If You’re Gonna Tip, Do It Without Expectations + Friday Night Field Report

Friday night playing santa...

Friday night playing santa…

Generally, I don’t tip.

In fact, I’ve only tipped twice in my entire life. And that is over the course of 11 + years of going out [bar and club] practically every weekend for 11 consecutive years.

The reason I don’t tip is due to pickup theorization which I’ve always fount to be very practical and sound.

Tippers usually get lumped into the buyer’s frame by the tipees, i.e. bartenders and waitresses and those who work in the service industry.

What is wrong with a guy [the tipper] being put in the buyer’s frame?

His attraction is only based on how much he tips.

In other words, the only thing a tipper has going on for him, is his ability to tip.

His tipping is almost always done as a ploy to try to buy the bartender or waitress’ attention.

Hence, he gets lumped into the buyer’s frame by those girls whom he’d tipped.

It is for this reason I never tip, especially if I were to try to pick up the tipee [i.e. bartender].

Be as it may, I tipped the bartender $5 for 1 drink, just because she was super-fucking hot!

Sue me! ;)

Key point here is that I didn’t tip her expecting to buy her attention, conversation nor to impress her as 99% of other tippers do.

The worst sort of game you can ever try to run of girls, particularly bartenders, is, “I want to impress you by spending and tipping big” game.

It is as transparent as glass and the girl will see right through it as an attempt to buy her time, attention and conversation.

Don’t get me wrong: she will entertain you in conversation. But only to be polite, courteous and in hopes to get more tips and drinks bought out of you.

Though this’ the most deplorable and lamest game ever, most guys still take this route whenever they fancy a girl who works in the service and hospitality industries.

Ok, so if you’re gonna tip; do it without the expectation neither the anticipation of something in return.

In spite of why you tip- as in my case- the bartender was just that amazingly hot- don’t expect even a conversation…though she will undoubtedly engage you in conversation on her own volition.

This isn’t interest.

It is a subtle ploy.

Guys who aren’t used to getting attention from hot chicks, will usually get sucked and suckered into this validation-filled ploy just because of the good feeling that comes with it.

What did I do instead?

I gave the tip, sat at the counter alone and sipped away while she talked to me.

In fact, I was the only person in the bar since it had literally opened a minute before I stepped in.

We had a nice chat but there was no game whatsoever.

I actually told her that I was super shy and I needed to down about 4 drinks before I could speak to her [talk about a false disqualifier]. ;)

In all seriousness, I just don’t want to give the wrong idea that I’m buying a girl’s attention.

Had I not given the tip, maybe I would entertained the idea of vibing with this bartender chick.

The bar has an adjoined nightclub, so I sorta enjoyed the rest of my might there until 4:30 AM I stumbled to my girlfriend’s house and I’m now completing this field-report post laying there in bed.

When Dating Young Women: Always Ensure That Your Expectations Are In Line With The Situation

When Dating Young Women

A very ponderous headline to say the least.

The most commonly asked question posed to me through e-mail, aside from: “How to fuck girls from Facebook”, is, “My girlfriend dumped me, what did I do wrong”?

This post will deal with exactly the latter question and how it comes down to mismanagement of expectation by both parties, but mainly the man.

Women, whether consciously or not, see relationships as transitional and subjected to changed.

This isn’t only sexual or intimate relationships which she shares with members of the opposite sex.

I’m talking about relationships in every sense of the word: business, friendship, school, social media, etc.

Women for the most part, treat all relationships as vapid in the sense that they don’t attach longevity to them, and are always ready to move onto the next 1.

Whether this is a conscious move or not, is up for debate.

Men on the other hand, with our simple and straightforward framework and outlook on life, we see things and treat things as black and white.

For instance, a male may think to himself:

“There shouldn’t be an exit-strategy to a relationship.

If so, then that could very well compromise the fabric of the relationship in the 1st place.

The goal should be longevity”!

That is the male’s perspective: black and white, no gray areas, no contours, detours nor abstractions.

If only women (namely the young ones) see things this way.

Be as it may, relationships to women are treated as expendable, disposable and replaceable.

By men, they are expected to last in spite of so-called deviant behavior in the form of cheating on the part of men.

