Best Region In The World To Run Pickup-Style Game

According to the seduction-dating guru advisor, Tenmagnet’s road map of “best countries to game in” [from a Love System's angle], cities like Stockholm, Montreal, Austin and Chi-Town are game-worthy!

Cultural, religious and geographical differences do play a part in how much play your cock will get in certain countries. Naughty Nomad, the globe-trotting gamer can attest to that.

He’s been throughout the Islamic world gaming hotties from Somalia to Oman, Jordan. And due to cultural rearing in those nations; you’ll really have to double down on your game and sharpen your logistical skills in order to meet women!

After all, in regions like the Middle East, many women are sometimes restricted by curfews (for their safety), whereas they aren’t allowed to roam after sunset without male escorts (relatives). So precision game and the ability to strike early and fast will be invaluable.

The Caribbean, And Why It’s 1 Of The Best Regions On Earth To Game Chicks

Caribbean pageant girls

Caribbean pageant girls

Apart from the juicy-black asses, afrocentricities and the fact that the legal age of sexual consent is between 14-16 [in the entire Caribbean except Dominican Republic], there are other factors which make this region game-worthy [nothing beats the low-sexual consent factor though].

Now, let me make this clear right off the bat: no matter to where you venture on the globe, guys who are native to those countries do still have game.

Duh!

What the average guy may lack however is Seduction skills.

The Caribbean is overflowing with players, respectively known as “Gyalists” in the local-English dialect.

These “Gyalists” (players) run your typical-player style game, but they lack the killer instincts to seal the deal fast.

I mean, it’s the same as “Naturals” as we in the Pickup community would call them.

They are natural players in that they’d “naturally” learned how to get girls, opposed to Pick-Up Artists who had learned Game by studying Game (then applying what they’d learned).

Saying all that to say, the Caribbean does have loads of players and naturals (“Gyalists”), but just as your average lady’s man in any other country, his liability is the fact that he doesn’t have a system nor method to what he does, nor can he logically break down what he does to get women.

Not that you need a system, but it would be of help for back-checking purposes.

With this liability of the natural player, the PUA gamer has an advantage (although he has liabilities too).

The Missing Neg:

Men in the islands aren’t keen on negging. Whenever they do neg, it’s tantamount to an Atom bomb blowing everything the fuck up…including the conversation.

Now, negs aren’t necessary in every interaction with every girl (especially the ones who hover around the HB7 mark).

In the Caribbean however, Negging is almost a prerequisite to getting into her panties.

The PUA has an advantage over the local “Gyalist”, in that the PUA knows how to defuse a potential neg gone wrong from detonating in set.

He also knows how to calibrate his negging skills according to the girl or situation (whether to land a soft neg or hard neg).

Fucking Shitty Logistics!

The 1 advantage of the local “Gyalist” is logistics.

Irony is, no matter how much skills you have in the Game, with poor logistics, all of your stunning work will have been in vain [read: Poor logistics are the enemy]!

The most simplistic example of the “Gyalist” having great logistical advantages to his favor:

• He knows where to take the target,

• He knows the hot spots,

• He knows the town,

• He knows the quickest routes to get to the girl’s place (or his),

• He knows the layout of the land if he has to take the girl to a nearby motel, whereas the visiting PUA would waste valuable time trying to figure out to where he shall take her.

So it’s like home court advantage favoring the local player as for logistics!

The PUA Must Work On Logistics:

An intricate part of your pre-gaming activities should include working out logistics.

As a visiting PUA practitioner, before you do go out (for instance: Night Game), familiarize yourself with the geographical points of the town or city.

There’s nothing worse than trying to take a random club-girl home @ 5 AM, but you’re left to flap around like a fish out of water, not knowing where is South from North, up from down, this hotel from that hotel…

To avoid this happening, take the following preemptive measures as you touch down in the islands:

• Get a literal map [Google map may not function depended on wi-fi availability]

• Walk around the town to familiarize yourself with the town

• Locate where the hot spots are (map it or take a mental note)

• Make note of where you are (your temporary dwelling place), in contrast to where the night spots are

• Get to know a cool-local guy who can possibly be your quasi tour-guide to show you where you can get weed, speed and where the hottest girls are

Your logistical challenges are now handled…ahead of time!

Your quasi tour-guide can be your designated-logistics guy.

Just promise to buy him a beer or 2 and he’ll be willing to hang with you the entire night in case you need him.

For instance, you’re @ a bar spitting game at this HB10, the vibe is right, she’s falling for you, she’s wanting it, you’re wanting it, but the logistical question of “Where” surfaces at the crucial juncture.

Me: “I got these cool photos I want to show you that I brought with me from England”.

You’re trying to bait her back to your dwelling place in how many such ways- but she won’t bite.

Since she won’t come back to your place, you must have a plan b.

Not having a plan b means it’s Game fucking over; bad logistics have won…unless you’re ballsy enough to fuck her right there on the bar stool or in the restroom.

Assuming you’re not as crazy as I am, then your only recourse is to turn to your quasi tour-guide [this is where he comes in handy]

Me: “Hey bro, I got this chick ready to fuck but don’t know where to take her and she won’t come back to my spot. You know any nearby spots we can go”?

Quasi Tour-Guide: “There’s this cozy park right down Tanner street. Take her there since she doesn’t want to go to your place”.

Now, most girls will be willing to take that pressure-free walk.

Simply take her hand or use whatever routine you normally do, and let her know, “Let’s walk”.

Then you’ll take her to this “Cozy Park” that’s right around the corner.

The objective is to be in isolation and have some level of privacy to get busy.

A Key Note On Women And Logistics:

A girl (whom you’ve never lain) will NOT help you out on logistics!

She will not say to you:

“We can go to Bryan street on the 4 bus”

“Grab the strongest rum from Jimmy’s liquor store”

“Pick up some condoms from the pharmacy on Dick street”

“Then go back to my place and fuck all night”!

Those logistical issues are the man’s job!

You as the man, are supposed to have all those things hammered out prior, because she will NOT do them for you…unless you trick her into doing this (which is another post in itself).

So if you find it time-consuming to work out those locational logistics for yourself, then befriending a local guy as your quasi tour-guide will come in handy.

Why It’s Easier To Run Pickup Game In The Caribbean

Caribbean carnival festival which takes place in every island

Caribbean carnival festival which takes place in every island

Game is Game basically!

However, knowing some basic PUA concepts will give you an edge over the local “Gyalist”.

#1, the local-player guy surprisingly isn’t thinking One-Night Stand, so he’ll be inadvertently rejecting all those girls who would’ve been DTF for the SNL (Same-Night Lay).

He’s in his hometown, he probably has a girlfriend already, so his primary goal isn’t to take chicks home that night.

A Seduction-game guy on the other hand (whether local or traveling), he’s conditioned to think One-Night Stand, ONS, ONS, ONS!!!

He has limited time in his favor in this new country (the Caribbean for instance), so it’s in his best interest to move rapidly and only think One Night Stand opposed to something long term since he doesn’t live there.

Thus having ONS as your primary goal while out in the Caribbean nightlife (as a visitor), will yield you way more results than taking it slow [common sense approach].

If you’re new to Pickup, do yourself a huge favor and learn some PUA Same-Night Lay frames as in this article by John Rendon :“The fundamentals of getting same night lays”.

Having the right mindset/frame from the onset is the best approach to gaming in the islands.

Your Accent And Tourist Appeal Will Be Your Greatest Advantages (super DHV)

Women in the Caribbean are suckers for accents…women in general are!

It isn’t much the actual accent per say, but the fact that you, the visiting PUA-gamer, is a visitor and would quite naturally have an accent!

Just being a visitor/tourist alone will get you 50% nearer to your destination: Poon-Town.

The local player (“Gyalist”) cannot play the tourist card since he’s a local, which slightly works against him.

The local Jamaican “Gyalist” [photo courtesy of partyyaad.com]

Guys who are visiting have an out-of-country charm which appeals to local women in the islands.

Local chicks have even dubbed a term for it: Fresh Meat!

Your fresh-foreign meat will be choice meat compared to the local beef.

Use Cold Readings [ESP Routines]:

Though not obligatory, a mediocre mini-cold read routine will work wonders with the local birds!

I don’t think I have to tell you that women are fascinated by the Zodiac and Astrology.

In the Caribbean; that’s on another fucking level!

For an ultra-conservative Christian society and region, women here go bat-shit crazy over horoscopes readings like there’s no fucking tomorrow!

I’ll give an on-the-fly example below of a simplistic and neat-cold read you can do with a girl @ a bar [in the islands].

Me: “So Tasheka, you’re a Gemini right”?

Tasheka: “No Aquarius. Why you figured Gemini”?

Me: “The energy I’m picking up from you is that of a Gemini”.

Tasheka: “How so”?

Me: “Since you’re an Aquarian, that means you’re very independent and love to do things your way and hate when people tell you how to live”.

Tasheka: “Lol that’s right”!

Me: “You also have what they call an Aqua energy”.

