Shock Openers To Break The Ice On Facebook- How To Get The Attention Of Smoking-Hot Girls

Hey fellaz, I’ve been pretty busy toiling over an article about how to make women wett and horny just by sitting/standing next to them.

If time permits, it should be completed by the weekend.

In the meantime, some more Facebook game for you lames! ;)

You know I preach a lot about “shock” game and doing/saying the unconventional. Not merely because being a shocker usually holds girl’s attention, but it separates you from the rest…who are usually a lame bunch.

Now, not to sound redundant since I’ve already dealt with this topic ad nauseum, but what is the standardized opener/ice-breaker which is used by 98% of guys on the globe when contacting a fine piece of ass for the first time on Facebook in particular?






“How are you”?

“Hi” likely ranks at the top of the list of the lamest ice-breakers known to man…at least online.

Why is “hi” such a terrible way to open girls on Facebook? Besides being boring and ultra-generic, it doesn’t blip on a girl’s proverbial radar since it’s all-too common and doesn’t arouse a girl to action.

It’s about getting the girl’s attention by any mean, albeit without appearing needy and attached.

What gets a girl’s attention since “hi” doesn’t cut it but turns women off?

Check out the screenshots from Wednesday of a texting session I had with a random stranger [sexy by the way] whom I’d just added that same day.

Remind you; she’s a smoking hot girl! Hence, she’s accustomed to being hit up by hundreds of guys saying, “Hi beautiful”, inbox messages to which she doesn’t reply at all.

Therefore, how did I manage to get her attention [with a “shock” opener]?
[My texts in green. Hers in gray]

“I wanna get you pregnant”

See how that went?

I used a “shock” opener in order to get her attention, then transitioned into normal dialogue [normal as far as pickup goes].

Why such an opener, and why did it work?

Again; the hottest women are constantly hit up by men saying the same kiss-ass shit. Hence, they become desensitized to the lame “Hi…good morning” line. So most of them don’t even bother to reply to such lamery.

Thus, you have to say something that grabs her attention!

Nine in ten times, that “something” will have to be negative, testy and or forward…like “I wanna get you pregnant”.

Not only is such an ice-breaker highly unusual and forward, but it gets the attention of hot girls…which is what you want!

When you will have done that [grabbed her attention and gotten a reply], you simply stack forward into normal convo.

The forward opener is solely to get the girl’s attention as all openers are designed to do.

Your objective is basically to get a reply by saying something so outlandish or ridiculous that she has to respond.

As you will have gotten the initial reply from the girl- usually in shock or displeasure- you basically phase shift as we would say in the pick-up world, by changing gears shortly after.

Remember: a hot girl rarely ever respond to things of low stimuli!

You have to peak high on her radar by doing/saying something unusual! And by no means do I mean you should surprise a random chick on FB with an “unusual” gift via a $50,000 car or diamonds from Tiffany’s!

This shock approach of mines by the way, isn’t necessary with every girl. But, it can be utilized with any girl- no matter how hot or not.

However, it is designed to arouse the attention of either:

1.) Popular girls

2.) Bitchy girls

3.) Smoking-hot girls…who are usually bitchy online because they are fed-up of low-value men hitting them up with cheesy-generic approaches

In any case, once you realize that a girl is somewhat of a popular figure in her Facebook sphere, standard openers may not cut it. You will have to shock her out of her little world of importance!

In other words, if she has high-social value and status, and she’s a popular girl among her social circle, your approach must be edgier than usual.

This girl for instance whom I cited in the above screenshots, from skimming her Facebook before I added her to my “secret” account :twisted: , I realized that she was the leader of her social pack…for lack of a better term: she is the Alpha-Female of her circle.


My pick-up subject- a socialite and leader of her group- on the far left in white

The Alpha-Female does NOT entertain low-value guys who register low on her radar by being kiss-asses and generic chodes: whether online or in person.

If she isn’t a socialite, isn’t smoking hot, nor the leader of her pack, then you may not have to utilize a shock opener in order to get her attention.

BTW, if you’re not sure whether the girl is a popular one who gets tons of male and female attention; simply skim her Facebook to see how many likes and comments she accrues per post and picture on average.

This chick gets about 200+ likes per pic and over 80 comments on average- 95% of those comments from desperate-ass-kissing men by the way.