In a nutshell, there are 2 contradictory viewpoints there between the sexes in relationships:

Women: short term

Men: long term

Women see their relationships in phases and as phases.

Men see their relationships as things which are to last as long as humanly possible.

Now- who wins out?

Whose viewpoint prevails?

Obviously, you can’t force something to physically stay in a relationship, so the woman wins out all the time by severing ties with a boyfriend, after she will have closed the chapter on a certain phase in her life.

Her current boyfriend isn’t allowed to transition through phases with her.

Thus, he gets dropped/dumped as a prerequisite to the girl moving on.

On a related note, I thought about this deeply the other day as I looked at the trend with women, particularly over Facebook.

Girls are subjected to constant severing of friendships and relationships with their girlfriends aka BFF’s.

One minute, you’ll notice a girl posting a status to Facebook claiming how much she loves her friends and how much this girl is her BFF aka “Best Friend Forever”.

The adverb “Forever”, should be omitted from that coined phrase, as it is a gross overstatement.

Girls [the young ones particularly] rarely believe in “Forever”.

You’ll then notice a week or so later, that this same girl ends up posting to Facebook, saying that she has no friends, “fuck all bitches”, cussing out her bestie, breaking ties, etc.

Such occurrences and drama are very common with girls.

Men hardly ever operate this way towards other men who they classify as friends and buddies.

Men hardly ever officially sever ties with other men (i.e. friends).

We merely just drift apart if anything.

With women and their female friends, “drift apart” isn’t even in the picture. They have heated fallouts, essentially ditching their girlfriends and moving on to the next phase which makes materialize new girlfriends and new BFF’s.

It is quite evident that the sexes see things differently and operate differently.

We treat friendships differently.

Friendship and relationship, actually mean something to men.

With women, it is often times a different outlook.

Ok, so how does this relate to young girls in relationships?

Firstly, let me define “Young”, just to put things into perspective: women between the ages of 17 and 28.

This basically encompasses the entire 20’s.

Women between that age range [17-28], are NOT fit for long-term relationships.

They haven’t reached a point in life as yet where they say to themselves:

“I’m getting old. I have nothing to show for it. What am I doing with myself”?

There are obviously some exceptions. But exceptions always exist.

Ok, so what I’m really getting at here, is the mismanagement of expectations by men, when in relationships with young women [17-28].

Men seem to not realize that it is just for a time [the relationship].

Even more crazy, is the fact that guys with girlfriends fresh out of high school, latch onto their relationships, expecting blind devotion from their girlfriends who haven’t experienced life as yet for themselves.

I get countless e-mails from high-schoolers [boys], saying:

“My girlfriend and I just graduated. We’ve been together since elementary school. But now all of a sudden, she doesn’t want to be together and she wants to break up. What can I do to save this”?

Yes!

This is probably 1 of the most common e-mails I receive to my inbox. High-school kids [guys] wanting to latch onto relationships instead of living life while they’re young.

This isn’t just a twisted phenomenon with high-schoolers.

College dudes are subjected to the same idiocy.

These guys leave university with a girlfriend whom they might have met in school, still expecting to hold onto that relationship, and expecting the girl to be on board.

Listen- the crude reality is this: a girl will have had multiple boyfriends before she attains the age of 28.

The average Jane who at least possessed an ounce of sanity, was not going to stay with her High-school sweetheart just because.

It is a vast minority of cases where you’d find a girl today over the age of 22, who had only been with 1 sexual partner, or had only have 1 intimate and committed relationship in her life.

Girls, whether consciously or subconsciously, know that relationships are NOT lasting while they themselves are still young.

I don’t need any datum and figures from the so-called expert to confirm what I just said.

Walk the streets and survey women under the age of 30!

Ask them how many relationships have they had since high school to present day.

You shouldn’t be shocked if you hear figures such as 5 or 6 being the standard.

However, RARELY, will you ever encounter a girl between the ages of 25 and 40 , who had only been in 1 sexual and monogamous relation in her entire life.

Women handle their shit differently!

They expect to date around, screw around, jump into numerous relations before actually having a long-term one which they expect to last.