Tasheka: “What’s that”!?

Me: “Do you believe in reading people”?

Tasheka: “I guess”.

Me: “Your Aqua energy is very deep and out there, and it’s so strange that when I stepped into the bar, I felt your energy and knew instantly that we would meet. This is how your energy, your Aqua energy works”.

Guys, the key in such cold reads is to just freestyle the fuck out of it LOL!

Remember, women are NOT logical creatures, so you don’t have to make any sense whatsoever!

Nothing of what you say has to be accurate nor based on anything!

You’re just cold reading her based on her sun sign.

You don’t have to have anything written out prior; just flow as you go and make shit up!

The reasons for the cold reading is as mentioned:

#1 Women in the Caribbean are suckers for Astrology and mysticism [the Voodoo culture is strong in this region also].

#2 You’re letting her know how deep you are, and that you can read energy and people, which sets you up as an intelligent man with a mystical and spiritual air about you [which is why women go insanely nuts for the Jesus character].

So the cold reading taps into her “love of mysticism” side, just as the Biblical Jesus character would deeply impact people whom he came in contact with via his vague-spiritual parables.

Read this article: “Jesus the greatest Pickup Artist of all time.

Why Pickup Works Like Magic In The Caribbean

The island of Barbados [photo courtesy of bajantube.com]

The island of Barbados [photo courtesy of bajantube.com]

Ok, the greatest reason why Game from a Pickup standpoint would work wonders in the islands is…Pickup itself!

Sounds like a vague tangent, but I’ll explain.

Pickup is still a rare and novel concept to dating.

I’ve been traveling back and forth to this region since 2003, and I’ve yet to come across a fellow practitioner of the seduction arts- not once!

Doesn’t mean they aren’t here! But I don’t see them!

Also, the Caribbean is an ULTRA traditional and conservative region.

Want proof?

Male-on-male gay sex (buggary) is a serious felonious crime.

The Tea Party would be considered too Liberal in the Caribbean; that’s how conservative it is here when it comes to social issues!

Moreover, the average guy still gets his dating advice from his mother or through trail and error…which is good! But if you’ve been trying the wrong shit for 15 years, you’re being severely stagnated.

The church has an iron grip on the entire English and Spanish-speaking Caribbean.

Dating advice typically gets trickled down from a scammy-ass priest who doesn’t know anything about getting laid nor how to traverse the nightlife scene.

So the average person in the islands knows what he or she knows about dating from his or her parents who got it from their pastors, who got it from the religious fraternity…

Therefore, Pickup and its concepts would be VERY radical (as they are in every society), but that radical appeal is very seductive!!!

Being that the Caribbean is virtually void of PUA’s, that void presents the greatest opportunity to get laid for a visiting practitioner of seduction!

It’s like finding a rainbow-colored horse among a herd of black, white and brown stallions.

The never-seen-before multicolored horse will always stand out and get the most attention!

Game from a PUA’s angle is like that rare multicolored horse: women will be fascinated by it!

You radical approach and concepts to courtship and hooking up (which goes contrary to the church and what momma taught), will be chick-crack!!!

Rarity Factor:

Guys running PUA-style game are rare; even in the bigger countries like Canada, the (un)official birthplace of Pickup.

From sheer guesstimation, I’d say that the ratio of PUA’s to non PUA’s in a major Toronto nightclub is about 2 to 40 on a normal night. So PUA practitioners aren’t the most prevalent thing since slice bread.

However, in PUA hot spots like London’s Leicester Square, it’s almost commonplace that a girl would be approached by 2 different PUA practitioners within the same hour…running the same routine.

Basically, too many Game guys in 1 town can actually burn it out, where Pickup becomes so common, that it looses its rare and almost mythical appeal.

This will almost never happen in the Caribbean; whether running street game or at a night venue.

Kenny’s Field Tested Experience With Pickup In The Caribbean

My first and earliest experience with Game and Pickup was in the Caribbean.

Instantly I knew there was something about this that will get me massive amounts of results with the ladies…and other men weren’t privy to it.

I was right! I was the lone Pick-Up Artist in a pool of women

I was hitting these girls with an approach they’d never seen before:

• Negs

• KINO

• The Cube

• Deliberate Sexual Eye Contact

• Consciously Forcing IOI’s

• Qualifying Game

• Making out on the spot

• Ignoring the target

• Strategically leaving set then return

• Hitting on other girls in front of the target

• Not complimenting

• Not ass-kissing

• No drink-buying

• No supplication

• No LTR frame

• No # closings


These girls were witnessing seduction for the first time in their fucking lives!!!

They were faced with a guy who presented a challenge for the first time! A guy who wasn’t gonna sell out just to get a conversation!

During my 2009 stay in the Caribbean, I’d pulled so many ONS (One-Night Stands) from bars, that I swore my cock would have fallen off from unprotected sex with so many random strangers!!!

Did these girls know I was mechanically using a system?

I doubt it.

Would they care?

Fuck no!

Summarized Recap For Island Game:

• Work out logistics of the town,

• Befriend a cool-local guy to be your quasi tour-guide,

• Have a One-Night Stand mentality,

• Use negs when in conversation,

• Cold read her (based on her astrological sign)

• Bounce her. If she doesn’t want to go back to your place nor hers, then suggest a walk

This is your blueprint of running night game in the Caribbean islands.

It’s an uncharted territory by Game-guys, which makes it that much more easier to getting laid (as a local PUA or visiting PUA on vacation).

These steps are somewhat universally applicable, however the blueprint laid out in this article is specially tailor-made for the West Indies/Caribbean region based on the cultural and social variables which vary in every region.

Nightlife on the island of St. Maarten

Nightlife on the island of St. Maarten

Related Content:

5 types of cold reads by Sinn

Sweet black pussy haven by Socialkenny

Read this before traveling to the English-speaking Caribbean islands by Socialkenny

Having an accent in dating by Socialkenny

Travel tips to Cuba from Simeon Moses by Socialkenny

Secrets of fantastic One Night Stands by Blusher Seduction

Socialkenny Experiments With Celery…Is The Results Real?

I’ve been on a massive-experimental spree over the past 2 weeks, where I dabbled in everything from not wearing deodorant over the weekend while clubbing, to eating raw celery in order to…

Digressing!

Anyways, eating raw celery has to rank at the top of the list of the most unappetizing shit in the world!!!

Ok, I’m exaggerating! It wasn’t actually that bad, but you get the point!

Since embarking on an extensive research into the world of Pheromones [which I wrote about in my previous article], I stumbled upon another pieces of finding which made me go: WTF!!!

Sexologists claim that celery stimulates Androstenol chemical within the mouth, which serves to attract and (sexually) arouse women who are in your presence.

As you would’ve read from the previous article, Androstenol (a pheromonal hormone produced in a man’s sweat and saliva), serves as a catalyst in attracting women on a subconscious level.

Alright, I’m a natural skeptic, so my bullshit-ometer immediately went off while I was reading this.

However, I decided to take a stab at it by field testing the celery thing. Last Friday morning before heading to work, I grabbed a stalk of celery and managed to crunch it down in spite of the sharp bitterness!

I took a piece along with me in the event that I might have to double down to strengthen the potency of the pheromone release…supposedly.

I pretty much work alone in my own department, but at any given time, other workers would constantly frequent in and out throughout the sector- but never stay.

Last Friday, something strange happened; 2 female employees from the adjacent department virtually neglected their duties to stick around in my department to chat and flirt with me!

WTF!!!

This is very common by the way, but it’s usually on sprinting mode, where the girl passes my aisle, we flirt and chat for 5 seconds, then POOF- gone!

Last Friday though, it felt like hours!!!

Is this celery induced!!!?

It was so fucking crazy and drawn out that the supervisor of 1 of the female employees had to dispatch a courier to corral her back to her department.

This has never happened before since I’ve been doing some work here (over the past 4 months).

That day though was just out of the ordinary!

Is this just sheer coincidence?

Is this all in my big-frikkin’ head!?

Both girls were hitting buying temperature harder than Mack trucks at 1000 RPM’s!

It was like this x 10!

It was like this x 10!

I mean, sex was floating in the air like a genie! You could’ve literally cut the cloud of heavy-sexual tension with a dull knife!

They invaded my personal space closer than what’s considered normal.

On any given day, they would maintain a distance of about 10 yards while we chit chat.

That day however, these chicks were virtually engaging me in face to face combat to the point that I could’ve simply tilted my face an inch forward and full-blown make out with them!

It was so weird to have a girl be so close during casual conversation…during the day…at work, that I felt a rush of anxiety from sheer proximity of our bodies and faces.

This was like an aha moment!

At 1 point during the noonday-lunch break, girl # 2 came and sat right next to me, which is something that she’d never done prior to me taking the celery test.

Her shoulder and torso were pressed up against mines as we sat together.

OMFG!!!

This chick was so close, that I was able to inhale the aroma of the spearmint gum on her breath.