Also check to see how many friends is in her friend list. It should max out at about 4,000 or so.

That should tell you that she’s a popular damsel and you ought to use the “shock opener”.

Anyway, I’ll keep you guys updated as to the potential pickup of the girl featured here.


Enjoy the weekend!

Quick Note On How To Hook Women [Sweet and Sour Game]

“Range of Emotions”.
You know why women are hooked on soap operas for decades? “Range of Emotions” and suspense. If you really intend to seduce women to the point that they’re hooked besides themselves, you must learn the same tactics used by soap opera producers. How do you achieve this? One minute; be nice. Another; be an asshole. Another time; get cold. Another; get sweet and loving. Always give the girl a range of emotions keeping her on her toes, not knowing what to expect in the next episode starring yourself.
Quit being so predictable and nice!
I call this “sweet and sour game” where you’re sweet 1 minute then unpredictably an asshole the next.



Brief Note On Texting

I see too many guys get discouraged and get their egos deflated and bruised whenever girls play hard to get and deny them sex. Not only that but lots of guys are in the habit of getting into frame battles trying to convince girls why they should have sex with them.

When a girl says some shit like, “You will never fuck me”. The worst 2 reactions is to 1.) Give up/leave. 2.) Argue with her why she should fuck you.

Best reaction to a girl saying “you would never fuck me”?

1.)Play it cool!

2.) Then play with it by bantering and using some classic C&F [Cocky-Funny] comebacks. But never beg her why he should give you a chance.

Secondly, never get butt-hurt and leave because chances are, she’s playing hard-to-get and or testing you to see whether you’re a little-Beta bitch or calm, cool and confident witty SOB.

BTW, just a little FB chat with a girl whom I occasionally dance with at the club but never bothered taking it to the next level.

Picking Up Hot Waitresses And Bartenders [Hired-Guns]

As someone who’s been going out virtually every weekend nonstop for the last 12 years to bars, nightclubs and lounges [4-5 times a week lately], I typically receive e-mails from guys wanting a few pointers on how to pick up waitresses, bartenders and hired-guns.

Truthfully speaking: I don’t particularly game hired-guns while they are working [hired-guns means bartenders, etc].

However, it is the “vibe” nevertheless that is key in attracting hired-guns and getting her contact information in order to set something up for a later date.

Here’s a video [infield hidden camera] I posted back in December, 2014 where I touched on 3 main tips for picking up hot waitresses and bartenders.

No Urge To Pull Anymore



Truth is: online game has made me extremely lazy when it comes to pulling bishes out the bars and clubs.

Since I’ve ramped up my Facebook game activity to insane levels over the past 2 months, I don’t think I even bother with trying to take girls home whenever I’m out @ some nightlife venue.

Guys may see this as a good thing [expending less physical and logistical work]. But I see it as regression.

Don’t get me wrong; I’m always chatting up girls whenever I’m out. But the drive to pull [“pull” meaning to take someone home], is almost nonexistent.

In pickup, it is likely to happen where you excel in 1 area but slack off in another.

Sure pulling ass online is easy! But it gets so easy at times that the lack of challenge eventually fucks with one’s drive and passion and you become lazy in the chasing and mating game.

Could you believe as an intermediary PUA years ago, I was pulling Same Night Lays and One Night Stands out of the club on a weekly basis! :?:

As I got super good in picking up girls online [with the advent of POF and the Facebook boom], my focus shifted from trying to take girls home from the club to setting up dates through some online-dating site or Facebook.

Now- remind you- this is just a repositioning of focus.

It isn’t rust in the field or slippage.

I just don’t focus anymore on the logistics of getting a girl from club/bar to fuck-location as I did before online game got so popular.

However, everything is hard-wired within my being as far as knowing how to take girls home from the bar, etc. So it’s not like I would have to retrain myself in that area again. It’s all about focus and prioritizing.

Only If You Knew That Women Love Sex More Than Men Do, You’ll Begin To See The Method To My Mandness

I often get guys ask, “Hey Kenny, why is majority of your text game based around sex”?

As crazy as that question looks on the surface- because after all, a man should desire to talk sex with the women he’s sexually attracted to- yet it is actually a reasonable question in my estimation.

However, it gets deeper than that.