Relationships involving a girl under the age of 28, will rarely ever last [relationships generally don’t last anyway]!

This is simply because a girl isn’t likely to want to settle before she hits 30 [and who would :?: ].

Women for the most part, only take settling seriously, once their vagina has been fucked out of commission [literally and figuratively].

It is when she will have realized that she’s 29, been in 6 relationships, had over 46 sexual partners, has 1 or 2 kids without stable fathers, feeling pretty lonely…it is then and mainly then, that a woman decides to give the settling thing a thought…or try.

She has nothing to lose as she realizes that she’s unable to compete with the spring chickens who are 10 years her junior.

Settling then becomes a viable option when her vagina will have already been shopworn, and her beauty fades ever so slightly.

However, before a girl hits that juncture in her maturation [let’s use age 29], settling and taking a relationship seriously, will have only been a farce.

She knows it!

Men don’t!

To every guy between the ages of 16 and 30 who is in a committed relationship with a girl who’s herself, under the age of 30, please learn to fucking manage your expectations from henceforth!

Stop expecting devotion and unconditionalities from someone [a girl] who hasn’t gathered enough life experiences as yet, to even know what unconditional and committed truly mean!

A girl fresh out of high school or the tertiary-education level, does NOT have a clue as to what ‘Lasting’ is.

Therefore, you’re setting yourself up [the boyfriend] for massive disappointment, in thinking that such a relationship with such a girl, is a prudent decision.

This isn’t the 1950’s when relationships really meant something.

Personally, I wish I knew then what I come to learn now through my personal experiences in prior relationships while in my 20’s.

I wouldn’t have tried so hard to make my relationships work…to no avail.

Ok, so what is the solution to the problem that many young guys face and will face?

I’ve already laid out the problems quite clearly.

The ultimate piece of advice with what I wish to leave you guys [particularly the -30’s], is that you should refuse to settle until you’ve attained the age of 30…at least.

As a 32 year old man to become 33 in February, I say this from experience.

Your teenage years and 20’s [even 30’s and 40’s], should be spent learning about life itself, and garnering as much information as possible to minimize the amount of damage you will have done to yourself.

Experience is the greatest teacher!

I agree!

However, why throw yourself into a burning building to see whether you’d live or die, when there already exist data and crazy people who’ve done this, and produced the results [death] for you?

I am telling you that girls between the ages of 16 and 29, do not want to fucking settle…even if they verbally claim they do: they do not know what they want!

Therefore, dial back your expectations whether you have a girlfriend and or merely having sexual relations with a girl who falls within that threshold [16-28].

It is to maintain your sanity that you take heed.

As a guy under the age of 29, your sole purpose in regards to women, should be of a sexual nature.

In layman’s terms: SCREWING!

That should be your primary concern when it comes to dealings with girls under 30.

You should not be contemplating relationship otherwise.

Trying to coax a young girl into accepting commitment when she hasn’t even experienced life, is a fool’s play on the guy’s part.

The world is filled with stimuli wherever you turn: the media, TV programs, radio, pop culture, trends, friends, etc.

Everything is working against your favor if you’re a young man who’s trying to lock a young girl into a committed relationship.

Her girlfriends, the ones who claim to be single and disengaged, won’t fucking allow it!

Your high-school sweetheart should be set free to live life, get hurt, feel pain and get burnt. Then she will have had sufficient experiences to know what life is about.

If you don’t let her go: she will liberate herself by dumping your ass anyway [with the encouragement/peer-pressuring of her girlfriends]!

A girl has to live life before she truly commits to any 1 guy.

You as a man, should embrace this and also seek to live life before committing.

It baffles my mind why more guys aren’t harboring this outlook on life: fun first then settlement last, rather than being ass-backwards about it, trying to seek to settle then have fun later…but there will be no time for fun since settling doesn’t mesh with fun.

Why is this so [that scores of young men and men in general, seek relationships when they should be having fun]?

SCARCITY!

Plain-old scarcity mentality is the culprit here.

Men seek to latch onto the 1st pussy they tap into, because there are no guarantees that they’ll get another pussy to fuck; especially in such a cold-dating world where it is dog eat dog.

