What this website is all about

Posted in Miscellaneous on September 1, 2014 by kennyata joseph

With the latest influx of new readers and subscribers over the past 8 months, it’s more than fitting to clarify what this blog is and what it is not…apart from the “about me” page.

I am a Pick-Up Artist (PUA) also known as a seductionist, and I run a website (this site) based on the subject of picking up and seducing women.

This is NOT a pro-mainstream-media dating advice weblog (quite the contrary)!

The dating, courtship, seduction and relationship advice which I share with you, are very radical and unorthodox and are NOT for the faint of heart!

Moreover, as a veteran member, and also a well-known member, of the Pick-Up/Seduction Community, my personal insights hold credence even among the gurus in the genre.

However, 90% of what I teach and impart here on this weblog, aren’t my original thoughts, ideas, tactics, knowledge or insights.

They belong to the underground-seduction community in which I’m a member.

Hence, what I write about here is nothing original however exclusive to pickup.

Guys like myself, what we actually do, is to shed light on certain concepts and refine them and tweak a thing or 2 here and there.

Ultimately, my objective is to simply get you guys laid…or at least aid you in the process.

We can all agree that mainstream-dating advice is antiquated and tremendously flawed especially in relation to courting the 21st Century gal who is more aroused by the badboy’s approach opposed to the old-fashion chivalrous method.

Therefore, most of what you’ll learn here will be things which are foreign to your ears and outside of your mainstream comprehension.

As for other modus of learning, I also shoot amateur hidden-camera videos of live and real interactions between random strangers and myself.

The videos aren’t to show off or prove anything, but merely to give you guys a real-world sense of the concepts I teach and how they are actually done with real women and not actors as some outfits are known to use.

It’s 1 thing to tell a guy what works than to actually show him how to make it work and why it works.

Ok, so if you haven’t heard of Pickup, PUA or Seduction prior to reading this post, now you know what it is and what I’m about as a PUA (Pick-Up Artist).

If you have heard of PUA’s before, 9 in 10 times, what you heard is likely to be bad press and criticism of PUA’s from women, female bloggers and mainstream dating authors.

Stuff like, “PUA’s are womanizers”, misogynists and we advocate treating women like sex objects in order to seduce them.

Those might be true sentiments, but they are usually responses to the sexualized approached of a PUA…which works by the way.

At the end of the day, being a pussified nice guy doesn’t get you laid neither does it arouse women to become attracted to you.

Being a nice guy with an edge, or a badboy with a heart, is what I teach around here, and it’s also what the pick-up community advocates.

If you can handle that, then read on and feel free to browse around the site and search for what you need as far as tips, techniques and tactics to getting girls in bed, getting phone numbers and getting a girlfriend.

Don’t Take Advice From This Guy

Posted in Dating Tips, Video with tags on September 1, 2014 by kennyata joseph

There are 3 classes of men you should never take dating and pick-up advice from:

1.) The guy who’s single, doesn’t have a significant other (or others) in his life and isn’t dating at least

2.) The guy who doesn’t and cannot demonstrate what he’s advising to you to do

3.) The guy who doesn’t go out and doesn’t have a social life

In the video at the head of the post which I put together last week, I break down those 3 simple points.

Worst Rejections And Blowouts To Trying To Game Girls

Posted in Rejection on August 30, 2014 by kennyata joseph

For the record: rejections DON’T exist!

I merely use the term “rejection” to make the point here. But I do not believe in rejections and I am of the opinion that every reaction from a girl is 1 to learn from- positive or negative.

Ok, so guys want to know if I ever get blown out in epic fashion?


The most memorable rejections I ever got [3 of them] all took place in grocery stores.

Perhaps someone jinxed me when it comes to picking up girls in stores? :?:

What made these rejections epic was the manner in which they were done.


1.) “I have a boyfriend”

While grabbing a juice from a supermarket, I started to chat up a girl who was waiting in line.

While I talked to her, I went KINO straight away by having my hand on her shoulder and holding her arm.

She pulled away and yelled, “Don’t fucking touch me! I have a boyfriend”!

Don’t know what having a boyfriend has to do with being touched.

If you don’t like to be touched, it shouldn’t be because you have a boyfriend.

Anyway, I remained chilled about it and kept talking to her to no avail…as she ignored me.

2.) Angry Cash-Register Girl

I was chatting up a cashier at a supermarket. Seemingly she had a bad day and decided to take it out on me…though I might have aggravated it.

While talking, I placed my hand on her shoulder in a way as to say, “Don’t let little things ruin your day”.

After I did that, which seemed to have been well accepted, I went to a nearby cooler to grab me a juice and the cashier came storming down the aisle pissed as hell, “Why the hell did you touch me”!?

She had her index finger all in my face to emphasize her point.

She storms back over to her post, I paid for my stuff and left.


Probably the most epic of the 3 most memorable rejections and blow outs I ever been subjected to! :shock:

I entered a small corner store [can't recall the details], came across a hot girl at the checkout counter so I threw my arm around her neck to commence gaming her.

She looked at me and said something among the lines of “get off of me or I’ll punch you in the stomach”!

As you would expect from a guy like myself; I kept my arm around her in defiance of her stern request.


She punched in the belly!

Thanks to my rock-solid abdomen, the 6 pac was able to blunt the force of the impact…but it did sting. ;)

I usually laugh at girls for being soft punchers, but this chick actually packed a solid one which caught my attention!

Ok, so that’s actually the worst it ever got in my pick-up career.

Over the past 3 years alone, I had probably approached and attempted to chat up over 3,000 women. So to get 3 epic rejections out of 3,000 approaches; you couldn’t ask for a better success-failure rate in the world!

With that, I just want to ensure you guys that the worst-case scenario rarely ever materializes.

Don’t allow women who reject you to crawl back into your shell of self-loathing.

Perceived failure is something you must face in every field and every facet of life.

When women reject me, for instance, the 3 girls highlighted in this post, the rejections don’t hamper me with other women.

I take rejection with a smile!

I either continue to plow until she leaves, or until she ignores me outright.

Also, due to sheer numbers and the volume of women I approach (tons), I am bound to face quadruple the amount of rejections of most guys.

However, I do not take so-called rejection personally.

The girl might have been having a shitty day but is otherwise a sweetheart to the core.

Therefore, if a girl rejects me, I never take it as though she’s rejecting me as a person, but she’s rejecting existential things such as my approach and so forth. So it isn’t personal!

Hustler’s Menttality: Picking Up Girls In Any Situation No Matter The Logistics [+ Infield Clip Examples]

Posted in Approaching, Techniques, Video on August 30, 2014 by kennyata joseph

Screw The Logistics!

I promised you guys that I’ll resume recording more sets for the Autumn season.

In this short video, I talk about adopting a hustler’s mentality when it comes to approaching, meeting and picking up new girls.

Waiting on the perfect logistical moment is never a good idea.

Too often in the past, I would spot a girl whom I wanted to meet but due to the shitty logistics at hand, I would wait for the opportune moment but that moment won’t never come as something was sure to derail my plans.

I know this doesn’t only happen to me. So check out the short video I put together days ago with the short in-field clip executing the concept.


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