Get random girls on instant dates within minutes of meeting.
From raw estimation, I’d say that I’ve gotten about 20 girls (random strangers that is) to come along with me on instant dates since the beginning of 2014.
Am I some super-handsome guy who chicks just go crazy over and can’t resist to go out with me (as total stranger)?
Of course not!
My secret is simply a combination of the following factors: humor, charms, leading, persuasion and “owning it”.
Ok, you might remember the girl in this video from a previous video I’d posted weeks ago.
Well the infield videos was actually shot the same day we met at the national park, and within 30 minutes, I led her to an instant date at a restaurant. So this video is a continuation from that snippet.
Why Instant Dates?
An instant date as the name suggests, is getting the entire date drama out of the way…right away.
Why wait 3 weeks in order to get a girl to come out when you can take her out right then and there, the same day or hour in which you’d met her?
Therefore an insta-date is beating the process. It’s like cutting in line in front of 200 people at a Rock concert. Why would you decide to wait if you’re granted the opportunity to skip like a VIP?
Hence an instant date is practical and a logical move in the right direction.
Is It Hard To Get Insta-Dates?
Getting women on instant dates isn’t a difficult task.
It merely requires some persuasion arts, ability to lead and some psychology.
Now that I think about it: it’s actually hard as fuck! But as you get those 3 components down (leading, persuasion and psychology), it’d be like stealing candy from a baby!
It merely comes down to screening for the right candidate.
Your Insta-Date Target
The prime target to take on an insta-date, is a girl who’s idling, and obviously has nothing better to do: which fortunately for you is most women.
A woman is never (too) busy for doing something else.
If a girl tells you that she can’t: 9 in 10 times, it’s a fucking blow off or flat-out lie.
She can always be nudged into the direction you want her to go.
This is the art of persuasion.
Ok, as for prime candidate: the bored girl is at the top of the list.
When chatting up the girl whom you’d just met, always suggest going somewhere else!
In Pickup, we call this “bouncing the target”.
Always look to bounce the girl and move her around from the spot in which you met her.
As for the art of suggestion:
Me: “Hey what are you up to right now”?
Girl: “Nothing much…I probably have to pick up something for my mother at the pharmacy”.
Me: “Ok cool. You’ll have lots of time to do that. Let’s walk”!
Then start to walk!
This is the “Leading” aspect to nudging her in the right direction.
You don’t actually want to say to her:
“Hey let’s grab a bite at so and so”.
Specific info isn’t that appealing in that it kills the spontaneity aspect to the pickup.
Therefore you don’t want to say to her “Let’s go to Luigi’s for pasta”!
Just suggest taking a walk [if y'all aren't walking already], begin to walk away then motion for her to come on.
If you do this correctly with confidence: she will comply.
Thenceforth, you walk with her to the instant-date location without her knowledge.
As you become more advanced, you will then be able to clearly state your intent of going to grab a bite [without much token resistance].