Hence, if you had lucked up in getting yourself a girlfriend in high school or college, your inclination is to prolong this entanglement to the end of the Earth.

That is the mentality and adopted outlook of men today, who find themselves in relationships.

It is, “How long can I hold on to this girl”!

Don’t get me wrong, it’d be a coherent outlook only if the girl were on the same page.

However, she wants freedom from commitment.

In fact, she needs it but won’t necessarily voice it unless the stage is set for it.

Therefore, rather than waiting until you’re the dumpee, it’d be the wiser decision to sever the relationship- not by dumping her- but by encouraging her to live life, while gradually weaning her off of you, and you off of her.

Hence, it isn’t a hard dump but a soft landing…for lack of a better phrase.

If she’s mutually on board with the separation via “taking a break”: then that’s even better.

By no means should you be a 25 year old man locked into a committed relationship with someone just as young…or younger, because you think it is love or pre-destiny.

Relationships come and go [the vast majority go].

Thus should be your mindset towards them [relationships], until you will have lived to have more life experiences to then become a well-rounded individual who knows what sacrifice and commitment entail.

This level of life experience [which comes with age and time] CANNOT be reached in your 20’s!

This is advice for both males and females below the age of 29.

Treat relationships as mere steppingstones in life.

I repeat, if you take what I say as pure gibberish, honestly have a conversation with 10 girls whom you know [could be relatives], and ask them if they are still with the 1st guy whom they’d called boyfriend.

I guarantee you that 100% of those girls, will have said “NO! Of course not”!

Therefore, whether you as a guy like it or not [this hard truth]; the reality will remain, while women will continue to fuck you hand over fist due to your naiveté to female psychology and their behaviors in relationships.

If I can go back ethereally and counsel my naïve 23-year old self, I would tell him this:

“For every girl you meet, sex should be your sole intention. How long this sexual relationship last- doesn’t matter. As long as you avoid being sucked into the false sense of comfort of owning a woman via relationship, then you’re good, and you will have avoided undue headache”.

That’s what I would tell myself if I were to go back in time.

Therefore, I am telling you now that you’re still at that gullible age.

Screw all the pussy you can get until you attain a reasonable age where commitment becomes feasible and sane.

I found a video by RSD Owen which hits on the exact-same concepts I’d pointed out.

Reminder Of Why I Don’t Do Virgins [Wednesday Evening field-report update on 17 year old]


Part of why I don’t game, pick up nor bang young girls [meaning the ones under 22], is the potential virgin factor and what it enjoins.

Definitely not saying that all girls between the ages of 17 and 22 still hold their v-cards. But the reality is, a huge percentage (majority) will have been virgins…especially those between 17 and 19.

I’m not at all fond of virgins, which in essence, highlights my contentious attitude towards young girls.

Over the past month though, as documented on this site, I have been experimenting with the seduction of girls under 21…particularly 2 seventeen-year old chicks.

I haven’t updated you much, so here is that update.

Ok, so this 17 year old who’s featured in this field report, I’d met her some weeks ago [perhaps 5], and have even since been trying to seduce her. Not particularly to take her v-card [she is a virgin] but just to get intimate and to take note for further case study.

Over the past 5 weeks since I’d picked her up, we’d met about 4 separate times under the guise that I accompany her home during the evening trek.

Up to Tuesday evening we’d met under similar conditions where I took the trip with her home. But due to her parent’s strictness, we would go almost incognito then say our farewells before actually making it to her street (so as to avoid detection from her siblings and parents).

Meeting up with this HYT (Hot Young Chick), obviously isn’t a problem.

Logistics and getting her to stick to the script, are the issues.

As I mentioned in a recent post: Young girls have super-short attention spans and suffer from ADHD.

Therein lies the roadblocks.

Ok, so this evening, the plan was for her to meet me outside of my grandmother’s house.

Why grandma’s?

The young HB actually lives closer to my grandma’s than she does to me…although she still lives a great great distance from my grandmother’s, however it’s closer than she lives to me.

Finally, I got her to stick to the plan and she does meet me on the sidewalk outside of my grandma’s house, about 30 minutes after giving her directions of the streets.

The Whatsapp screenshot below shows where I try to direct her as she reached the designated street.