These are the most solid and blatant IOI’s (Indicators Of Interest) you will ever get!

A girl invading your personal space to the point that you can feel her breath on your shoulder as she talks, that’s a Sign Of Interest and sexual arousal.

Long story short, the day ended on a flirty and sexual note. For the sake of experiment, I must say that the celery test yielded stunning fucking results!

Since I’d ran out of celery, I wasn’t able to continue my experiment while clubbing over the weekend.

After all, celery isn’t high on my priority list when grocery shopping. But it might be now!

Give it a shot guys!

What is there to loose?

If munching on celery doesn’t seem to attract flirty women as it did in my case, then look at the bright side: you’ll be investing in a healthy food source which can possible lengthen your life.

WINNING!!!

Anyway, feel free to weigh in: has Kenny gone off the deep end into a sphere of lunacy, or does this celery experimentation seems plausible [according to researchers it is]?

Why Women Are Attracted To Sweaty Men. Plus Smells, Scents, Sweats, Deodorants, Pheromones, Hormones And Chemical Attraction

[Ninety percent of the information disseminated throughout this article is that of researchers, scientists, sexologists, bio-chemists and osmologists, and not that of Socialkenny...although I do endorse all the findings. However, the information found in this article was compiled by myself from many such sources as I'd cited above].

Researchers since 2007, have gone out on a limb with claims that (natural) sweat is highly attractive to women- particularly when she’s ovulating.

Androstenol is the scent produced by fresh-male sweat and is attractive to females (on a subconscious level).

This isn’t stale/oxidized sweat by the way (Androsterone), but fresh sweat (Androstenol) as when you emerge from a hot shower, or dehydrated and decide to have a quick drink of water, which causes the drinker to perspire briefly (which dissolves quickly).

The sweaty guy working out at the guy who hadn’t showered afterwards, would emit stale sweat i.e. a turn off to women, while he would’ve been emitting fresh sweat during his workout session.

Scientific experiments were carried out at a dentist’s office where 4 chairs were set out in the waiting hall, 2 of which had a sweating guy sitting there minutes prior in order to leave the Androstenol (fresh sweat) scent on the chairs.

Those 2 chairs (sweaty ones) were frequented and sat on 10 times more often than the other 2 chairs which didn’t have any sweat scent at all (since no one had sit in them).

This experimental study supports the attractive power of natural-male pheromones (fresh sweat).

The trick is though, in order to attract a woman via fresh sweat or for her to be aware of the scent (on a subconscious level), the woman will have had to been within few feet of the guy (maybe 3 or less according to studies).

She also will not be aware of the source of what is arousing her.

A man wearing synthetic-pheromone or one who is perspiring fresh sweat at a crowded party will have to compete with other Alphas present for the attention of women.

Sythetic-pheromone spray known as “Lady Killer”

Other studies show that celery actually releases Androstenol.

Whenever you chew a stalk of celery, you release both Androsterone and Androstenol odor molecules into your mouth. They then travel up the back of your throat to your nose (says Alan Hirsch, M.D., author of Scentsational Sex).

The celery boosts your arousal, turning you on and causing your body to send off scents and signals that make you more desirable to women around you.

Alan Hirsch says to try it out: “Chew on a celery stick at a bar and munch away and watch as women hover around you!

The pheromones take effect immediately, so you should notice women around you paying more attention to you right away…according to Dr. Hirsch.

Chemistry

We all know about chemistry…at least what it looks and feels like.

But we really don’t know what causes chemistry. We just know what it feels like.

After doing some research out of curiosity, I came to find out that chemistry is actually created from the man’s natural pheromone (fresh sweat) being inhaled by the woman he is interacting with.

So chemistry is actually an unseen energy propelled by fresh sweat which contains Androsterone and Androstenol.

It’s for the same reason why one cannot feel or have chemistry with a chick who’s seated on the opposite side of the bar or 20 feet away since fresh sweat cannot be inhaled from such a distance.

The same reason why you cannot have nor create chemistry by talking to someone over the phone.

Therefore, you can only have chemistry with a woman whom you’re interacting with face to face in close proximity where in the case that your body is emitting natural pheromones, the girl will be able to ingest it (subconsciously).

That is chemistry!

Chemistry isn’t words but the unseen pheromone floating in the air.

Likewise, physical attraction is the result of the body’s reaction to each others’ pheromones and hormones.

Women quite naturally also produce natural pheromones (hormones) of her own which serve to attract and arouse men.

Attraction, Lust, Love Broken Down [Plus Kenny's Take On These Findings]:

“Physical attraction is biochemistry in action”!

When a chick is in heat, testosterone rules the fucking day!

Whenever she goes crazy for a guy, whether he’s Mr. Right or Mr. Way Wrong, pheromones are playing a major role in driving this full steam ahead fueled by the chemical Oxytocin.

As quoted by a sexologist, “Lust, Romance and Relationships, are the results of actual chemical reactions in the body”.

According to Rachel Herz, PhD., “When a woman finds herself uncontrollably attracted to a man, she might call it chemistry. Guess what? She’s right! She’s inhaling his Androstenol“.

A guy who’s heavy in testosterone tends to be a player and gets laid more than a guy low in testosterone.

The Piss Test

The scent in which a woman’s urine gives off is produced by estrogen which arouses and stimulates men sexually.

I’ve noticed this over the years…since a kid actually, that I would get a weird arousal sensation and even pop a mini boner, whenever I happen to come in contact with a girl who had just used the restroom: be it at work, home or even the bar.

This effect is not produced by a male’s piss [a man coming in contact with another man's urine will not cause him to become aroused]!

I can consciously tell the difference (by smell) between a man’s urine and a chick’s.

It was then, and still is a heck weird and unexplainable until I’d done some research on the topic of pheromones.

The thing to take note of guys is that it’s NOT the actual scent of a woman’s urine which arouses a man. The actual surface scent of stale piss is yucky as we all can attest to! But it’s the scent in which we don’t actually smell with our natural surface senses which penetrates our olfactory sensors unbeknown to us.

Just as the case with fresh-male sweat (Androstenol) and its attraction on women. It isn’t the actual scent of rancid perspiration which arouses women, but it’s the undetectable Androstenol chemical within the sweat which reaches the woman’s olfactory sensors…unknown to her.

Studies also show that strippers that are ovulating (during their fertile periods) make way more money per night than strippers who are on their periods (infertile periods). This also speaks to the hormone released during fertile periods which excites men (unknowingly).

Therefore, a guy at the strip-club who thinks he’s attracted to the stripper based on her physical attributes, is actually fooling himself, and doesn’t know that he’s really attracted to that particular stripper because of biological reason and the release of the fertile woman’s hormones (through her urine) which is undetectable by the natural sense of smell.

The Science Of Smell

Osmology, the science of smell, has determined that men and women are attracted to each other via selective-chemical messengers called pheromones via sweat glands, urine and saliva, which stimulate sexual desire, sexual readiness, hormone levels and deepest emotions.

When released by the body, certain pheromones can work like magic to attract members of the opposite sex!

According to other studies, men secrete these chemicals through perspiration which is then subconsciously detected by a hybrid woman’s nose, brain and nervous system, which in turn deems the man as having sex appeal.

These men may not even look sexy, yet through pheromone release, they send out powerful signals of attraction.

Case Study Of A PUA Video

Probably the most circulated video among the seduction community over the past 9 months, is that of my buddy, Steve Jabba, a master seducer out of London, where he was able to make out with a completely random stranger within minutes of meeting her on the streets of London.

What most of us, or none of us realize, is the underlying theme which takes place in this short interaction between Steve and the Colombian chick.

Steve was able to pull this off due to his non-verbal sexual cues, body language, balls and confidence!

However, the key and most powerful ingredient in this mix which no one seems to realize (because it’s unseen), is Steve’s natural pheromones!

At the start of the video, Steve had broken a mini sweat (which activates freshly produced sweat/Androstenol) by having to run after the girl a bit.

His movement was enough to break open the sweat glands even though Steve might not have visibly broken a sweat from the 2 second jog.

He did break a sweat actually (although not visible), which had emitted the natural pheromone which our male bodies produce through Androstenol via perspiration.

Standing so closely to the girl (as the master PUA Steve strategically positioned himself), his pheromone/fresh sweat/Androstenol was able to penetrate her olfactory sensors which in turn made her sexually aroused and sexually receptive for him and by him.

She then felt a super-fast jolt of arousal which rendered her sexually receptive (pheromones work instantly), therefore Steve was able to kiss and make out with this random girl on the streets within 4 minutes.

This is also the underlying reason why Pick-Up Artists of old, were able to approach random-hot girls in a nightclub and full-blown make out with then without even saying a single word!

With all the fresh sweat that a guy at the club breaks by dancing and circumventing the dance floor, the women he approaches to make out with, have already gotten a whiff of his fresh sweat (Androstenol), or perhaps the fresh sweat of some other guys (doesn’t which guy had released it matter), which renders her receptive to the random act of kissing a complete stranger.

