days [keeping that day vague is best].
Overall guys, as I said at the top of the article: Getting laid boils down to logistics, strategies and social smarts, all in conjunction with each other.
No amount of game, skills, good looks or money will get you laid regularly if you don’t have the social smarts and shamelessness to make it happen.
If you’re of the opinion that showing up at a girl’s job will make you look and feel needy, weird and desperate, then you don’t deserve to get laid to begin with.
Guys with zero Game can and do still get laid by sheer lack of shame and inhibitions and a willingness to think out the box, do the unconventional and not be preoccupied with what the girl thinks.
How will this sort of game be received by others in seduction?
Since the seduction genre is now saturated with teachers who are solely concerned with peddling the mainstream-dating message, the no-phone number approach and One-Night Stand approach, are now seen as crazy and radical, when in fact, this sort of game was the foundation of the seduction/pickup community.
Why getting girl’s phone numbers will kill your chances: my 2013 stats by Socialkenny PUA.
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