Now, the plan, as originated by myself, was to invite her into the yard [not the house] and we sit and chat out somewhere in the yard until it was time for her to leave.

This was not a bang-mission nor an attempt to get her into the house.

This was simply a sort of reconnaissance mission to gather intel on the seduction and behavioral patterns of teenage girls.

Sounds evil doesn’t it? :twisted: :twisted:

Well, what I come to learn about virgins over these years [through social analysis] is that they are highly attuned to attempts by males to deflower them.

“Attuned” is probably an understatement!

Along with that attunement comes a barrage of hypers-:

*hyper-fear,

*Hyper-alertness,

*Hyper-nervousness,

*Hyper-skepticism

…and that’s just to name a few.

For whatever reason, girls who still possess their v-card, hold dear to it like nobody’s business.

Every move from a guy who shows a liking to her, is registered by her brain as an attempt to rob her of that invaluable virginity.

Therefore, skepticism (opposed to gullibility) on her part, will have been at an ultra-high state whenever a guy tries to become acquainted with her.

Basically, she gave token protest to my suggestion that she enters the yard and we sit and chat there.

Hence, I was forced to exit the yard and stand with her on the sidewalk.

I could’ve lifted her ass up and hauled her into the yard: but coulda, woulda, shoulda!

Sidewalk interaction it is.

During our chat, she was very standoffish and kept herself at an unreasonable distance.

This is a far cry from the other 17 year old hottie, who wasn’t a virgin, thus allowed me free reign to be all up on her like white on rice, since she had no chastity to protect.

With virgins, at least at this stage in the game, they will rarely allow you to get physical and touchy-feely with them, until you would have fucked them.

Apart from that, you will have had to build tremendous amount of comfort and trust, in order that she submits to physical contact.

Anyway, so this virgin chick stood about 10 yards away from me while we chat.

Every 2 seconds or so, I would sternly command her:

“Come here”!

“Stand in front of me”!

“I rather you closer”!

Her: “Why? I can hear you from here”!

Me: “Come here before I grab you and bring you here”!

She would come closer to me but playfully retreat whenever my arm(s) extend.

Me: :mad: “l’m not tryna fucking grab you”!

Girl: :lol: “Yes you are”!

Me: “Come here…NOW”!

Girl: “Whaaaaaaaat! I’m here”!

This went back and forth for the duration of the meet-up.

My plan was to go KINO.

In other words, I wanted to touch her and possibly kiss her after I would have established some KINO-Escalation Ladder stuff like light touching and so forth.

This plan was thwarted by her virgin intuition which kept telling her:

“He’s trying to fuck you”.

Not to mention the fact that girls are hit on by grown men by the time they attain the age of 9, hence they are already socially conditioned from a very young pre-teen age, to men coming onto them.

This is exactly what was taking place here with my non-aggressive advances.

Coupled with the fact that girls respond to dominance and aggression in men.

Therefore, on 1 end: she wants me to be aggressive [manly], stern and chasing.

On the other hand- if I do chase and become aggressive- she flees in an attempt to guard her chastity.

Catch fucking 22, huh?

Anyway, so with every forward-physical advancement I made towards her; she took some lateral steps and backwards movements to maintain distance.

By no means is this fleeing on her part done in seriousness.

It is all playfully done while she chuckles.

In essence, this is push-pull as we’d say in Pickup.

It is akin to the mating rituals of humans and many animal species which date back millions of years in evolution.

Females flee and males chase.

It is just the nature of the game and the sexes.

Hence, in no way was I butt-hurt, confused, or discombobulated about what was taking place here.

I knew the situation and I very well knew the 3 main reasons as to why she acted that way [virginity, evolution and social conditioning].

This comes with the territory of seducing virgins.

All women partake in this push-pull ritual, whether virgins or grand harlots.

Only that virgins ramp it up a few notches out of fear and unfamiliarity with intimacy, romance and getting penetrated.

The girl who’s been fucked a few times, though she still plays the game, she is no stranger to being penetrated, thus the push-pull, ‘I run, you chase’, isn’t so religiously adhered to.

Me: “Come here”!

Girl: “Again? Gosh! What!”?

Me: “You look fucking sexy”!