A quoted observation on the subject of “Musk”, noted by Chase Amante, the Seduction coach:

“…I discovered the PUA community, signed up for training with several of the most talented coaches out there- I wanted to see the top guys in action, and I wanted to learn from the best to expedite my own learning”.

“And I noticed something curious: the most talented, baddest-ass instructors I had who approached tons of women and got the strongest attraction the fastest all stunk, as in they smelled like they hadn’t showered for days”.

“I watched theses guys walk around, get right up in women’s personal space- women have better senses of smell than men, and if I could smell these guys from a few feet away, the women undoubtedly could…yet these guys were successful in getting kisses, numbers dates and sex…”

Other Facts About Bodily Pheromones, Sweat, Androstenol And Androsterone:

Pheromones exist in the animal kingdom just as among humans (also a part of the animal kingdom)

Pheromones exist in the animal kingdom just as among humans (also a part of the animal kingdom)

•Pheromones are sent out from the skin and cause other people’s bodies to respond.

•They begin to stink when they get old (stale sweat).

•Men primarily release Androsterone through the skin, hair and armpits via adrenal glands.

•Perfume companies use pheromones (synthetic or animal’s) in their fragrances which is why women are so attracted to scents of perfumes.

•Men smell differently than women [our testosterone gives us our unique smell].

•Women (subconsciously) are attracted to the smell of a sweaty, un-showered man.

•Women can tell that you are aroused and interested in them by the smell of your sweat.

•Your sweat smells bad to women if you have an STD or is unhealthy (research shows)

•When a woman’s in heat, she can smell a mile away (figuratively).

Androstenol [fresh sweat from a man's body] makes a woman more submissive and ready for action. She becomes attracted to the man who’s releasing it. It can make her heart beat faster, breath get quicker and her body temperature rise.

The opposite is absolutely not the case whereas a sweaty woman will be an appalling turnoff for men.

A woman’s sweat is not attractive to men on neither lever: consciously or subconsciously.

Would You Field Test This Theory?

If you’re skeptical about the researched information provided here on natural Pheromones and women being attracted to male sweat; then take the challenge!

Field test this scientific theory for yourself.

• The next time you’re headed to the club or bar: don’t put on any deodorant.

• If you do decide to wear deodorant (to the bar or club): make sure it’s a “musk” scented deodorant since “musk” is said to attract women just as natural sweat does.

For a guy like myself who’s addicted to smelling good and scented, the thought of leaving my home without deodorant applied to my armpits is tantamount to walking around with a bag of onion and garlic strapped to my back…it’s just unthinkable!

However, I’m willing to field test this theory later on today (Friday night) by going to the club without having to put on any deodorant, cologne or body sprays.

Are you willing to take the challenge also to see if women are more drawn to you more than usual?

If you are, then how about going to work without wearing any deodorant to see whether your female co-workers will unabashedly flirt with you?

How about leaving directly from the gym to a crowded fast-food joint (without showering) to see what kind of responses you get from women?

How about chatting up a super-hot girl on the streets while you’re smelling sweaty and haven’t showered?

I’ll be putting this scientific theory to the test over the entire weekend!

On a related note, over the years, I have noticed that sweaty-musty men were getting laid more and taking more girls home from the nightclubs than the men who were smelling fresh.

Is this correlative observation of mine just sheer coincidence, or is there something to bad-smelling men attracting more women than the finest-smelling men?

I’ll illustrate how it’s highly plausible by summing it up with a tidbit on evolutionary theory.

The existence of deodorants and other antiperspirants is only about 120 years old [the 1880's was the introduction of commercial deodorants].

Western men in general, have only started to use them over the past 40 years.

Prior to the existence of deodorants and the act of masking our natural manly odor (sweat and musk); were men getting laid?

Hell yea they were!!!

Therefore, bathing yourself in the world’s most expensive colognes doesn’t translate to attracting women.

You’re actually turning lots of women off from a biological standpoint on a subconscious level as you’re masking and killing your natural-body odor in which women have been attracted to for millions of years of human evolution!

That’s also why the average guys at the clubs who are taking girls home are the ones that are sweaty from dancing all night, and not the guys who are propping up the bar trying to preserve their Calvin Klein scented bodies by not wanting to get sweaty.

Another caveat: men are usually the only ones to ridicule and shame other men about their natural-body odor.

I personally HATE smelling sweaty guys! But you’ll hardly hear women snickering, gossiping and bitching about some guy who smells sweaty and needs to use deodorant.

It’s always men talking about other men not smelling pleasant.

That is why I’ve always held the opinion that your biggest obstacle to getting laid will be other men who will hate on you, make fun of you, criticize you and cockblock you [AMOG tactics from the evolutionary Alpha-Male, since it's our biological role to eliminate other male challengers].

Women don’t hate on men…at least not in this way (quite naturally).

Whenever I’m at a crowded nightclub and there are lots of sweaty men smelling as though they’d never seen a deodorant, it’s always other men (myself including) to grimace and say:

“Damn! That MOFO needs a bath or some deodorant”!

Women on the other hand, I honestly never ever heard not even 1 girl say to her friends:

“That guy stinks and he’s fucking sweaty…yuck”!

Ironically enough, the guys who are smelling sweaty and natural, are always the ones women chose to dance with!

My point is, men (consciously) perceive sweaty as being a turnoff [a DLV].

While women (subconsciously) perceive sweaty-smelling men as sexy, turn-on, Alpha and attractive [on a subconscious level primarily].

We’ve also been deceived by an emasculated, feminine-western-world dating style market, where men are taught that being manly will turn women off, so we all should become deodorized to attract women in order to replicate.

While in other parts of the world where men are still men (anywhere east of Britain), as France for instance, men (generally) don’t wear deodorant at all, and they are pretty smelly according to western-world standards.

The same goes for every part of eastern Europe, Asia, the former Soviet Union states, modern Russia, Germany, the entire Arab world, all of Africa, Latin America, etc.

Men of those regions do not adhere to masking their natural-body odors by wearing deodorants and colognes…yet they are still seen as highly attractive and favored by their female compatriots.

So there’s a concerted and covert effort to making American men effeminate [no wonder the Lesbian rate is on the rise in America, Canada and the United Kingdom, since manly men are becoming endangered]!

We can rightfully point fingers at the cosmetic industry, Lesbianism, “the system” or Hollywood, for presenting us the wrong idea of what masculinity is.

This is largely the reason why I’d started to grow some facial hair over the past 2 months, in order to appear more masculine and Alpha, which will serve to attract more hot-feminine women.

Socialkenny before and after, from clean-shaven to wearing trimmed-facial hair

Socialkenny before and after, from clean-shaven to wearing trimmed-facial hair

Strange-supporting evidence: 80% of the guys I know who get laid -including guys in my social circle, do not wear deodorant- at all!

Not only do they carry a natural-body odor which I can clearly smell, but these guys whom I personally know, have admitted to never wearing deodorants. Yet they attract women and get laid regularly!

So guys, if you’re willing to take this anti- deodorant challenge for a week at most (as I’ll be doing this weekend), it doesn’t require any sophisticated tactics.

•Just shower as usual, but do NOT put on any deodorant afterwards, neither cologne, body spray nor cool water.

You’re just going to be as natural as possible and allow your body’s natural pheremones to do its biological duty of attracting fertile women with whom to mate.

We men do NOT need any man-made enhancements to make what comes natural possible [attracting women via natural-body pheromones].

The next time you’re at a nightclub or bar, feel free to work up a sweat and then game women while you’re sweaty!

Jersey Shore fist-pump

Jersey Shore fist-pump

Don’t be tentative about getting your fist pumping on!

Related And Supporting Articles:

Drugged: Spanish Fly edition by Socialkenny PUA.

What women like about male sweat from the Daily Beast.

Why women are naturally attracted more to sweaty men by Georg Von Neumann.

The scent of sex is in your armpit sweat

Attract women with pheromones by Ask Men’s sexual health advisor Marcus Larosa.

Want Quick Sex? Screen Girls Out Fast Who Aren’t DTF!

Who doesn’t want quick sex?

Come on…be honest guys! We’re all men here.

Credits to the Introverted Playboy who inspired me to write this post after reading his recent article which was based on screening out girls early [Why am I getting more brush-offs as an advanced Gamer?].

Also, I read another killer article by Ricardus over at Chase Amante’s blog which dealt with the same topic of screening girls out who aren’t looking to have sex.

Extracting a bit from both articles, I’ll be adding my own insights and techniques to screening out girls who are looking for something long-term and the ones who wanna have fun.

To add to Ricardus’ point, every women have a dirty, slutty, bad-girl side to her, in spite of the pristine exterior.

However, lots of girls have been fucked over (or fucked themselves over) in the dating market, whereby they no longer actively want something short-term and flingy but are LTR-hunting to find “The One”.

If you’re out on the prowl for quick sex; you don’t want to interact with these types.

Chicks who are looking for boyfriend material: you want to screen them out early as possible since they’re obviously singing a different tune than what you’re humming.