My question is, why shouldn’t you want to get sexual with the women you interact with?

Why are men in general, so adverse to the idea of getting sexual with women?

At the core of it all, it is the misconception that women are sexual saints, prudish and are turned off by the thought, talk and idea of casual sex.

In simplest terms: most guys believe that women don’t like sex as nearly as much as men do.

With this misconception swirling about in the average guy’s head, he cannot help but be taken-aback by my sexual approach.

Hence, his question is a valid one, given his current reality that women and casual sex don’t mix well.

The actual-universal reality is: Chicks Love Dicks!

Only thing is, they are repulsed by the manner in which the average guy goes about it [getting sexual].

Case in point: if you’re randomly inboxing chicks dick pics on Facebook with an accompanying messaging reading, “Can I have your #”? You will leave with the impression that women are stuck-up prudes after they will have chided you out and blocked you from contacting them.

Hence, it isn’t that women don’t like the idea of sex and getting sexual. They are just turned off by the way you [the guy] approach it.

On the other hand, you have the guys who make sex or the talk of sex such a big fucking deal.

When you take things too seriously, women will likely do the same since they generally feed off of the vibe, energy and frame you present them.

Therefore, if you make sex seem like just another day at the office [a fun day that is], women will also adopt that frame.

At the end of the day, there is a method to my madness and why I get sexual pretty fast with every girl I meet.

Not only do women want that. But they are drawn to a guy who’s on the ‘IN’, in that he knows what women want [sex] and how to lead them there.

Satruday Night Field Report- Girl In Lounge

Hey guys, quick field report from last night.

While at my favorite-lounge spot sipping a few beers, a total stranger wearing a skin-tight dress came in alone, ordered a drink and a quick snack and sat on the sofa thingy a few yards from me.

I motioned with my hands to her, telling her to come sit closer to me.

She reciprocated by saying she was hot so that’s why she’s sitting in the coolest area of the lounge.

Anyway, I took that as a cue for me to approach her…so I did.

Me: “Listen, I know you’re super shy and that’s why you didn’t want to sit next to me and pig out on your snack”.

Girl: :lol: “Shy! It isn’t that. I’m just really hot”.

After about 20 more seconds of chat, she mentioned to me that her boyfriend was coming right now so she’s going to sit alone since he’s a very jealous dude.

Fine! I can understand that.

Sensing that she was into me, I grabbed her phone number in a heartbeat just about 5 seconds literally before her BF came in. :twisted:

She quickly moved to another spot while I moved back to where I was sitting originally.

I frankly had no intention to contact her that night, but at times, I like to build some sexual tension and I enjoy flirting with girls under the nose of their boyfriends.

Hence, I texted her through Whatsapp Messenger and we texted back and forth while her BF sat right there oblivious to what was going on.

Here’s the explicit chat-log [my texts in green. Hers in white]





Just some innocent-sexual flirting. ;)

These sort of impromptu incidents further re-confirm what I’ve been preaching for years, that having a boyfriend [or husband] means squat to most women!

With this girl, I had intentions of a bathroom pull.

In pickup parlance, a “bathroom pull” is fucking a girl in a restroom of a venue.

Bathroom pulls are considered when logistics are terribly shitty…like when the boyfriend is standing/sitting right there and the girl cannot realistically leave the venue without suspicion.

However, she can say she’s going to the restroom without arousing much suspicion.

Anyway, it was also too stringent to pull off a bathroom lay since the venue is somewhat small without much crevices to shadow movements.

I then suggested [through text] that we slip off somewhere for a quickie. But as I mentioned previously; that isn’t too likely. :( :(


Had the boyfriend not been there, I believe this would’ve been a foregone conclusion.

Nevertheless, I hope to have illustrated to you guys that women should rarely ever be trusted.

They will fuck, flirt and give out their numbers right under their significant other’s nose without a second thought, then justify it with some bogus-rationalization talking points like, “I’m allowed to talk to other people”.

Sure! But does your boyfriend know that these “other people” are trying to fuck your brains out!?

Anyway guys, very interesting Saturday night it was.

These sort of random situations, women find very exhilarating and refreshing!

Chicks are bored out of their minds most of the time, so if you can present yourself as that rare and random spark of interest, women will latch onto you like a life-raft in a capsized vessel lost at sea.