She bursts out laughing and sucks her teeth.

Girl: “That’s what you called me for”!?

Another note on young girls [particularly the teenage virgins]: they don’t know how to handle a compliment on their sexuality.

Their mental faculty doesn’t know how to process it and what to make of it [sexualized commentary].

Though she may very well LOVE the sexualized compliment – once again- with a virgin, any verbal or physical play from a guy who’s interacting with her, will be translated as a move towards de-flowering her.

Hence, when I told her that she was sexy as fuck, she blushed and retreated simultaneously, unable to process such forwardness while guarding her chastity.

This is why I abhor chasing virgin poon.

It is time-consuming to say the least!

I have a friend who’s infatuated by the thought of virgin poon.

This guy took about 5 years religiously courting a virgin just to be the 1st to enter her.

Though an AFC [an average Joe who doesn’t know much about women], he was smart enough to figure out the push-pull nature of girls [virgins] and knew that he might have had to be in there for the long haul just to get the virgin notch.

It took him 5 years of daily, weekly, monthly and yearly courting to finally get the notch.

I wanted to point out that little tidbit just to show you guys that this isn’t an off-scripted rare occurrence that happened to occur in my interaction with this 17 year old HYT [Hot Young Thing].

Excessive push-pull is the rule!

Not an exception!

Anyhow, I made a few more attempts to coax her into the yard [my grandmother’s] by entering the yard myself.

She defiantly stays on the outside [sidewalk] while holding onto the gate as you can see in this crappy picture that I took last evening [Wednesday].

She stood holding the gate sorta flirting with the idea of entering but having 2nd thoughts.

By all means I recognize that such a move is purely token resistance which comes with the territory.

I could’ve simply grabbed her hands and pull her into the yard (which was what she needed and wanted), but I chose to pass on the aggressive route and banked on my verbal leading instead…to no avail. :(

Seeing that this wasn’t gonna go further, I relented from the idea of her coming in and decided to continue the chat on the sidewalk…which has already gone a great while.

Ok, I know that there are bound to be guys saying, “Kenny, she isn’t into you, and that’s why she’s playing games and acting so (playfully) defiant”!

I’m no fool in denial. But I totally disagree with that sentiment!

No girl who isn’t into a guy, would elect to take an evening trek [half an hour drive away from her part of town] just to meet up with a guy, and not be into him at all…or even a bit.

Remind you, this is about the 4th. time she’d met with me over the last month since we’d met.

Therefore, interest on her part is clearly there!

It takes a savvy guy with social intelligence to discern non-interest from interest, playful flirting from adamant defiance and so forth.

I’ve come across tons of guys over the years whom when given token resistance and push-pull from girls they were courting, end up throwing in the towel, under the impression that if a girl likes them, she will just readily comply to any demand, command, suggestion and invitation.

Men who understand women, and female psychology as it relates to courtship, understand how to discern interest from disinterest, like from dislike, genuine from token, etc.

Be as it may, I was so turned on by her physique that I decided to snap a few more picture by ensuring her that I won’t include her face in the shots.

She fought it then eventually abated from fighting.

Damn this girl’s body!!!!!!!

The boobs are even nicer but I wasn’t able to get a shot of those because of the crappy cellphone angle.

All in all, what did I accomplish last night, which seems to have been futile?

Going back to what I said earlier: this was a proverbial mission to gather intel on the seduction of teen-poon as a 32 year old man.

A lot of information was gathered and stored for future reference.

This is the beauty about Pickup and actually being in the field.

Guys like myself, don’t merely derive information and knowledge from books and studies done by men who have zero real-world experience.

Every concept of pickup, is done, tried and tested in the fucking field!

We don’t merely pompously pontificate on the topic of women, without having actual PROOF through trial and error to substantiate our claims and disclaimers.

Therefore, if you want to learn about women: go out there and meet them!

Ciao!

How I Manage My Week Between Work, Game, Partying, Blogging…

Presently, I’m working on 3 seduction e-book products simultaneously, while having just completed 3 products over the last 2 weeks.

Where the hell do I find the time…and what is my method to getting shit done?

This is a commonly asked question which I haven’t been able to rationalize to date.