“How do I screen girls out”?

By screening out certain girls, it basically means that you are pre-rejecting them ahead of time.

For instance, if you’re browsing online-dating profiles and you come across some which read:

“Looking for marriage or at least a serious relationship…”

Those girl’s profiles you should bypass and screen out and not even bother to message them.

In the past (recent past actually), I had the habit of wasting weeks trying to convert these girls who weren’t DTF.

Had I done what I’m currently advising you guys [screen out early], I would’ve saved time and avoided massive headaches in the fucking process!

So avoid girls who are adamant about wanting something serious and long term.

Techniques To Know If She’s DTF And Open For Quick Sex

Ok, it’s pretty simple but requires balls of steel- for the average guy that is.

Get sexual and forward right away!!!

Whether you met her online or in person during day game or night game pickup: forward stack to something sexual or with sexual connotations.

The reason why this is very risky to run online is because a girl can just simply ignore your message(s) and it’s game fucking over!

If she does: then it’s all good anyway since she automatically screened herself out of the game!

The heart of the matter is this:

If a girl allows you to be forward and sexual with her right off the bat, then you as the guy must and should take that as a clear sign and capitulation that she’s on the same page and looking to hook up too!

If she isn’t; she’ll simply reject you.

Approaching girls and using this method:

Let’s use me for example as a sacrificial lamb to field test this routine:

I spot an HB9 walking, she isn’t dressed provocatively nor is she giving off any sign of slut-dom [this shouldn't be a deterrent by the way]:

Me: “I notice you have ‘the walk’…”

HB9: “Excuse me”?

Me: “You never heard of ‘the walk’…?

HB: “Lol noooooooooo”.

Me: “Anyway forget about it. Too complicated to break down right now”.

HB9: “Lol Ok”.

Me: “Can I be real with you right now just for this 1 moment”?

HB9: “Sure”!!!

Me: “I am so fucking horny and haven’t had sex in 6 months…!

HB9: “LOL are you kidding me!? You look like a player. I bet you have sex more often than that”.

Note: If the target responds with such a remark; you’re golden!

If she laughs or blushes (which they often do); you’ve fount the right girl for easy sex.

She’s open for sex. it’s just for you as the guy to play your part throughout the pickup.

Now, you don’t have to be sexual SOLELY in a verbal manner as I’d illustrated in the chat log above.

Ricardus mentioned a nice technique of his which heightens the sexual tension and lets you know early which type of girl you’re dealing with [read below].

Touching Cocks:

Somewhere during the initial interaction/pickup, get her to touch your cock!

At a playful moment of the interaction where she’s laughing and apparently into you, do something like this:

Me: “Since I haven’t had sex in 6 months, I have a massive boner right now just looking at you”. Touch it!!!

In the fray of playfulness, take her hand and put it on your cock!

The objective isn’t to get her to actually touch it. If she does; well HELLO!!!

The purpose of inviting her to touch your cock is to gauge and read her reaction: Positive or Negative?

Positive Reaction:

•She blushes

•She smiles

•She laughs

•She giggles

•She gropes your dick

•She didn’t slap you and leave

Negative Reactions:

•”What”!?

•She visibly becomes offended

•She walks off

•She sucks her teeth

In fact, by the classic PUA rules, if she’s still there and didn’t leave: she’s down!!!

That rule pretty much applies!

If a girl is truly offended by your sexual advances and forwardness: she will leave!

Simple!!!

The fact that she’s still there is a sign that she’s still in the ball game.

So as long as she didn’t leave right away after you invited her to touch your cock: all indications say that she’s down for quick sex too.

Even if she says, “Fuck you, I’m not touching you”!

As long as she’s still there talking to you and allowing you to talk to her and the interaction progresses, then it’s still game ON!

Simply change the subject (forward stack) and pick her up as you’d normally game any other girl.

If she does give you her contact info; then she’s DTF!

All in all, you really don’t have to follow my format nor Ricardus’ [cock-touching].

Just as long as you get sexual with the target right away in whichever way you prefer.

Kenny Walking The Walk:

I’ll be posting a very interesting article on the weekend where I took “the celery test” to success.

Sounds crazy now, but I’ll explain in the actual article.

Prior to the “celery test”, I got real sexual with 1 of the 2 girls (co-workers) whom I wrote about.

Let’s name girl #1 “Tall HB” for reference sake.

“Tall HB” passes my desk on her way to the bathroom and I slapped her on her ass pretty loudly.

How did she react?

She looks back at me, smiled and stuck her tongue out (playfully)!

She was checking for congruence in my body language and facial expression: was I gonna back down and be apologetic or own what I’d done?

I owned it by looking right at her.

Congruence test passed with flying fucking colors!!!

On another occasion [days ago], I got really sexual with her (verbally):

Me: “I could just bend you over and fuck the shit out of you right on this desk”!!!

Tall HB: “[Sucks teeth playfully] Since I know your intentions now, I know to watch what I wear to work”.

Me: “Teasing me with that ass every day isn’t making things easier”.

Tall HB: “What ass!? I don’t have an ass”!!!

Me: “Being modest huh”?

Then I gave her a slap on the ass and hip.

I visibly seen her buying temperature skyrocketed right in front of my eyes…in other words, she was turned on!

I noticed her expression went from neutral to sexual within a millisecond!

This was all the product of me saying to her seconds earlier that I wanted to fuck her in the office on the desk…coupled with the fact that I physically escalated by touching her.

Did she leave?

No!

Did she tell me to stop?

No!

Did she say to me, “Why did you do that”!!!?

No!

Additional Notes:

How long have I known her?

Two weeks.

She’d just been transferred to the adjacent department 2 weeks ago.

We swapped #’s.

She has a boyfriend which she talks about every minute (go figure).

She’s about 37 years old but has the body and face of a 15 year old [the slimmest girl I've ever been sexually attracted to].

In spite of all those facts (which I didn’t know when we first got acquainted), my approach was the same as what I’m teaching y’all here: Screening!

From the minute she entered the department, I was sexual with her (non verbally).

Sure there are other men working with her, but they are not of my caliber nor do they have the balls.

I basically screened her from day 1 to see what type of girl she is 9urrently):

•Open to fun at work/DTF

•All about work

•Neutral (already has someone and isn’t looking for fun)

With my approach and style, I was able to find out what type of girl she was (at this moment).

Why haven’t I banged her yet?

Logistics (lack there of) will be your worst enemy in seduction…Bad logistics that is.

Sure I can attempt to woo her into the bathroom and fuck the crap out of her but to reek of sex afterwards while on the job isn’t the most kosher thing [not that I care on a normal day].

I tried hooking up with her outside of the workplace (to grab a drink) but she told me that her boyfriend is super jealous and isn’t too pleased about her going out on the weekends unless with him.

She’s also been on her period the entire week last week which was another deterrent (for her that is).

With that said [shitty logistics], the only option might be to bang her on the job or to possibly take her to my apartment during our lunch break…which is possible.

Summary:

•Approach her

•Get sexually forward with her within 2-3 minutes of meeting

•See if she reaction positively or negatively

•If positive (based on what I’d pointed out above), then you now know that she’s DTF.

•Close her (get her #)

•If she reactions negatively to your sexual advances and forwardness, then plow a bit more, if she persists to be negative, then screen her out and leave.

Steve Jabba Picks Up Sexy Girl from Ghana On The Streets Of London [+ Great KINO Lesson]

Steve Jabba, master PUA dating coach out of London

Steve Jabba, master PUA dating coach out of London

What better way to kick off a brand-new week than with another hot new in-field video!

My mate Steve, PUA coach from across the pond in London, had sent me this video via Facebook about a week ago but I somehow lost it in the fray of inbox messages I have backed up for weeks.

Glad that I was able to find it!

Lesson In KINO:

What I love about it is how Steve went KINO immediately!

In layman’s term; that means got physical (touching) right off the bat by grabbing the sexy Ghanaian as she walked [at the 8 second mark of the video].

I really don’t think I should have to tell you how important it is to establish “Touch” right away with women.

For the complete newbies, going KINO early (touching), communicates the following:

•You’re a sexual man (a plus)

•You have lots of balls (a plus)

•You defy social norms (a plus)

•You’re getting her acclimated to your touch so she doesn’t get freaked out by it later on (a major plus)b

So those are the benefits of KINO (touching girls).

Throughout the in-field video, Steve repeatedly goes KINO at the appropriate intervals.

Emphasis shouldn’t be placed on the verbal rap but his actions and body language.

I’m not a fan of complimenting women and going direct, but Steve isn’t all cheesy about it since he does incorporate some bad boy elements (swearing) to neutralize his complimenting.

So if you’re gonna compliment a girl, back it up by having the balls to be rude and touch her. If you don’t, you’ll just come off as ass-kissing and generic.

For instance, at the middle point of the video, the girl asks Steve if he’s shopping, and he replies: “Yea I was until I got distracted by this ass”!

He’s immediately creating a sexual vibe which the average guy wouldn’t out of fear of rejection.

As expected, she immediately KINO’s Steve by giving him a love tap as if she’s offended or astonished by his bluntness.

Steve working off of her KINO, goes straight ahead and hugs her and touch the small of her back.

So he compliments the girl, yet he’s coming off as a sexual bad boy who isn’t afraid to offend opposed to a passive nice guy who doesn’t want to mess up.

Why didn’t the girl react negatively to Steve’s touches?

In Pickup, this boils down to “Calibration” and being properly “Calibrated”…Timing, Timing and Timing!

It takes years of practice to become fluent in the art of touching without being touched or slapped in return.

You won’t get it right if you’re just starting out in pickup. You will have women react negatively and congruence test the shit out of you by saying things like:

“Why are you touching”?

“Do you always touch this much”!?

“Can you stop touching please”!

However, with in-field experience, trial runs, etc., you will strike that harmonious balance where chicks hardly ever think twice whenever you get touchy-feely.

Plus whenever a girl is attracted to you, there’s hardly anything you can do wrong; including slapping her on the ass!

Steve had already gauged that this sexy-black chick from Ghana would be receptive to KINO (touching).

How did he sense it?

Boils down to years worth of experience again where you can almost instantaneously know which type of girl you’re dealing with: 1 receptive to touching or 1 who’s adamantly opposed to it.

Not that you’ll always get it right nevertheless! Advanced guys still have bad days and bad sets which go wrong for various reasons. But with vast amounts of experience and timing, your ability to read women will become simplistic as taking a piss.

Anyway, check out the video of this sexy-juicy-ass Ghanaian HB, and learn a lesson in KINO and how to get touchy with women…and eventually pick them up.

Props to Steve for another instructional video!

Check out his PUA blog too: Authentic PUA!!!

Field Report + Video: Day2 Date With The Enemy [And How To Really Get A Girl Out On A Date]

The enemy-documentary is a fitting title for my last 2 articles including this one.

Just to recap, I picked up an HB9.2 last Thursday via Facebook who was once my sworn enemy some years ago because of some bullshit drama you can read about in this post.

The chick-enemy

The chick-enemy HB9.2

We engaged in a bit of text game and phone chat from Friday to Saturday, then met up Sunday night [read a bit of the text dialogue here].

Anyway, Sunday evening, I let her know via text that I was heading to a specific bar that night to chill with some buddies, and if she was up for coming; she’s free to meet me there.

This is also the way in which you should ask or invite a girl out.

You don’t make plans ‘WITH’ her! But you invite her to tag along and fit into something you were going to do anyway.

I wasn’t going to the bar because of a date set up with her. I had a meet-up with my buddy Big John, an expat from New York City, and I merely suggested to the enemy chick that she’s free to join in…but the party will still continue even if she doesn’t show up.

That is how you invite a girl to meet up with you or to come on a date.

You frame it as though you had prior plans anyway.

That doesn’t put any pressure on her whatsoever, nor does it force her to feel guilty if she flakes since she never agreed to go on a date. In this case, she will show up without feeling pressured.

Being out with friends also encourages a girl to join in as it makes her a lot more comfortable that it won’t be an anxiety-filled one-on-one stare down. So there’s physical and psychological safety in numbers.

A girl will be 10 times more likely to go on a date with you if she knows that others will be there…at least initially, then you can extract her later on.

So the fact that I was with 2 (guy) friends @ the bar made her decision to join in that much easier since she feels safer in numbers.

Anyway, I get to the bar, ordered a round of Coors Light for the boys.

An hour in, I updated my Facebook status:

“Having fun @ the bar with the boys…I’m already tipsy”

The HB9.2 enemy chick sends me a text via Whatsapp Messenger:

HB 9.2 Enemy Chick: “Seems like you’re having fun at the bar. Save some of that fun for me”.

My DTF alarm goes off!!!

I Ignored her message.

Half hour later (9:00 PM):

HB9.2 Enemy Chick: “I’m getting dressed right now…will be there shortly”!

45 minutes later:

Enemy Chick: “I’m on my way now to *****’s bar to meet you”.

She shows up, I lazily introduced her to my guys, I tooled the shit out of 1 of my buddies by telling him to buy the nice-young lady a cocktail [pretty sinister thing to do to my buddy LOL]!

He gets her a $15 drink [Baileys Irish Cream coffee liqueur] while he gets himself a Gin & Tonic.

Baileys Irish Cream coffee liqueur

Baileys Irish Cream coffee liqueur

At 10:30 PM or so, we all 4 were tipsy as a MOFO! I’d downed a glass of Cointreau citrus liqueur with creme de mente which had my eyes rolled back into my fucking head…plus a Coors Light and coke afterwards!

In the midst of all the tipsiness, I decided to shoot a bit of in-field footage @ the table.

The prominent-male voice you hear on the video is that of my buddy Big John from NYC as he’s wasted and talking shit, flirting back and forward with the HB9.2.

Afterwards, she came with me to the club, then at the end of the night, I don’t think I should have to spell out what took place. And no it wasn’t an orgy!!!

Overall, what I hope that my readers take away from this documented seduction of the enemy chick, is that any girl can be picked up and seduced- down to the ones who hate the ground you walk on (as this HB9.2 did)!

Also, guys need to realize that a girl who has something to prove to you will never flake on you.

Girls who you know who claims that they hate your guts are the ones who will be super willing to prove to you that they don’t actually hate you.

Just as I was able to get the enemy out on a date with me (twice actually) within 4 days of re-acquaintance. That is 2 fucking dates within 4 days…with the same chick…who made it publicly clear over the phone and via social media that she hates me!!!

To learn how to seduce girls whom you’ve had prior issue with; read this article: Socialkenny infiltrating the enemy’s camp

How To Seduce A Girl Whom You’re Not On Speaking Terms With [infiltrating the enemy]

This article isn’t a “how to” of picking up random girls, but a “how to” of seducing a girl whom you already know but are on bad terms with for whatever reasons due to a prior fallout or altercation where she now hates your guts or doesn’t talk to you anymore.

This aspect of game is absolutely unwritten and unheard of since most guys wouldn’t dare fathom seducing a girl who currently hates their guts.

It takes a bad ass like Socialkenny to field test this (as I’ve done over the years) and bring forth the good news to the masses.

“Why Should I Seduce A Girl Whom I’m Not On Speaking Terms With”?

If you’re a guy like I am, getting revenge on a girl who hates you by fucking the shit out of her is the pinnacle of playerdom.

Most guys are too uncomfortable to confront girls they’re not on speaking terms with.

You can be that rare guy who taps into some uncharted territory of poon-tang.

Plus why have girls around you whom you’re not talking to anyway [like a sexy co-worker who hates your guts but can be converted]?

“In Which Situations Do This Work”?

Social-Circle Game!

Let’s say that you live in a small to medium-size town (as most of us do) where your social circle of buddies is bound to come into constant contact with other circles (like at a house party, Facebook party, neighborhood event, gathering, public function, etc.)…

If there’s such a girl at the gathering, venue or function whom you haven’t spoken to in a while (months-years) due to some conflict, then this is your logistical opportunity to seduce her.

Online:

Facebook is absolutely the worst place to try to pick up (random) girls since you have zero pre-selection value to the (random) girl you’re trying to pick up.

I’ve tried this before (picking up and banging random girls on Facebook), and my success rate is about 0 in 60…a failure rate I should say!

However, seducing a girl whom you have more than 5 mutual friends with (via Facebook) is highly possible since you have some level of acceptance, pre-selection and social value.

Now let’s take it a step further and presuming that there’s a chick whom you like, and also share mutual friends with (on Facebook)…but y’all are not on speaking terms [had a falling out, conflict, disagreement, etc.].

She will be a prime target for seducing [enemy infiltration]!

Socialkenny Seduced A Former Enemy Over The Weekend

The girl I wrote about in my last post, we actually had a pretty nasty argument and falling-out over 3 years ago, so we hadn’t spoken…until last week actually [I broke the ice].

We first got acquainted through mutual friends at a party about 5 years ago.

I tried hitting on her bestie (whom I knew longer) but somehow an argument ensued where her group of girls and my group of boys were going at it with a verbal firefight.

Both social circles pretty much know each other [I know of the girls and vice versa].

These chicks were so fired-up by the incident that they actually took to Facebook and cursed me out royally as an ugly asshole who instigated the fight at the party (which so wasn’t the case).

Whateva!

Since that incident (over 3 years ago), we haven’t spoken…until I decided to seduce her last week (Thursday) for the sheer pleasure of knowing I can bang a girl who hates me.

The reason I’d even pursued this is because this chick is super-fucking sexy!

She reminds me of those girls who stop traffic by sheer sex appeal, with a walk so sexy that it leaves guys cripple in their tracks!

That alone [her bang-ability], a sense of vengeance and the fact that she keeps popping up on my Facebook as a friend recommendation, are enough to make me pursue this bang-mission impossible [turned out very possible].