What I can say for sure right now is that I notice that I do things very differently than other product-creators in the seduction genre.

One can almost tell with certainty as the sun rising tomorrow, when a pick-up instructor who runs a weblog, is working on a product.

The most apparent tell-tale sign is that their blogging drops off dramatically, where posting of contents such as articles and videos, becomes a rarity.

It seems real difficult to multi-task by concentrating on the production of products while steady pumping out articles.

For myself, this has never been a sticking-point.

What I do mainly, whenever I don’t multi-task things, is to allocate certain hour(s) of the day to specific tasks and jobs.

Ok, so this begs the question: Where and when do I find time to game and pick up chicks?

The simplest answer to this is that I do a bit of everything at every interval.

Vague as fuck huh?

Listen- honestly, I have no special routine or special time to get things done.

Generally, I would stay up until about 2 AM and rise at 5 AM to get ready for work at 8 AM. So I’m sleep deprived…though I don’t feel that way.

When I exit my abode, I step into my day ‘In State’.

If you aren’t au-fait with pick-up community jargon, that means I’m in the state of mind to pick up or meet women.

I no longer have to work myself up to get in state as we all do as newbies and intermediates.

Once I step outside of my apartment door headed to my 9-5 day job, I am open for pickup.

With this being the case, I actually never allocate and set aside specific time and days for pickup.

On my way to grab breakfast at 6:30-7 AM at a local bakery, I am actually in sarge mode and it is game on.

As I hit the bakery, if there’s a girl there who tickles my fancy, I lock on, approach, and pick her up…or at least attempt to.

Hence, that is sarge time and day-game at the crack of dawn basically.

As I exit the bakery to make the customary-short commute to work, that is also an opportune moment that I’m vigilant and on the prowl for something that turns me on.

Again, that is almost 2 hours of my day [7 to 9 AM], that alongside my usual tasks [breakfast and commuting], I am also chatting up/picking up girls.

So- again- where do I find time to game?

Little snippets of time in between my usual tasks and errands.

This is done throughout my work hours from 9 AM to 4 PM.

A good example is lunch-breaks.

Most guys waste their lunch hours by neglecting to capitalize off of it to kill 2 birds with 1 stone…if you understand the metaphor.

I take my quasi-mandatory lunch-break at either 12 or 1 PM.

What do I do and where do I go?

More often than not, I would hit up a nearby snackette, grab a coffee and 2 hot dogs, and await some girls for me to chat up.

Grabbing cup of Joe and hot dog

Grabbing cup of Joe and hot dog

That’s another hour of game time.

In between lunch and 4 PM, I squeeze in a bit of time to game also.

On my way home: same story. I’m on the alert for girls who pass my proverbial boner-test.

From 6 PM to about 9 PM, I am usually out and about, grabbing dinner by my grandmother’s, taking care of other stuff while gaming also with a bit of night and evening game.

That is my weekday in a microcosm.

Ok, with all that being said, where do I find the time to blog, constantly put out articles numerous times a day, and work on products such as e-books and stuff?

From where am I getting the time?

Interestingly enough, mobile internet proves to be a lifesaver and time-saver for most of what I want to get done.

A hundred percent of my articles and blog posts are composed on my smartphone: be it the iPhone or my antiquated Blackberry Curve.

I’ve yet to type or publish an article from a desktop or laptop computer since I’ve started posting articles circa 2009.

It is all done from a cellphone.

How does this prove handy in relation to other things that I have going on?

Well, I’m able to write articles on the go.

That’s a huge plus.

Just as the case with game and pickup, I squeeze in a minute or 2 in between errands and so forth, to construct some articles.

While heading to work, I would be putting a post or 2 together and simultaneously gaming girls if there are any.

After I would’ve chatted up a chick or 2: back to completing the article on the go.

As for my pickup products and e-book composition: practically the same is done as the other tasks mentioned.

I have a word-document application downloaded to my antiquated Blackberry, which I utilize to write and format my e-books professionally.

Once again, I’m able to save and kill valuable time as opposed to working from a computer which is more time-consuming and renders me stagnant in 1 place.

I’ll tackle the remaining questions on the subject in a subsequent post.