What Most Of Us Do Not Understand About Dealing With Enemies [Behavioral Psychology]

This concept is straight out of the “48 Laws Of Power” by the seduction author Robert Greene who also authored “The Art Of Seduction”.

48 Laws Of Power by Robert Greene

48 Laws Of Power by Robert Greene

I read this thick-paperback book way back in 2003 at the age of 21 [before I even knew what PUA was].

There’s a subsection in the book which I vaguely remember, where Robert wrote about winning over enemies to have and to use them as your allies.

The gist is basically that it’s easier to win over an enemy (i.e. a girl who dislikes you via prior conflicts) than trying to win over someone whom you aren’t acquainted with at all.

Sounds fucking counter-intuitive as hell don’t it!!!???


Law # 2

“Never put too Much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use Enemies”

•Be wary of friends-they will betray you more quickly, for they are easily aroused to envy. They also become spoiled and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If you have no enemies, find a way to make them.


I’ve proven this strategic concept correct many times before in regards to pickup and dating.

I’ve fucked more girls who publicly hated my guts previously, than ones with whom I was on really good footing.

The magic lies in, “an enemy has more to prove to you, that he (or she) can be loyal”.

To translate into pickup and dating: a girl whom you’d fallen out with will be more willing to prove that she isn’t really such a bitch as the prior incident led you to believe.

No woman really wants to be deemed a heartless, bitchy, un-affectionate person who lacks forgiveness.

She would want to prove to you that she has changed and gotten over prior differences.

No one (genuinely) wants to be hated!

An enemy secretly salivates at the chance to become your ally.

That chick whom you’d called a dirty-fucking bitch a year ago, will actually be open to you approaching her (physically or online) to start afresh.

Think back to the epic cat-fight on MTV’s Jersey Shore reality show where Sammy and J-Woww [2 female-cast members] had a throw down which ended their bullshit friendship.

Jersey Shore cat fight

Jersey Shore cat fight

After a year or so, Sammy had approached her to patch things up. J-Woww was totally receptive, thus both of them were hell-bent on proving to each other that they can be very loyal.

The lesson here is that humans are naturally forgiving and want to get pass prior dramas and conflicts!

I’d written about this a while back: “Either I’ll fuck her or she’ll hate my guts”.

Not that it’s cool to disrespect women when unwarranted, but doing so creates drama and tension which every girl needs as her virtual oxygen.

However, if there’s a girl you’re not on good terms with and would truly like to seduce and bang her; there is massive amounts of hope, and I’m glad to be the first in the seduction community to shed light on this!

Step By Step Approach To Seducing A Chick-Enemy

There are only 2 prerequisites:

• Have enough balls to approach her (online or in person).

• Putting your pride aside to apologize.

Just as in any other pickup, you as the man will have to approach this (enemy) girl.

It will feel fucking uncomfortable as shit knowing you and this chick are not on speaking terms. But once you get over the initial anxiety-filled hurdle of approaching – it’s smooth sailing baby!

Firstly, she will be surprised that you’re talking to her!

Everyone believes that others are as stuck-up and uptight as he or she is.

You approaching and re-opening the lines of communication with this chick will show her that you are the bigger person that she was not all along.

No one likes to be bested nor to feel as though him or herself is the smaller-minded person, so by you approaching and looking to patch things up, it makes the other person who didn’t make this move, feel like a shallow-minded piece of shit.

Therefore you’ll be seen as the bigger person and one to forgive and forget, while the other is left feeling small, selfish, and has no choice but to have to prove him or herself to you (since you’re the virtual-bigger person).

From thenceforth, the seduction process should proceed as you normally would seduce any other HB (girl)…but with less hiccups.

Main differences here is that:

• You will have approached and opened her (in person or online),

• You will have Apologized to her for the incident or falling out,

• You will have let her know that you want to move pass this

• Get her # or Facebook (in any standard way)

The most cold-hearted bitch on the planet will surprisingly agree that she wants to forget the incident also.

She has now become an ally, aka a chick you can now seduce and bang easier than if y’all had never butted heads.

She absolutely will NOT flake on you…at all!

“Why Are Most Men Afraid To, Or Refrain From Seducing Chick-Enemies (although they’re attracted to the girls)”?

•Misconceptions

•Lack of understanding of human psychology

•Fear that they’ll be shunned by the enemy

•Social anxiety

•Social pressure

•Social emasculation [Beta-Males]

•Fear of not knowing how the chick-enemy will react to a virtual truce

All the above 7 reasons are bullshit excuses and are just in your head due to social conditioning.

It takes a special breed of men to seduce girls who hate their guts:

• A guy who isn’t afraid of conflict with women,

• A guy who isn’t afraid to be embarrassed

• A guy who loves to take chances

• A guy who isn’t afraid to be called out

Having the balls to approach an enemy [a girl you're no longer talking to] brings out the true Alpha-male essence to which women are biologically programmed to gravitate.

This’ also applicable to an ex-girlfriend situation if y’all had broken up on bad terms.

Years ago, I’d picked up a hot librarian at the library [You can read the actual field-report post from back in 2009 posted on the Pickup Artist forum: Librarian field report].

We hit it off well: but she was a flake demon from hell!!!

She had flaked on me so many times over the course of a month, I was so irate that I cursed her ass out royally over the phone!

A year had passed without any contact, but while browsing through some old files on my PC, I fount her name and phone # and decided to call her up just for the fuck of it.

Lo and behold; she was pleased to hear from me and had wanted to patch things up but wasn’t man enough…or woman enough to reconcile.

I told her that she was a bitch for wasting my time (flaking), but I was sorry for saying such nasty things to her.

A week later; I fucked her without an incident of flaking.

An enemy turned ally turned fuck-buddy!

Some chicks need to be roughed up this way in order to spur them to action [which defies the whole concept of Pickup which says that a guy should NOT argue with women with all- which I disagree with fully].

This is also a classic case of how assholes get laid more than passive guys who are afraid to ruffle feathers.

Think Jersey Shore’s Mike Situation], the character “Blade” in Kid ‘N Play’s Class Act (of 1992) and other such movies where the asshole bad boy prick gets tons of girls.

Kid 'N Play

Kid ‘N Play (Blade)

Not that you have to feign being an asshole, but if a girl already hates your guts, she already sees you as an asshole anyway.

So get out there and seduce those girls in your town who’ve been bad-mouthing you, or that girl on Facebook who shares mutual friends with you but for some reason y’all don’t talk anymore.

Lastly, I’m an advocate of gaming new girls and moving on to newer prospects, so if this article came off as though I’m telling guys to pine away at a specific girl, then sorry for the misinterpretation.

I’m merely providing a way and means for those guys who genuinely want to reconnect with girls they once knew or spoke to but through some drama, they no longer speak and are no longer friends essentially.

I am neither advocating for guys to throw all their eggs into 1 basket. Instead, simultaneously game a chick-enemy and other girls whom you would’ve met as usual.

I was basically spurred on by a sense of revenge since this chick had publicly cursed me out on Facebook. I felt a need to make her pay by penetrating her vagina with this cock. So this article was meant for those guys who felt they were wronged and would like revenge.

There’s no sweet revenge!

This is what separates amateurs from masters. A master PUA is skillful and savvy enough to be able to f-close a girl who had labeled him the biggest douche on Earth since Stifler from American Pie.

In all reality, it doesn’t take much skills, just a shift in mindset and attitude and the belief and confidence that you can get any girl you desire!

By the way, my next post will feature an in-field video of me on a date (@ a bar) with the same chick-enemy whom I wrote about in this article and my previous article on texting [What would you have said?].

I’ll be showing you throughout 3 posts how powerful and simple it is to seduce, date and bang a girl whom you had conflicts with prior.

Ciao!

What would you have said?

I know I’m starting to sound like a contradicting prick!

One minute I say, “I’m done with chatting to chicks over Facebook and the internet”!

The next: I’m chatting to girls on Facebook and other internet sites.

Well fucking shoot me LOL!

Unfortunately, in this age of social media, it’s highly fucking impossible to meet girls who don’t text or don’t have Facebook accounts, so we can either join ‘em; or die lonely with erections as hard as warheads.

What I can say definitively though is that we (guys) should limit how often we text women (online or via standard mobile to mobile texting).

It’s impossible to totally do away with social media and texting and still remain relevant as a human on the dating market.

For quick lays however (ONS/SNL): avoid texting, instead escalate to get sex. If logistics don’t permit; then texting, calling, and social media are must.

Anyway, yesterday I picked up this chick whom I know through 3rd. party mutual friends on Facebook.

This’ how the interaction culminated:

Kennyata Socialkenny Joseph
Alright, let me cut to the chase. We should hang out.

J***** Jones
Wasn’t feeling the vibe ….hang out meaning?
22 minutes ago · Seen 5:39pm · Sent from Messenger

Kennyata Socialkenny Joseph
Meaning I get few bottles of Smirnoff Ice, we drink, get tipsy and have a super orgasm together. I mean like an hours worth of hot orgasm that will cripple u for a day!!!

J***** Jones
Lmao u are a real funny guy…..
12 minutes ago · Sent from Messenger

Kennyata Socialkenny Joseph
Lmbao! I’m serious but humor is a good thing

J***** Jones
Yep
10 minutes ago · Sent from Messenger

The question now is, what would you’ve said when she asks, “What do you mean by hanging out”?

By the way, that’s just a classic congruence test dished out by most girls whenever you ask such questions.

I was caught off guard to be honest, and it took me a while of wrecking my brains trying to come up with the perfect reply as to not be seen as a guy who lack wits and snappy comebacks.


“Meaning I get few bottles of Smirnoff Ice, we drink, get tipsy and have a super orgasm together. I mean like an hours worth of hot orgasm that will cripple u for a day”!!!

I actually made up the reply based on Sasha PUA’s video posted in my last post.

Now, what would you say to the girl who congruence test you with that question ["Hang out meaning what"]?

Is it best to stay vague in that case, lie about your intentions in wanting to hang out, or let her know straight up?

Sasha PUA shows us how to pick up random girls on the streets

Sasha PUA, Israeli-born via Canada, via England via...

Sasha PUA, Israeli-born via Canada, via England via…

Sasha PUA needs no introduction.

Nevertheless, he’s an Israeli-born PUA guru out of Canada (now lives in London); an amateur stand-up comedian at that, which makes his game that much more interesting.

In this 24 minute video, Sasha works the streets of London hitting on random girls with his signature style of banter and humor mixed in with some direct game.

Everyone of my reader already knows how much I hate direct game with a fervent passion!

Sasha PUA however, goes direct (complimenting girls whom he approaches), but it’s done in a non-needy way opposed to coming off as genuinely shocked by a woman’s beauty…which is weird.

Overall, even I had acquired some new skills and tweaks from watching this classic video, which is why I had to post it for other guys to tweak their social skills.

What you’ll learn is:

*How to stop a random girl on the street (who’s walking)

*How to use compliments as your opener

*The proper tone to attract

*How to banter

*How to use negs correctly

*How to talk to a 2 set (2 girls)

This video was so instructive, that I had to whip out the old pen and pad (literally) to jot some notes down in order to incorporate into my street-pickup game.

I love how he puts women on the spot when he asks them if they have boyfriends, then he’d catch them in a lie and bust on them [nice game].

Guys who are naturally humorous and lighthearted will easily be able to assimilate to Sasha’s style of pickup.

The introverted types may find Sasha’s game to be too fast pace and outside of their comfort zone.

Why I really love this video is that Sasha shows how pickup is a #’s game; you will have failures and wins (more failures), but don’t let failures affect your game (as he displays).

So, watch the video (if you haven’t already) and learn how to pick up random girls on the streets for the weekend.

Happy goddamn Friday [TGIF]!!!

Just another chat and in-field hidden-camera video from Tom Torero

The more I check out Tom Torero’s stuff (videos), the more I’m beginning to like his style of game, which is why I’ve posted 2 videos of his to my main blog recently (opposed to the PUA Video site).

In this video, Tom (owner of Daygame.com out of England) talks a bit about incorporating old-school Pickup (Mystery Method) into his brand of game to create an interesting concept for gaming girls.

Towards the middle of the video, Tom Torero goes in-field on hidden camera to a coffee shop in Sweden and ends up picking up the girl working the register.

With the community’s rebellion against Mystery’s Method over the years, as a purist PUA, I have utmost fucking respect for coaches who still use classic seduction tactics to pickup.

Check out the video!

The Pick-Up Artist’s Manifesto

Some months ago while at a nightclub, I had a Canadian girl literally say to me:

“Since you’re not gonna buy me a drink, this conversation won’t go any further”.

At that juncture is where the average guy will succumb to the power of (potential) poon-tang and buy the girl a drink, thus reducing himself to a pile of worthless fecal-matter on the virtual scale of manliness.

However, as a dominant Alpha who’s accustomed to swimming in the pool of mass vaginas, I said this to her:

“I will not buy you a fucking drink”!

Then walked off.

Shocked and intrigued by the adamant ballsiness of not selling out just for a piece of ass (which is no different than any other ass), she then says (while I walked off):

“Lol I was just joking. I never had a guy said that to me before”.

I replied:

“You should’ve read the PUA’s manifesto.”!

Guys who subscribes to the Pick-Up Artist’s philosophy, should not allow any girl to get away with such bitchy-verbal hogwash just because they’re horny and dying to get some.

Have some balls, stick to your guns and principles as a high-valued man, even though it means another sex-less night of watching poor-quality internet porn on your smartphone.

Never buy drinks for a girl whom you don’t know. If she insists that you buy in order to get conversation; walk away! She wasn’t going to genuinely interact with you anyway even had you bought the drink.

A successful Pick-Up Artist is one who isn’t afraid to offend and ruffle a girl’s feathers in the process. You’ll have more successes through conflict than through a smooth interaction.

Getting laid fast is the PUA’s motto. Taking things slow is the wrong approach…unless logistics are working against you.

Chasing women is a fucking No No! Give her attention then withdraw that attention which will have her chasing you. But chasing is the quickest way to get her running… from you.

To be continued…

Most awkward feeling in the world…for a man

women breast feeding. Picture courtesy of Reuters.

women breast feeding. Picture courtesy of Reuters.

Just a random occurrence which I’d updated to my Facebook status.

“Most awkward feeling in the world is when a woman gingerly whips out her tits and starts breast feeding right in front of you…shamelessly! As a man, you don’t know whether to run, stare, get a hard on or tell her to fucking put those things away”.

While at work past Friday, 2 chicks came into the office to inquire about something.

One of them had apparently just given birth since her baby looked so little.

As I was talking to both of them, the mommy whips out a tit and just starts to breast feed right in front of me!!!

I did get a hard on honestly…[I'm only human LOL]!

It was so crazy that I visibly started to feel a rush of anxiety and sexual arousal all at the same time!

But it so strange how chicks can innocently do such things and not know how uncomfortable they may make guys feel around them.

How man men can relate to this very awkward feeling?

How about the ladies, would you be brave enough to just whip those puppies out and not feel awkward yourself?

Tom Torero (PUA guru from England) talks about his fucked up night in Vegas trying to get laid

Tom Torero of Day Game.com

Tom Torero of Day Game.com

PUA guru, Tom Torero (owner of Day Game.com out of England), had made my list of top 10 PUA coaches of 2012, so as a guru in the genre; he’s more than legit.

What I like about the following video from Tom is that he narrates how fucked up Vegas nightlife can be, hookers trying to get drinks out of you, frivolous chicks who have short-ass attention spans, etc.

He also gives some good tips for gaming girls in Vegas (Gutter Game).

The best tip of them all is to “Leave your phone at home”!

Having your cellphone while in-field will actually make you become lazy and phone-number dependent when you could’ve pushed things further had you not have your phone.

Check out the video!



“Im on my period”

Just 1 of those random instances that made me chuckle.

Last night, I called up a girl whom I’d picked up about a month ago.

I didn’t get to really build anything (rapport) with her being that I was too busy doing other things, but we’ve been chatting over the phone for the past 5 days or so.

We scheduled to meet up last Thursday but our timing didn’t mesh because she said she doesn’t miss pro wrestling for anything [from 8-10 pm]. My schedule only allowed me to meet her between 8-10, so we had to cancel since she wasn’t willing to put off WWE to hook up with me.

So Thursday was scrapped!

We rescheduled to meet up last Saturday (at her place), but at the last minute, I ended up flaking because of a huge-boxing match I couldn’t miss for the world [Canelo Alvarez vs. Austin Trout].

What a frikkin’ irony!

She can’t miss wrestling and I can’t miss boxing.

Anyway, she calls me up on Monday and busted my balls about flaking on her without telling her, and that she was waiting up all ready for our in-house date @ her place.

I called her up earlier to set up a meet-up for tonight or possibly the weekend.

Me: “Hey ******, what you up to”?

Big Boobs: “Just lying down”.

Me: “Damn, this early”!?

Big Boobs: “I’m on my cycle. Just came today”.

When she said that, I’m like FUCK!!!!!!!!!!

I tried finding every excuse to get off the phone since I knew I wasn’t gonna be able to lay her that night nor over the coming weekend.

At first, I thought she was testing me, so I played it nonchalantly to not seem like a total insensitive prick who only wants to fuck her brains out.

She kept wanting to prolong the conversation while I kept trying to hang up.

This chick is totally DTF but our schedules just haven’t clicked and she also has a boyfriend which further requires more maneuvering to work around.

It was kind of odd though that she even told me she was on her period since women are very uneasy about divulging such info to men…strangers at that.

Usually, you’d just get flaked on if a girl is on her period, or she’ll just hit you with some elaborate excuse as to why she can’t meet up. So I respect that she even had the balls to say that she’s on her period (whether it’s true or not, but I do believe her).